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Reflecting on this thing called life one must determine for themself what is truly important and what is not. I have been absent from this site and others as I have been attending to what I feel is important in my life. Priorities differ from one to another and since each of us has been endowed with "free will" we are ultimately able to choose what is and isn't of importance.

I enjoy watching college football immensely, however, the National Championship game is on at this moment and my television set is turned off. I have chosen to follow a different pathway tonight instead though the game I am sure will find its way to my eyes before the night is over.

So fellow cs members, what are the most important things in your life? Has it always been this way or have life experiences tempered your prioities? For me, God is number one by a long shot followed by family and friends. Career, money and material items are much further down on my list (probably in the basement actually). So that is where I am with life right now. Funny how my top three have changed very little over time or with multiple life changing events.

So where are you? What is "truly important" in your life. Again since we are all very different there is no right or wrong answer to a comment you choose to post on this blog. Curious minds want to know! Where are you today?

What truly is important to you????

Why is there such difference between men and women. Women communicate more effectively are more emotional and tend to focus on solutions that favours the family. Men on the other hand are more task oriented, less talkative and more isolated. Women use both hemispheres of their brains while men are more active with the left hemisphere of their brain. They are more adept to problem solving while women are more creative with problem solving. Men have the fight or flight response in dealing with stress while women tend to form bonds to deal with a crisis. Could it be that both were created to complement each other in that one makes the other complete.

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He said I am not feminine and my words are like arrows. Now I am crying and enjoying this pain. My problem is, I don't have any problem. Pls help me to find out any problem.

Hi i'm Joe I wanna talk about the subject in the United States and around the world that goes on quite a bit Why Do Good Guys Always Finish Last? Thaty's The question because it seems that every second of every day women are being physically and verbally abused because they choose to go out with or date guys who are jerks who are ruthless mean and volatile and have no pity or remorse when they commit violence or domestic abuse against the woman they are with. i'm not trying to be bossy or rude but i'm saying t\o the women in the United States and all over the world wake up and smell the roses and what I mean is if you run into a good guy who is kind considerate gentle and outgoing like me or any guy with these good qualities please go out with that good guy and give him a chance because good guys are few and far between. Please think about it it will be worth it and you will never regret it.

it works like a miracle .HUG SOME ONE TODAY AND YOU WILL REALISE LIFE IS WORTH LIVING,HUGS TO YOU ALL.

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Egalitarianism series Part II:

Inequality is one of the core reasons of increase in crime and frustration in today's society. I am of the view that an equal society reflects its positive effects on both rich and poor and makes them all happier.
I suggest that the rich ppl should support the poor by establishing charitable foundations. Education should be free from all costs for poor and they should be encouraged to learn technical education for getting an early job.

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There are some girls who are lucky when it comes to love and some are not. Some are lucky because they are getting the attention and the love they needed from their loved ones. THey have the most wonderful man in the world. There are some women who are also bitter about their love life that they are not getting the attention that they want. But did you ever think whats the reason why you are bitter with your relationship with your man. Did you ever ask yourself what is wrong with you. Well, there is nothing wrong with you. You are perfectly wonderful. The only problem is that sometimes you expect too much from your man and then never get the results of it. Thats the time you become so frustrated with everything and be bitter about everything. Learn to love without asking in return and you will be happy with your relationship with your man. That is one secret why some woman are lucky when it comes to love. It is more fulfilling when man gives the love in return without asking them to give what you want. And if ever they do it voluntarily then thats the time that you will know that their love to you is pure and real. And if ever he never values all your sacrifices and the things that you have done then at least you can say to yourself that you gave everything what you have to give to make your man happy. What is important is that once in your life, you made somebody happy and be loved in their life. You just have to wait for your time to be loved and be happy too.

It is not easy to find real friends in this city, so the old friends become more and more important.

People here come from every corner of the country. Even though we are yellow people with black hair and black eyes, we speak different dialects, we have different traditions, our ancestors were buried in different mountains, our memories are totally different, and our past is unknown to each others. People come and go like water and wind. Today you work with him or her in the same company, tomorrow he or she may leave and work in another company and never contact…Together we laugh, we talk, we work, but not all of us can be friends.

And those old friends, like the cobbles under the river, may disappear when the river water is abundant, but no matter how fast the water flow, they remain there, quiet, secret, patient and constant, ready to help, to listen, and to give strength.

These days I feel unhappy… I called him. I haven’t called him for a long time. From the day I left GZ, I have decided to forget him. However, the distance between city and city couldn’t create barriers if I decided to call him.

He was always there, as he had said, I am his good friend for ever. Yes, he is my good friend for ever. Somebody helps me end the eight-year love towards him. When I told him I felt sad, I suddenly realized that I considered him as my good friend. Just friend, good friend, but that may be the best and perfect result…

The same happens to him and his girlfriends. He has had four girlfriends, but he and his girlfriends become friends at last. It is not easy to build friendship between lovers, but he succeeds. And now I succeed. He considers me as his good friend, and I can consider him as my good friend finally. Friendship can last for a life time; no matter how things change, he will be my friend for ever, no “betray”, no “abandon” and no “cheat”.

That’s because we have experienced the same experiences, felt the same feelings, memorized the same memories: We were together, as classmates, as friends, and gave strength to each other, in the crucial time of our life.

After him I have met many people…some of them from other provinces, some of them from other countries, other races, or even members on CS…It is exciting to meet new friends from far places, but the barriers are so…

There are always misunderstandings due to many reasons. I am not against race-mixing. What I want to say is that, race-mixing is a balance: at one end is misunderstandings, doubts, cheat and lies; at the other end is trust, sincerity, true feelings and deep emotions. If one end is heavy, the other end will be light.

Unless you have enough courage to eliminate these barriers…Unless your trust, your sincerity, your true feelings and your deep emotions are strong enough…