Because they don't like her!
The workers were arranging a fun night out but they wanted to avoid telling one member of staff. I was very uncomfortable about this and I didn't know how to broach it. The unliked person received a phone call saying that a loved one had died.I stuck my neck out and said to the other staff that I wasn't happy with this arrangement and to imagine how hurt this person is going to be.
The bereavement just made it easier to say!
What would you have done?
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If so that was mean and totally wrong to do.
I would think that this person that is not liked would know that no one likes her and would not even want to attent
Is she really that hard to like?
Noooo! It was the unliked person who had been bereaved. Very sad!
I thought these were nice people but when I objected they came at me like weasels!
Left me feeling quite depressed.
Could be a class issue!
If she's matured enough she'd keep her distance but she isn't then she'll confront them but as long as I've told the truth I believe I'm free
Would you like a job? lol
So the others took advantage and arranged a "Fun" night out?
Leaving her to deal with her grief alone?
She's a very caring and observant person so I really don't get it. It was true about her loss and very sad and I think if she felt left out she'd get very interested in joining us and tell us so.
I say 'us' loosely as I won't be going unless she's invited.
I'm sure she doesn't know this is going on. I will take a bereavement card in tomorrow. She was devastated at her loss! who wouldn't be!
I'll invite her in front of them; perhaps that's the way forward.