Who 'needs' a partner? (238)
Sommerauer71: Do you need one?
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Don't need one but it would be nice to share with someone ......of the female gender of course Go....
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Sommerauer71: Do you need one?
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I did when I was younger, or thought I did. When all my girlfriends were getting together with someone, I felt I had to, even if I didnt really want to..
Now, however, its very different. Ive been single for a while now, and loved it. But I WANT the intimacy, both physically and emotionally that you get from finding the right guy..
Cant beat it.
Need - no
Want and desire - definately..
Good thread, Sommer..
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dont, need a partner but nice to have one around makes life a lil more fun
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petalbabe: I did when I was younger, or thought I did. When all my girlfriends were getting together with someone, I felt I had to, even if I didnt really want to..
Now, however, its very different. Ive been single for a while now, and loved it. But I WANT the intimacy, both physically and emotionally that you get from finding the right guy..
Cant beat it.
Need - no
Want and desire - definately..
Good thread, Sommer..
Now, however, its very different. Ive been single for a while now, and loved it. But I WANT the intimacy, both physically and emotionally that you get from finding the right guy..
Cant beat it.
Need - no
Want and desire - definately..
Good thread, Sommer..
I'm pleased you responded Petal, as I consider you to be a poster who I enjoy and certainly gain alot from your posts.
My limited introduction to this topic was for a purpose. To see how people would react.
When I ask 'need' I mean need, because the physical side, the emotional side are all needs, are they not?
I find that women do not want to be seen as 'needy'
I'm happy to admit that I need a partner to meet the physical and wmotional needs I have.
If I have a physical 'need' then I cannot change it to a 'want'
If I have an emotional 'need' from a person, tied in with lovemaking and need all of that, then I cannot change it to a want.
Do you see where I am going with this?
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jessejess47: Don't need one but it would be nice to share with someone ......of the female gender of course
Hi Jesse.
Why don't you 'need' one?
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Sommerauer71: I'm pleased you responded Petal, as I consider you to be a poster who I enjoy and certainly gain alot from your posts.
My limited introduction to this topic was for a purpose. To see how people would react.
When I ask 'need' I mean need, because the physical side, the emotional side are all needs, are they not?
I find that women do not want to be seen as 'needy'
I'm happy to admit that I need a partner to meet the physical and wmotional needs I have.
If I have a physical 'need' then I cannot change it to a 'want'
If I have an emotional 'need' from a person, tied in with lovemaking and need all of that, then I cannot change it to a want.
Do you see where I am going with this?
My limited introduction to this topic was for a purpose. To see how people would react.
When I ask 'need' I mean need, because the physical side, the emotional side are all needs, are they not?
I find that women do not want to be seen as 'needy'
I'm happy to admit that I need a partner to meet the physical and wmotional needs I have.
If I have a physical 'need' then I cannot change it to a 'want'
If I have an emotional 'need' from a person, tied in with lovemaking and need all of that, then I cannot change it to a want.
Do you see where I am going with this?
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Sure I need one...I love dancing! 
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Sommerauer71: I'm pleased you responded Petal, as I consider you to be a poster who I enjoy and certainly gain alot from your posts.
My limited introduction to this topic was for a purpose. To see how people would react.
When I ask 'need' I mean need, because the physical side, the emotional side are all needs, are they not?
I find that women do not want to be seen as 'needy'
I'm happy to admit that I need a partner to meet the physical and wmotional needs I have.
If I have a physical 'need' then I cannot change it to a 'want'
If I have an emotional 'need' from a person, tied in with lovemaking and need all of that, then I cannot change it to a want.
Do you see where I am going with this?
My limited introduction to this topic was for a purpose. To see how people would react.
When I ask 'need' I mean need, because the physical side, the emotional side are all needs, are they not?
I find that women do not want to be seen as 'needy'
I'm happy to admit that I need a partner to meet the physical and wmotional needs I have.
If I have a physical 'need' then I cannot change it to a 'want'
If I have an emotional 'need' from a person, tied in with lovemaking and need all of that, then I cannot change it to a want.
Do you see where I am going with this?
Oops, sorry, pressed the wrong button above!!
Yes, I do, Sommer..
I do have an emotional "need" to share, definately. I think its a natural urge to want to have a mate to share those feelings with, and I certainly dont consider a weakness or being "needy" in the general derogatory sense of the world. I admit, I love that feeling of "needing"; its lovely. Its lovely to feel that strongly about someone that you ache for them, and need them to be near you.
Neediness is often a word used wrongly; it can be a very positive, and empowering feeling. Desperation and neediness are two different things, arnt they?
A physical need is something you cant deny, and I dont want too!!
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I don't need someone. But it would be nice to have someone's company. It's been my perception, though, that men seem to like 'needy' women. I guess it's just the carer & protector in men that feel they need to take care of someone. I'm strong-willed & independent. That seems to be a turn-off so often. 
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Sommerauer71: Hi Jesse.
Why don't you 'need' one?
Well , cause I will survive without it, but it is a want , I suppose I "need" to share with someone, but I don't need to be with someone.Why don't you 'need' one?
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I enjoy my life style and my dog business. I get to go places, see things and meet people. I have done this by myself and with a female partner. It is a lot more fun to share my life with someone that can enjoy the things that I do. Yes I like a partner in pleasure and business. Most people are not able to share their work with their S/O I am a able to and enjoy that.
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sweetowen: I don't need someone. But it would be nice to have someone's company. It's been my perception, though, that men seem to like 'needy' women. I guess it's just the carer & protector in men that feel they need to take care of someone. I'm strong-willed & independent. That seems to be a turn-off so often.
not all of us are like that Owen I really do not like "needy" people of any gender, I would rather someone be somewhat independent, but I must admit is nice to think someone "needs" me tho
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Sommerauer71: Do you need one?
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NEED? No..... I am independent and self-sufficient enough. I have managed to do all the DIY-type jobs around the house and garden, can change a tyre and enjoy a certain amount of freedom. It would be nice, however, to share things with someone. Now that the weather is looking lovely, a walk along the coast and a picnic springs to mind.....
.....ROLL ON APRIL!!!!
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Kind of a grey area of needing a partner.... but my opinion, i dont need a partner to go on, but to feel physically,emotionally, complete, yes, i do need a partner
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Hmmm,yea, if i would have kids with her i would need her to stay
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I consider myself as half of something. It is complete when the other half is around. I love who I am and what I do in life. I have a good life. Life is better shared with someone you love. So do I need a partner -- yes?
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jessejess47: not all of us are like that Owen I really do not like "needy" people of any gender, I would rather someone be somewhat independent, but I must admit is nice to think someone "needs" me tho
It just seems that the ones who need help or taken care of are the ones that the guys run back to or go to in the first place.
I wouldn't let a man know I'm hurting even if I was desparate. It's just not my style. If I'm in a bind, I'll figure out some way to take care of it, myself. Besides, if I was to act needy, to me, that means weakness & that's just not me.
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Charli15695: Sure I need one...I love dancing!
Can you teach me how?....
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I'm still waiting on a dance partner??? 
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