Forgive and forget...
When you love someone with all your heart, and you can't be with that person... the only thing you can do is to wish for him the best... wish him will able to be happy with his life...We may not able to forget, but will forgive...
2015-09-06
Mimi
Comments (2)
Yes, it is very difficult to love fall in love with someone that we cannot be with.
But, if we have loved someone and they have done the wrong thing in the relationship and walked out on us, it is very good to forgive that person, but also acknowledge that what they did is wrong and to be wary of wanting to get back together with someone who could quite easily hurt us again.
People think the to forgive is to let go of the wrong. This is not true. Forgiveness of that person is to allow us to move onto someone else without the bad baggage of that other person. Forgiveness is to let us love someone else as they deserve without the ghost of our ex-partner.
Every relationship leaves its tattoo on our heart, and sadly each new relationship never gets all of our heart, because some of our heart has been broken off and given to those who came before.
This is reality, and we never forget those who we were in relationship before, just as we try not to make the same mistakes and allow ourselves to fall in love with someone who will hurt us the same way again.
Cheers.