We Are All Weak and Incomplete Without Each Other
There is no such thing as “equality” between a man and a woman. We can only be truly happy in a relationship if we understand and accept our imperfections and roles in a relationship.Men are always the protector, the provider, the tougher and stronger one. Men do harder work that women can’t physically achieve. Men pick up the gun , keep his wife and kids safe in the room before opening the door and face the dangers outside. Men make and take the hard the decisions that women will have hard time deciding. Men can take emotional and physical pain to keep going than most women ever could. Men will man up and do everything to keep his woman, children and family safe. With some exception, men have the balls.
Women are there to support the men who protect them . Women’s emotional, mental, social and spiritual supports keep their men going…motivate them to do better and be better men for women, better father for their children. Women may not be physically as tough as the men but we women have plenty softness and gentleness that could melt our man’s heart and make a better man out of him. Though many women tried to replace a man’s place by wearing a “strap on”…balls will always be for the men.
We shout for “equality”…women go out to work and try to succeed more than other men ever could…resulting in broken family, neglected children, divorces. We can work and provide for our children too but how far will we go to prove that we are “equal” to the men?
This is my personal opinion and does not apply to “men” who aren’t man enough nor “women” who are too tough and strong to be a woman.
Been busy these days, so tired of being strong…I need a man!
Miss the fun banters here...hope you all having a nice day/night there
Comments (69)
there are many good men out there but many feel threatened by us women...we became fussy and most men seem not to be good enough for us because we are more successful than them...stronger than them, we keep looking for someone compatible for us...but the more successful and stronger we are, the more difficult it is to find that someone compatible or good enough for us
There are still many men like that...there are many here in Jordan and for sure in other parts of the world too.
Good to see you back, long time no see here
Yes, each to their own but sometimes we find it difficult to know and find what we really really want...many feel and think things differently today and diferrently tomorrow, I'm no exception
Crazy for me your statement is not true, not for all of my life at least. I could not have had my sons without a bbbbb
BUT
so men are just desserts then ?
You are a very wise woman....I guess as you say, that would be a bonus for your man.
I do agree with everything you have said.
but
I also agree with what others have said too....about each their own. People are going to have their beliefs about their place in the world and in relationships. It is up to the people getting into a relationship to better understand people in general and to understand what a potential partner is expecting.
When it comes to understanding what your partner wants....sometimes their actions speak louder than their words.
Me personally, I do not mind a strong woman in my life...as long as she is not irrational. I know...irrational to whose standards.
A great blog....who knows, it might make some reconsider their ways.
When I was married, I was always look forward to that time he knocks at the door...dinner is heating up, I've showered and looking pretty...sometimes he brings a small surprise...bliss!
You had a wonderful marriage and grew old with the man you loved and respected...and I can tell that you will keep on cherishing those wonderful life you had with him....that's the kind of relationship I wanted for myself but sadly, life is never perfect for all of us
when the going gets tough, only the tough gets going...
He had his own key...it did annoy me from time to time to run and open the door for him specially when I'm busy with something...but he liked it when I open the door and greet him,, specially when our son came along...it was always the best part of our day...when he gets home and bring some surprise every now and then
and I always make it a point to look ravishing by the time he gets home...now I don't care how I look anymore
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CC,
You had a wonderful marriage and grew old with the man you loved and respected...and I can tell that you will keep on cherishing those wonderful life you had with him....that's the kind of relationship I wanted for myself but sadly, life is never perfect for all of us
CH maybe it lasted as long as it did cause he and I didn't care about the "Equality" part.
YES!
In a relationship, there's no "equality"...only love, respect and happiness, but then that's just my personal opinion.
You should know me by now...I was joking!
Never loved and left anyone ...yet
I love your new photo, by the way
to be fair and honest...I only do that "love them and leave them" thing online
I'm very harmless in real life
I mean strong in a sense that she can confidently express herself. She can openly communicate with her partner. She is strong enough to not put up with any BS....but handle those situations in a mature way.
I like a woman who can handle herself in public situations and around people. I wouldn't want a woman who has an inherent anger built up against a man or men....and she does not know how to differentiate that anger with any future man she may meet.
She would also need to be compassionate. There is a time to be strong and a time to be loving.....it does not need to be one way or the other...black or white....many shades of grey out there...(more than 50 too).
and
She must be strong enough to haul all the firewood to the house.
haul firewood into the house?...what the heck? That's your job! You've got the muscles...put them to good work
And that is basically what you have to do if you don't earn your own money, and are depending on handouts to survive
From all this differing of opinions...it seems that we do need to communicate more with our prospective partners to find that good fit...values and expectations in life...and some honesty!!
Once a month allowance will do and a credit card...
Seriously when I was married, I can't recall opening my hands to my husband...that's because he always made sure that I have what I needed and wanted...and more. I was lucky I guess. His deal with me when he asked me to give up my job was that, he will give me what I earn from my job...that was very fair plus he's kind and generous, likes to fill our home with nice things and to see me and our kid enjoying and having a good life. He said that his happiness was and will always be too see me and our son happy, in good health and living a comfortable life. Now, that's what I call a MAN.
good fit, that's very rare. we simply need to find someone we're comfortable with, with whom we can be who we are, work on bringing the best out of each other...that's how a relationship should work. I don't believe in rules and equality in a relationship...it's about acceptance, giving, loving, respect...etc...money shouldn't be the center of it, it keeps us going but it shouldn't define our happiness.