For me I find it very difficult to let a man know I am interested. I do some flirting in the forums but when someone flirts back, that is how I take it. He is just having fun. Without someone stating it, if he meant more with the flirting I would never know.
sassy49senior: For me I find it very difficult to let a man know I am interested. I do some flirting in the forums but when someone flirts back, that is how I take it. He is just having fun. Without someone stating it, if he meant more with the flirting I would never know.
some times i get an itch i can't reach sure would be nice but need not really
Shedman01: I suppose this would depend on the use of the term need...
Do I need a partner in order to survive? No. Do I need a partner in order to feel like a whole person? No.
Do I need a partner in order to make my life what I want? Yes. Can I have a fulfilling life without a partner? Yes.
To explain my Yes answers above, I will offer the following.
To me a fulfilling life is one in which there are no regrets, no remorse, nothing I would change, ever. This I can do as a single person. So even without a 'partner' I am able to do this. Not exactly what I would like to do, but I can.
As for the other yes above, to me there are people who were simply born to be single. Those who never long for someone to share their life with every morning they wake up, and every night when they go to bed...
I am NOT one of those people. I am one of the other kind, the kind that thrives on compared understanding of the world around us. The kind that needs to share life with another in order to experience the world twice every day. Once through my mind, and once through her her mind. It is a need I have to feel intimacy within my mind.
I also am easily able to say I need physical touch. I very much depend upon physical contact and I am a very touch oriented individual. Because of this there is a further depth to my needs of intimacy, and being next to someone while I sleep is simply energizing and grants me much better sleep then if there is no one there. It is one of the reasons I have always had at least one pet, usually more.
So for me to live the life that I find the most suitable, and desirable, I would have to answer the question asked, in at least as much as the above, with a resounding yes, I need an intimate companion.
Okay... Here is my answer. I actually agree with everything Jon said.
krt4fun: Well, i dont know the texas 2 step. and texas is too far to drive for you to teach me. LOL I honestly cant remember the last time i did dance. HMMMM
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