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There are no coincidences...I guess

A friend told me once that there were no coincidences so everything happens for a reason. The hard part is to understand what the reason is. Life changes so quicky showing us nothing is the way we think. No matter how much we work on something or how perfect our plans are theres always a chance of a drastic change. So I really wonder if its possible to understand all those reasons.roll eyes

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what your friend really means is ..whatever comes along in life..its supposed to may say..i planned this to happen,,and your friend would say to you.."you planned it because you were supposed to plan far as understanding if theres a lesson to be learned..(all you have to do is stop and reflect)
Hello again MaruQ wave

I was just watching this less than 15 mins ago. Do you mind if i share it here? Thanks hug

Thanks for commenting Nam! Im still not sure its so easy to understand for me. peace
Hi Mimi. Dont worry its a free site. You can share anything you like. peace
May be ur friend see the reason instead of coincidences. Yes, there is always possibility to understand all those reasons. if we want, we can know them all.
Thanks for all your comments guys.
Bed time here in Lima. Have a nice Wednesday.thumbs up
Hello MaruQ I think there are coincidences, a lot in fact (jmo).handshake wave
wave Hi yes everything happening for a reason either it gives you a lesson or make you strong. People are passing our path not for nothing.. they make you to understand lot of things.teddybear Trying to understand the reasons and why kind of wasting time how about leave all behind back and move on?comfort
Hola Maru. Como estas?

Here, I have just copied a blog that I had written last year on this topic:

"People come into your life for a REASON, a SEASON or a LIFETIME.

When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy…
Believe it, it is real, but............... only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
Things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional
Your job is to accept the lesson,
Love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other
relationships and areas of your life.


It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life,

besides me like digging holes in the ground/soil.
MMMMMMm maybe WE find a reason for things happeningconfused it makes us more peaceful I reckon if we do not blame ourselves maybe.
I just take life as it comes and strive for something I realy need in my life I truly do not think anything just comes along and sits on your lapgrin hug teddybear
Thanks for sharing Minerva, a beautiful blog I have to say.
I agree with you too Redex its a good way of living.
Guadal maybe your jokes would be funny if you do them on Spanish my mexican friend!

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