behind the screen
online dating has become the norm these daysthere is a lot of faceless profiles of people
we only know its a person's profile because dogs and cats etc cannot type .
now there are also the profiles that have a face but doesnt belong to the person behind the screen.
and there are the ones that have 20 year old pics that goes with a prime age .
whats up with that?
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yes thats true but for the real people out there it doesnt take much update their pics now and again does it?
Were all getting Older
Maybe They dont update because They Dont Like What They See?
(You Have To look At it from all Angles)
Sometimes Its not Being deceptive
They Just dont Like What They see In The mirror
And yes I Know
We cant judge Ourselves
Only others can do That.........................
Waiting On a response
Gotta Go.......................................
yes i agree but isnt it deceptive to others when they think u look like a 30 year old when in fact u look much older?
and again isnt it better to know firsthand if the person is interested in the beginning than later on?
Who want's to get close to someone who's just going to reject them for their looks later?
I see some girls standing high enough to look over the tops of the car they are next to and give their height as 3'11".
I saw one girl looking for a guy between 6 and 12 inches tall. Hmmm
I don't think they were thinking what some of you will say about that.
I want to believe they don't understand English very well as opposed to trying to deceive others, but it starts to make you wonder.
The idea somebody would be curious about me and not the way I look..
But it didn't work...
Just enjoy it, and don't fret the small stuff.
The topic of this thread is profiles that lie with their pics. The reason they lie is that they can't attract someone when being honest.
In regards to that – I know people that are not realistic with what they can attract and instead of doing a reality check and working on themselves, they are hanging around dating websites for years and in some cases trying to meet someone from a poor country – someone they can dominate in some cases.
I know cases like this, why do you feel it hits home for you? I do know couples that come from different continents and they met in person and started a family and there are several couples from different continents that met here on CS and are still together.
My point was being unrealistic and not willing to look and work at themselves .
And sorry, but you did nothing for 4 years?!? I don't know you and don't get me wrong, but I do know a lot of good, decent men that have a partner. Some worked on themselves as in getting more outgoing, joining different organisations to meet people etc.
my deli ma is and i know its not just not only in one country but worldwide its just a hope that u will find one somewhere its best to broaden your search at all times if u were to stay in the confinement of your own country only may never happen or u just give up and settle for what u can find at your fingertips
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and yet again we all say we want or need and is searching for a person of such quality but still we have to keep in mind that we will never find any one person with all the qualities we seems to seek.
i am searching outside my country because i see too many jokers around me i need someone who can look forward to a future and not only see the tip of their toes .
and thats hard to find in my neck of the woods not that it doesnt exist but in order to be successful one have to have a steady head and the will to go forward am not seeing that here
I want to thank you for your answer.
It means a lot to me and I want you to know that even if I see it a little differently, I still agree with what you said.
God bless you always.