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snugglyseniorDover, New Jersey USA38 Threads 1 Polls 284 PostsIf he or she said "I've changed" would you take them them back?
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snugglysenior: If he or she said "I've changed" would you take them them back?
Simply no......
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If she changed her weight, in a heart-beat...
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Lagoona22: If she changed her weight, in a heart-beat...
Oh you shallow man......
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snugglysenior: If he or she said "I've changed" would you take them them back?
my ex of twentfive years ago just told me that as I was talking to our daughter, I said thats good that you have ,but though to my self (yea right whever),so no ,nope ,never
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Just "saying" you've changed proves nothing. I've been told that way too often & fallen prey to it. If someone wants to change badly enough, I believe it's possible. But I think, for me personally, it'd probably take months, if not years to prove they've actually done it.
My ex was an alcoholic. He once stopped drinking for 6 months, only to start back up. After I left him, he'd actually quit for 2 years. But then started back up again.
I could never trust that, even if he quit for YEARS, something might not trigger him to start again.
My ex was an alcoholic. He once stopped drinking for 6 months, only to start back up. After I left him, he'd actually quit for 2 years. But then started back up again.
I could never trust that, even if he quit for YEARS, something might not trigger him to start again.
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I can change, I swear!!...
Tamarin: Oh you shallow man......
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Lagoona22: I can change, I swear!!...
Ah but I don't know you apart from a wee bit of contact on here
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No. Whatever may have cause me to get away from her is probably something that I felt initially is a major issue. Most people can't change basic issues in their lives. In my opinion the issue would come back and cause you the same pain again.
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Wee??....is that a loaded phrase??.....
Tamarin: Ah but I don't know you apart from a wee bit of contact on here
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Lagoona22: I can change, I swear!!...
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Depends what they had done for us to split up.
Words are great. Actions that back up the words are important to me.
Words are great. Actions that back up the words are important to me.
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Lagoona22: Wee??....is that a loaded phrase??.....
The french in me uses wee as yes and the Scottish in me uses wee as small.....
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Yes, I would if he truly meant it, but he would have to prove it. I believe people deserve a second or even third chance.
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Och ay...I thought you were using wee as in wee willy wonker....
Tamarin: The french in me uses wee as yes and the Scottish in me uses wee as small.....
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Exactly....as Reagan said, "Trust, but verify"....
SensualVixen: Yes, I would if he truly meant it, but he would have to prove it. I believe people deserve a second or even third chance.
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SensualVixen: Yes, I would if he truly meant it, but he would have to prove it. I believe people deserve a second or even third chance.
Glad to see you are back. Like the new name too.
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SensualVixen: Yes, I would if he truly meant it, but he would have to prove it. I believe people deserve a second or even third chance.
I agree. Depends a bit what the initial "crime" was, but we none of us are perfect, and we all make mistakes, bla bla..
I try not to be too quick to judge someone, and would certainly be happy to give someone a second chance. Actions speak louder than words, though..
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SensualVixen: Yes, I would if he truly meant it, but he would have to prove it. I believe people deserve a second or even third chance.
Look who I see?
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Big_John: No. Whatever may have cause me to get away from her is probably something that I felt initially is a major issue. Most people can't change basic issues in their lives. In my opinion the issue would come back and cause you the same pain again.
I agree, well said...Been there once or twice also...
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