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Mar 18, 2009 3:09 PM CST Who 'needs' a partner?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
sweetowen: My roommate once told me, regarding my personality & that of my best friend, "You let it happen... she MAKES it happen." That's how I'm perceived. And if someone leaves me, I tend to walk away without seeking an explanation, again figuring it's his loss & there are plenty of men out there. Whereas, she always HAS TO know why they 'broke up' with her. She said she has to have closure. Well, my closure is just letting them go. No confrontation needed for me. Is that a sign of confidence or lack thereof?



I tend to think any little thing will make a guy want to leave me. That I'm not often worth sticking around for. laugh
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Mar 18, 2009 3:09 PM CST Who 'needs' a partner?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
caspatch: thats the way i run to the bathroom



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 18, 2009 3:11 PM CST Who 'needs' a partner?
so dakota humor used to live in yankton
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Mar 18, 2009 3:24 PM CST Who 'needs' a partner?
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
caspatch: so dakota humor used to live in yankton


It worked over here too laugh
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Mar 18, 2009 3:27 PM CST Who 'needs' a partner?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
dcj22: I tend to think any little thing will make a guy want to leave me. That I'm not often worth sticking around for.


I often feel that way too. But we ARE worth it! And as several have already said, then they're just not the ones for us anyway. hug
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Mar 18, 2009 3:31 PM CST Who 'needs' a partner?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
caspatch: so dakota humor used to live in yankton


laugh laugh laugh Yep...worked in PA!
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Mar 18, 2009 3:32 PM CST Who 'needs' a partner?
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
sweetowen: I often feel that way too. But we ARE worth it! And as several have already said, then they're just not the ones for us anyway.




thumbs up Sweet, We are worth it and so are the guys as I
am sure some of them have the same feelings. We just have
to be determined and as HJ stated earlier(optimistic) that
someday it will happen. teddybear
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Mar 18, 2009 3:32 PM CST Who 'needs' a partner?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
dcj22: I tend to think any little thing will make a guy want to leave me. That I'm not often worth sticking around for.


Yes, you are, sweetie. Never think that you're not. hug bouquet
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Mar 18, 2009 3:33 PM CST Who 'needs' a partner?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
sassy49senior: Sweet, We are worth it and so are the guys as I
am sure some of them have the same feelings. We just have
to be determined and as HJ stated earlier(optimistic) that
someday it will happen.


When it's meant to be, it will be. wine
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Mar 18, 2009 3:39 PM CST Who 'needs' a partner?
sweetowen: I often feel that way too. But we ARE worth it! And as several have already said, then they're just not the ones for us anyway.



Just takes alot of time, and seeking, for the one that puts gas in your tank( Heart) and not water or oil. So yes it may take 3 times long, but the results can be very rewarding, If you pass the temptation of Lust, and wait for Love!uh oh confused




You may do this moping for a while







But in the end you will be doing thissmitten lips yay heart beating
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Mar 18, 2009 3:43 PM CST Who 'needs' a partner?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
sassy49senior: Sweet, We are worth it and so are the guys as I
am sure some of them have the same feelings. We just have
to be determined and as HJ stated earlier(optimistic) that
someday it will happen.


Yes we are sassy. hug I've been single for 17 years now. Actually, even when I was married I was single!! roll eyes

If/when it's going to happen it'll be worth the wait, I'm sure. wine And he's going to be very special. thumbs up
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Mar 18, 2009 3:46 PM CST Who 'needs' a partner?
krt4fun
krt4funkrt4funpennock, Minnesota USA411 Posts
sweetowen: Yes we are sassy. I've been single for 17 years now. Actually, even when I was married I was single!!

If/when it's going to happen it'll be worth the wait, I'm sure. And he's going to be very special.


wow, 17 years,, that is a long dry spell.. but you know what they say,, good things come to those who wait.. good luck..
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Mar 18, 2009 3:47 PM CST Who 'needs' a partner?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
krt4fun: wow, 17 years,, that is a long dry spell.. but you know what they say,, good things come to those who wait.. good luck..


Yes they do! wine Thanks! hug
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Mar 18, 2009 4:03 PM CST Who 'needs' a partner?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
sweetowen: Yes we are sassy. I've been single for 17 years now. Actually, even when I was married I was single!!

If/when it's going to happen it'll be worth the wait, I'm sure. And he's going to be very special.



Same here Owen! Even when I was married I was still single.uh oh mumbling And as far as the waiting, I can honestly say that waiting 12 years for Mr. Wonderful was worth it! AND I'm glad I didn't settle for anything less. wine

hug
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Mar 18, 2009 4:06 PM CST Who 'needs' a partner?
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
Don't need, But would like.
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Mar 18, 2009 4:07 PM CST Who 'needs' a partner?
slim1977
slim1977slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA16 Threads 943 Posts
USThumper: I think Oprah and Dr Phil live in a dream world. I know I need someone in my life. Can I survive without? Yes, but surviving isnt living. With someone to share it life gets 100% better



couldnt have said it better, we can all survive, I want to thrivewine
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Mar 18, 2009 4:08 PM CST Who 'needs' a partner?
Goddess4u
Goddess4uGoddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK15 Threads 3,131 Posts
Dknew: Don't need, But would like.


But certainly "want" one - being tooooo long one sided, want my other half
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Mar 18, 2009 4:12 PM CST Who 'needs' a partner?
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
jessejess47: Don't need one but it would be nice to share with someone ......of the female gender of course



......nicely put...thumbs up ...'Need'....sounds Clingy and desperate.....that a major Turn off for me...

J.Dhandshake
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Mar 18, 2009 4:21 PM CST Who 'needs' a partner?
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
Sommerauer71: Petal is the best, she can have a brilliant discussion and I am going to look forward to all contibutions whilst I am bossing students around.



......Yep...Sommer that I can believe,you are very good at being 'Bossy' ....L.O.L only joking ,Sommer...and to Petal...I am amazed that no Man has snap you up yet,Oh,I mean that in a Nice way....you are so amazing and so intelligent....please take that, as a very sincere and genuine compliment to you.....handshake thumbs up

J.D
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Mar 18, 2009 4:45 PM CST Who 'needs' a partner?
ekatarini
ekatariniekatarinibelgrade, Central Serbia Serbia2 Threads 2 Polls 11 Posts
Don`t know about others but I do :)
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