sweetowen: My roommate once told me, regarding my personality & that of my best friend, "You let it happen... she MAKES it happen." That's how I'm perceived. And if someone leaves me, I tend to walk away without seeking an explanation, again figuring it's his loss & there are plenty of men out there. Whereas, she always HAS TO know why they 'broke up' with her. She said she has to have closure. Well, my closure is just letting them go. No confrontation needed for me. Is that a sign of confidence or lack thereof?
I tend to think any little thing will make a guy want to leave me. That I'm not often worth sticking around for.
sweetowen: I often feel that way too. But we ARE worth it! And as several have already said, then they're just not the ones for us anyway.
Sweet, We are worth it and so are the guys as I am sure some of them have the same feelings. We just have to be determined and as HJ stated earlier(optimistic) that someday it will happen.
sassy49senior: Sweet, We are worth it and so are the guys as I am sure some of them have the same feelings. We just have to be determined and as HJ stated earlier(optimistic) that someday it will happen.
sweetowen: I often feel that way too. But we ARE worth it! And as several have already said, then they're just not the ones for us anyway.
Just takes alot of time, and seeking, for the one that puts gas in your tank( Heart) and not water or oil. So yes it may take 3 times long, but the results can be very rewarding, If you pass the temptation of Lust, and wait for Love!
sassy49senior: Sweet, We are worth it and so are the guys as I am sure some of them have the same feelings. We just have to be determined and as HJ stated earlier(optimistic) that someday it will happen.
Yes we are sassy. I've been single for 17 years now. Actually, even when I was married I was single!!
If/when it's going to happen it'll be worth the wait, I'm sure. And he's going to be very special.
sweetowen: Yes we are sassy. I've been single for 17 years now. Actually, even when I was married I was single!!
If/when it's going to happen it'll be worth the wait, I'm sure. And he's going to be very special.
Same here Owen! Even when I was married I was still single. And as far as the waiting, I can honestly say that waiting 12 years for Mr. Wonderful was worth it! AND I'm glad I didn't settle for anything less.
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USThumper: I think Oprah and Dr Phil live in a dream world. I know I need someone in my life. Can I survive without? Yes, but surviving isnt living. With someone to share it life gets 100% better
couldnt have said it better, we can all survive, I want to thrive
Sommerauer71: Petal is the best, she can have a brilliant discussion and I am going to look forward to all contibutions whilst I am bossing students around.
......Yep...Sommer that I can believe,you are very good at being 'Bossy' ....L.O.L only joking ,Sommer...and to Petal...I am amazed that no Man has snap you up yet,Oh,I mean that in a Nice way....you are so amazing and so intelligent....please take that, as a very sincere and genuine compliment to you.....
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I tend to think any little thing will make a guy want to leave me. That I'm not often worth sticking around for.