Rudeness

Few weeks ago there's this man who messaged me and after a while asked my fb id to chat there. Well because of my privacy settings I asked his fb id instead,so he gave it and I sent him a friend request, he accepted it and we chatted there.

But the next day I became so busy that I couldn't response fast and sometimes also because of our time differences. He messaged me saying I am rude and unfriended me so I apologized. I said sorry and explained why I replied late. He says maybe I am not yet ready for a relationship and all then we said bye in a good way.

After 3 or 4 days we had a chat again and he sent me a friend request again so I accepted it. We chatted only for like 5 mins. or only exchanged 5 messages I think then we moved on. No chat again after my last message to him that he didn't answer. Lol..

Then all of a sudden last two days ago he messaged me here asking if I am ready now to give him time to get to know and be in a relationship. So because I thought he's a nice guy and really sincere I said yes but I told him to be more patience because I can't always response fast as I am not online all the time. And he said yes and asked again for my fb id. And I was like, '' What??? AGAIN???'' Lol I mean all I know is we are already friends there. Yes for the second time actually after the unfriended thing.

So I felt offended and dissapointed to know he unfriended me again for the second time around. I felt bad because as far as I know I didn't do anything bad to him. If he felt ignored it was not intentionally and I apologized and he accepted it so why? WHY HE KEPT ADDING AND UNFRIENDED PEOPLE then call people the ''Rudest person he ever know''. Aww I really felt so bad. I told him in a nice way that I think we're not for each other and that I can't be his fb friend for the third time because I'm offended and dissapointed after he unfriended me twice. And that's it
He said I am the rudest woman he ever know and told me to go hurt other people. Even called me little girl. Haha.. then blocked me..

Okay... done ranting.. So , Am I really rude? :(
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Comments (13)

No but sheesh he is!
Jeepers...how old is he? 13? doh
I wouldn't say rude, but I would say immature. You should have picked up the clue the first time around. What do you think this guy would be like to be with or married to? I can tell you instantly. A serial controller. If that's what you need then push ahead with it.
Aquayuuki You should have never allowed him to treat you the way he did the first time.

He would had never heard from me again.
Thanks guys for all your opinions. They're all very much appreciated. And yes it's my fault I think that I gave him second chance when its all obvious that he's kinda demanding and all. Well, lesson learned. Thanks! Have an awesome day/night everyone! xx
Thanks guys for all your opinions. They're all very much appreciated. And yes it's my fault I think that I gave him second chance when its all obvious that he's kinda demanding and all. Well, lesson learned. Thanks! Have an awesome day/night everyone! xx
The guy is too much work.doh Be glad he's gone and don't accept him back again!
Nah youjustconnnected with a psycho. what country is he fromm?
I think you've dodged a bullet there girl........... frustrated
Hope i dont meet him............devil
don't change only because some stranger gives you weird actions.

He is clearly with his mind on a different level in your communication.
For the rest i find him quite abusive and still he can do this act on 10 women at the same time.

Next step is that he starts to lie.

Well yeah it is a fast way to see you are not compatible
you were smart not to give him your facebook id. i pulled mine off. too many friends on that thing = identity theft.
Thanks Johnjim. :)
@anglteller yup hope so.. :)

@Len thanks and yes we're not compatible and im glad for that. Lol
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