Lifestyle Blogs (2,471)

My cousin has lived here,together with me for 3 months.Lots of times,i have got angry with him for staying at home all day doing nothing at all.At times i hoped he left at once for he was really a lazybones.Now.I've almost run out all my money and worried for days,to make matters worse,the only friend here,my cousin's left as well.This afternoon when he asked me if i could accompany him to the railway station,turning round,i said i was not interested,in a cold voice.He must have been dismayed.Actually it was because i was afraid to come home alone after he had left...for we were together in our hardest days

live your life people will still talk about you leave the world behind you and do not worry when you're gone tomorrow then they stop

Living in a fantasy world
Why do we day dream while studying?
Why do we fantasize about other people?
Why do we visualize ourselves as heroes, saviors or legendary characters?

The human brain was designed brilliantly. It can allow us to imagine ourselves going anywhere, at anytime and with anyone. While that brain feature is very tempting to use not all people use it with the same frequency.

Some people for example waste the whole day fantasizing about different things, Others only fantasize when they do a certain task that requires concentration such as studying or working.

So the question is, why don't we all fantasize equally?This is why people Fantasize and day dream
Below are the most common reasons that motivate people to fantasize:

1) Planned distraction: Sometimes you find yourself in confusing situations where you have to do a certain task because its important yet in the same time you find it unbearable. Studying a difficult chapter or doing a hard task might be very unpleasant and that's where your subconscious mind moves in to distract you with fantasies on purpose. When i used the term planned distraction i wasn't referring to your conscious plans but rather to the plans of your subconscious mind
2) Fear: Lets suppose that your subconscious mind believed that you wont get good grades even if you studied well. In such a case your self esteem will be affected badly as a result of believing that you are not incompetent. How can this problem be solved? Simply by day dreaming all day you wont have a time to study and when you get bad grades you can safely blame your inability to concentrate instead of blaming your mind. (see also Why can't i concentrate when i study)
3) Unfulfilled dreams and unmet goals: Most people fantasize about what they didn't manage to do in real life. One of the most common uses of a fantasy is to satisfy a need that you couldn't manage to satisfy in the real world. For example, if you always wanted to marry a certain person but that person got married then you might start fantasizing about being with him
4) Running away: When reality becomes too tough to be handled many people escape to fantasies in order to feel better. That's why people fantasize more often after going through drastic failures. After experiencing some kind of a loss a person might start fantasizing just to run away to a virtual world where he can feel more in control (see also Escaping from reality)
5) Reflection of suppressed desires: Many people fail to communicate their real needs to others as a result of social pressure. Some people have uncommon desires that they can't state because of shame. Those people usually use fantasies to unleash these desires without experiencing shame. This is also the reason why your fantasies can tell a lot about your personalityBy M.Farouk Radwan,

1- Las Vegas
2- San Francisco
3- Rome
4- London
5- Paris

i hardly start to believe that women were created for a relationship with one man but the men for more than one woman at a time.... i know some of you wont agree with me but if you honestly observe the situation in all angles you will be agree .

It blows dust on the horizon
There is a danger of anything happening above us
O! Big omnipotence let you go
And let thundering off and on
And if you like the lightning strike
But let my last bit of hope
Not in flames until some smoke
But let me dream this night
And tomorrow get up with a smile
And forget every day

I am seeing trends, events, and cloudy horizons. I try to view things as independent events, but I see points of potential co-joinment for some things. I remember my classes in Chaos theory and my civil engineering classes about cascade events.

I find I am growing nervous when I ponder some things and the possible long term consequences of them meshing. No one incident, event or trend is yet nameable as a cause, but I see CHANGE approaching.

Elsewhere I wrote about storing a week or more of food or water. Obviously with Texas and Oklahoma today such storage should be in water proof containers, i.e., sealed heavy weight plastic bags or cans or hermetically seled jars (i.e., home canned).

Today I would add one more advice to those who would listen. Reduce your body fat to less than 10% and become more physically fit.

I don't care if you low level treadmill, walk 10 miles every other day, or ride a bike. Just do something and lose the fat that saps your fitness.

I fear the coming changes I speculate about may also have physical elements and being fit enough to face them may generate a major personal advantage over those who are not.

My sympathies and best wishes who for medical reasons can not do much to improve themselves physically.

I am hoping I am 100% space cadet in my foreboding, but as stated, I fear we may be in for change. I can not speculate as to the nature of it, but I do grow nervous. As a timeline best guess, within 4 or 5 years.

Will you come to a very distant land
a luxury hotel on the poor beach Come on, wow hey hey hey heey

Close to a child who is hungry
and lives in a slum garbage
ow no, haaa oow

Hell is as close to Utopia!

The world people together, uh!
Rid the world of her tears
Believe me, there is an end to fear and hate
It's not too late!

So do not say you're lonely
It is expected storm
And whatever happens
We'll be together tonight
But think of that one
And there are many people
They will weep again tonight
Because the wind cries never alone
They are so alone
They are so alone
Again, my love
Do not say you're lonely

If you are old and lost
At the end of your story are
And where no one will recognize you even in
Then it will be clear that you're lonely.
When my passion will be consumed
If no day is more that inspires
And your contemporaries are dead or demented
Then it will be clear - you're lonely
Yes - if that recognizes
Then it will be clear - you're lonely.