Introduction
they care, they ask and they try to find measures. Most of them come to a common measure, introducing men that they think are good and compatible for me.I have kept avoiding dating meetings arranged by my colleagues, friends and relatived but lately i accepted to meet 1 man. It was quite awkward. We have nice hours long conversation to see that we have very few things in common lol.
Now other friends are proposing other meetings. I am fed up with it but the pressure keeps pressing me everyday. How many failures to reach 1 success? If following the formular off 99 failures per 1 success, maybe i ll get 1 when i get around 60 years old lol.
He broke his plan with customer to spare any time for helping me. He does anything i ask. i wish i could return his "friendship" or at least introduce someone suitable for him...
Why is life teasing us a lot? People keep chasing each other. Should i just let it be, let it come naturally or keep on searching?
Comments (12)
Hope you are enjoying your weekend
I'm not pretending that I know what you are going through. There is non such pressure on me from my family and friends, it would go more towards the opposite.
You can't change their expectations of you. You said you have a good job, is it possible to get your company to send you away for a while? It might not be easy, but being away from them all, you can live your own life and be away from their pressures.
Just a question LS, do you know how their marriages are going, if they are happy and do you want the same happiness, or are they not happy and you don't want to end in the same situation?
I have female friends who absolutely wanted kids - and picked SOMEONE available. The cases that haven't broken up are not doing great.
I wish you best of luck to meet someone you can share your life and goals with, just choose wisely.
I know and feel for you my dear, mass media is just a presuring as your friends.
your friends mean well, just remember misery loves company.
single or married if you force things misery will definatly be what you find.
no quick answere my dear.
is we figure it out then we will be rich!!!