i need advice on this even construtive criticism i
last xmas myself and a best friend fell out after 35 years of been excellent friends and it was all to with another guy that treated relations of mine badly even though that guy was related to me usually at xmas time we meet for a drink because he takes holidays and travels back to ireland for xmas .amas gone i rang him to meet for a drink and he told me this yr he wouldnt be meeting me this xmas because i wasnt friends with the other guy and it was too awkward i said fine sure we can meet some other day but he declined the offer and i was very hurt by it.last nyt i was out he was in the local pub and ignored me but his wife is a very gd friend of mine said we should patch it up i said no problem but ive decided to move if ppl cant make time for me for xmas drink was the friendship really one in the first place please be honest with me as what should i do? thank you all
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then make your decision, only Moc can decide whats best for Moc.
Take care
It isnt easy making decisions about long term friendships, a short letter might do the trick,
to clear the air maybe? Its Worth a try, sad but reality kicks in sometimes, and we have to act accordingly
and carry on.
Be strong
sounds to me like hes a big sulky baby that wants his own way more so than keeping you as friend.
Maybe it was time for your friendship to end and move on?
Then, think of the reason why he was in your life all those years, and why it ended, and what the lesson was?
Just seek other people and if you already have other good friends just stay with them.
You don't have to like everyone just like they don't have to like you.