There are no coincidences...I guess

by MaruQLima, Peru

Jul 2014 674 Views 12 Comments

A friend told me once that there were no coincidences so everything happens for a reason. The hard part is to understand what the reason is. Life changes so quicky showing us nothing is the way we think. No matter how much we work on something or how perfect our plans are theres always a chance of a drastic change. So I really wonder if its possible to understand all those reasons.

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namaron•Jul 1, 2014•Seekonk, Massachusetts USA

what your friend really means is ..whatever comes along in life..its supposed to happen...you may say..i planned this to happen,,and your friend would say to you.."you planned it because you were supposed to plan it..as far as understanding if theres a lesson to be learned..(all you have to do is stop and reflect)

Mimi1973•Jul 1, 2014•Perak,, Malaysia

Hello again MaruQ

I was just watching this less than 15 mins ago. Do you mind if i share it here? Thanks

MaruQOP•Jul 1, 2014•Lima, Peru

Thanks for commenting Nam! Im still not sure its so easy to understand for me.

MaruQOP•Jul 1, 2014•Lima, Peru

Hi Mimi. Dont worry its a free site. You can share anything you like.

bhadra•Jul 1, 2014•Kathmandu, Central Nepal Nepal

May be ur friend see the reason instead of coincidences. Yes, there is always possibility to understand all those reasons. if we want, we can know them all.

MaruQOP•Jul 1, 2014•Lima, Peru

Thanks for all your comments guys.
Bed time here in Lima. Have a nice Wednesday.

Garytee•Jul 2, 2014•nsw, New South Wales Australia

Hello MaruQ I think there are coincidences, a lot in fact (jmo).

Zeurich•Jul 2, 2014•unknown, Utrecht Netherlands

Hi yes everything happening for a reason either it gives you a lesson or make you strong. People are passing our path not for nothing.. they make you to understand lot of things.

Trying to understand the reasons and why kind of wasting time how about leave all behind back and move on?

Minerva88•Jul 2, 2014•Beach Paradise, Murcia Spain

Hola Maru. Como estas?

Here, I have just copied a blog that I had written last year on this topic:

"People come into your life for a REASON, a SEASON or a LIFETIME.

When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that
Person…

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy…
Believe it, it is real, but............... only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
Things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional
foundation…
Your job is to accept the lesson,
Love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other
relationships and areas of your life.

FORGIVE THEM and THANK THEM ALL FOR THE LESSONS YOU HAVE LEARNED.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life,

guadal•Jul 2, 2014•Heidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany

no,none

besides me like digging holes in the ground/soil.

Redex•Jul 2, 2014•Northumberland, England UK

MMMMMMm maybe WE find a reason for things happening

it makes us more peaceful I reckon if we do not blame ourselves maybe.
I just take life as it comes and strive for something I realy need in my life I truly do not think anything just comes along and sits on your lap

MaruQOP•Jul 2, 2014•Lima, Peru

Thanks for sharing Minerva, a beautiful blog I have to say.
I agree with you too Redex its a good way of living.
Guadal maybe your jokes would be funny if you do them on Spanish my mexican friend!

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