judemental people

why are ppl so judgemental on people from a photograph rather than speaking to them
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People normally put up a pic to get a certain reaction. What reaction r u looking for?
Never judge a Man or Woman until youve walked a mile in his or her shoes... Tiz a great statement and one that everyone should practice i think..conversing uh oh cheers
I think we naturally start judging people & the first thing is we see the way they look, after that it would be what they say, how they sound & finally their smell uh oh laugh using your profile picture as an example, my mind is weighing up whether you've A-failed to master taking a photo, B-not read the rules on uploading pictures, C-read the rules & decided they don't apply to you dunno that may sound quite rude but the mind does this automatically imo, I don't know you but I've automatically come to a conclusion based solely on your picture doh beer
its not abt the reaction but the dissmissive action before you ever chat to a person whether they judge ppl on colour age or creed its apalling
already youve judged z lmaohandshake cheers
HI mocwave good to see you on here.thumbs up

You have a good point there. We do tend to make
That initial first impression very quicklythumbs down

All i could recommend is that people remember we
Are starting from scratch.handshake

Happy blogginghandshake thumbs up

Seanwave
Manu, making a quick judgement comes naturally in order to preserve life imo, you do it without thinking, example, this stranger approaches you in the street, are you going to get to know him dunno laugh rolling on the floor laughing

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As I said u publish a pic in whatever form to get a specific reaction that u planned on. On the blogs we see the pic and determine the person after speaking to him on said blogs before I judge. Yes I also judge. Normally after I get the feel of the person.
No reason not to stop and talk to a person that you
Do not know Z. wave

As long as neither of you are in danger or uneasyapplause

A person not an acquaintance does not equal a strangerthumbs up

Seanhandshake wave
well said manu ye bit the dust today tipp footballers doing well in under 21 final
Thanks Moc wave

Missed a penalty and time almost upthumbs down

Tipp are going ok.
Conditiond must be awful. Still.

Same for both sidesapplause

Sean .thumbs up wave handshake
I just do my best to avoid 'judgemental' people. uh oh
moc
Your picture is rather blurry...maybe you don't want people to get to know you...something to hide?... dunno
thanks lou lou and lonely nothing to hide just when i was taken the picture the camera seemed to catch the light all the time well lonely your right in what you say we do judge on pictures as is said on here in the blog
Hi Moc wave
i don't ever judge anyone by a picture however i do know by a picture if he is someone i am or could be attracted to.
hi itchy im in galway tmorrow nyt and mon if around for coffee
I don't care too much to what people think of my photograph... I let them free to judge me. if their judge is good... good for them, if they judge is bad... who cares grin

What matter for me is I know who I am and what I want....
Hello again Moc wave

I'v just recently given up the coffee...
lately it gives me hearburn conversing
oh itchy im not your cup of t socrying lol
Sorry Moc hug
itchy talk about judging the book by the cover lmaohug
Eh hello Moc ..but your giving out about people judging from pictures yet your judging my interest in you because of my reply..maybe why i said no has nothing what so ever got to do if your my cup of tea or not.. scold
lol or mayb youve met me before
I thought we cleared that matter up...
that we haven'tconfused

But i can't shake the feeling your who i think you areroll eyes

he too was very fond of his cuppa's coffee

you in galway for the long wkend?
no travelling tommorrow meeting two friends of mine for a few pints tmorrow night nothing major just need a break from home for a night well tell me who you think i am give me a name and il tell you who i amcheers
you are him.. but it would take meeting you to confirm that for me... how are all those children of yours, you had a football team had you not wink
now itchy youve me baffled never married no kids single nearly 5 years i coach football teams at senior adult level i am who i am
hey Moc if your still there....
do you remember the card reading i once gave you? roll eyes
no i never got one from you
Fair enough Moc your not him...
thank god wink
There is a photo and a profile text - I did make up my mind about someone mainly based on their profile text.
itchy where do you think you met me im gone out of galway 11 yrs
single nearly 5 yrs have still alot of friends in galway miss it bigtime
Thought you were someone i worked with on a night shift...
but no matter, i now believe your not him wave
no itchy i never done shift work only in the night club lolbeer
So you were a night club bouncer..knew i knew your face, weren't you the one that once threw me out on my a**... sad
jesus no as in night shift kissing a lady on the dancefloor not a bouncer either lollaugh rolling on the floor laughing
Oops, i'm abit slow and ditsy at times...
what to say, but i'm blond roll eyes giggle

Lordy but i'm glad you told me that, i was almost going to say yes about meeting you tomorrow but given your a bit of a womaniser perhaps its best i don't..uh oh
actually im not itchy quiet yhe opposite i like a few pints and a laugh ive got used of been on my own if i meet a woman i treat them very well if theres a spark theres a spark if not i accept them for who they are
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