Please help guys, not sure what to think... Story involved here... (174)
livinglarge: Yes Morgan ,we all see that
I think GG is seeing him in his true light and facing that realization, which is bloody hard when you loved someone. All she wanted was a bit of support for what she is going thro, not to have it pulled apart and fought over . jmo------ This thread is Locked ------
livinglarge: Hi Patal
nobody is being emotive
it only gets that way when personal experience is used
I think Yum Yum is being anything other than emotive .
She has given her opinion , as is allowed .
nobody is being emotive
it only gets that way when personal experience is used
I think Yum Yum is being anything other than emotive .
She has given her opinion , as is allowed .
Cool!
Right, wanna share a beer with me, LL???
I need one!!!
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petalbabe: Cool!
Right, wanna share a beer with me, LL???
I need one!!!
Right, wanna share a beer with me, LL???
I need one!!!
I will have a large diet coke
It is a beautiful day here ,hope Cork is nice too
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livinglarge: I will have a large diet coke
It is a beautiful day here ,hope Cork is nice too
It is a beautiful day here ,hope Cork is nice too
You got it
Yep, it was grim here earlier, but the sun is out, and Im going to go for a quick walk and a shandy..
Youre welcome down here anytime, ok?
Sorry for hijacking thread, peeps..
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morgan5: yes it is, constantly being told you are useless stays with you for a long time
yes and perhaps if the OP, sees that enough people are appalled that she was in that relationship ,then it may sink in that she is being 1) Abused
2) Manipulated
3) Used by the abuser
and 4 in a relationship which is very unhealthy
Sometimes a person can blame themselves for the feelings and emotions of others , Galway needs to know that it is him , the Ex, that has the problems not her.
Hers was the relationship from hell and she needs to understand that IMO, so as not to replicate it ,EVER.
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petalbabe: You got it
Yep, it was grim here earlier, but the sun is out, and Im going to go for a quick walk and a shandy..
Youre welcome down here anytime, ok?
Sorry for hijacking thread, peeps..
Yep, it was grim here earlier, but the sun is out, and Im going to go for a quick walk and a shandy..
Youre welcome down here anytime, ok?
Sorry for hijacking thread, peeps..
I am sorry too
Thanks Petal and the same applies to you
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most silly thing I have ever heard
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yum_yum: a pig is an animal that rolls around in the mud and eats sloppy food.
A person that belittles a person in any way they can is an Abuser a bully a shallow person.
They do anything to make the other person loose control over there feelings and leave them with little respect for themselves thinking that the person saying all these bad things must be right.
Well done to this girl to get out when she did and not fuel this abuser for years like some people do.
She is a very brave girl and should look to a bright future ahead of her.
A person that belittles a person in any way they can is an Abuser a bully a shallow person.
They do anything to make the other person loose control over there feelings and leave them with little respect for themselves thinking that the person saying all these bad things must be right.
Well done to this girl to get out when she did and not fuel this abuser for years like some people do.
She is a very brave girl and should look to a bright future ahead of her.
Beautiful
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Point made, we have different distinction for the same behaviour.
As long as we do not feel he's a good boy we're fine I suppose.
As long as we do not feel he's a good boy we're fine I suppose.
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mike69spain: Point made, we have different distinction for the same behaviour.
As long as we do not feel he's a good boy we're fine I suppose.
As long as we do not feel he's a good boy we're fine I suppose.
i dont feel anything for him.
my advice to the girl was dont feel sorry for him and dont let him be in control of your life no more.
Just i didnt think what some people said was the right way to make this girl think she is over reacting and then for her to give him a second chance.
Why would any one want to say something like that to her is beyond me.
I am glad living it large see this too
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yum_yum: I am glad living it large see this too
And I did not¿
Good girls
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yum_yum: i dont feel anything for him.
my advice to the girl was dont feel sorry for him and dont let him be in control of your life no more.
Just i didnt think what some people said was the right way to make this girl think she is over reacting and then for her to give him a second chance.
Why would any one want to say something like that to her is beyond me.
I am glad living it large see this too
my advice to the girl was dont feel sorry for him and dont let him be in control of your life no more.
Just i didnt think what some people said was the right way to make this girl think she is over reacting and then for her to give him a second chance.
Why would any one want to say something like that to her is beyond me.
I am glad living it large see this too
A lot of people have been saying the same since last night
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mike69spain: And I did not¿
Good girls
Good girls
you can laugh and smile with the icons and i dont think your trying to be rude.
but please remember this is about a young person and is living this situation right now.
i bet its not funny in her shoes
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yum_yum: you can laugh and smile with the icons and i dont think your trying to be rude.
but please remember this is about a young person and is living this situation right now.
i bet its not funny in her shoes
but please remember this is about a young person and is living this situation right now.
i bet its not funny in her shoes
mmmm was thinking the same thing
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morgan5: I think GG is seeing him in his true light and facing that realization, which is bloody hard when you loved someone. All she wanted was a bit of support for what she is going thro, not to have it pulled apart and fought over . jmo
thats the truest thing posted on this board. i mean, really, everyones advice has been incredibly appreciated, but i've now heard so much that its getting very emotional, even confusing for me. ive had alot of time to think, and absorb everyones comments and now im very sure that whatever lables we can put on this man, he's not right for me. theres no way i can put the full story up on here, for one it would be pages long, and secondly it would absolutely tear me apart to have to analyze everything to the point where its broken into sections and diveded into right and wrong. and even THEN it would only be my side of events. the only way i can cope with this, is to stay away from him, dont let myself be emotionally or physically vulnerable to him, and make sure that i dont let someone have such an influence on my life again. whether he knew ot or not, thats what it comes down to. he's had a huge impact on my life. especially on how i view men, intimacy, appreciation and love. and even though this post has reduced me to tears, im still so grateful that people have had the open mindedness to write what they really think. it genuinely has helped me. so thank you very much guys x
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dear galway girl, you are lovely and it sounds like you are a great girlfriend. he was a jerk and you deserve a lot better.
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GalwayGirl89: thats the truest thing posted on this board. i mean, really, everyones advice has been incredibly appreciated, but i've now heard so much that its getting very emotional, even confusing for me. ive had alot of time to think, and absorb everyones comments and now im very sure that whatever lables we can put on this man, he's not right for me. theres no way i can put the full story up on here, for one it would be pages long, and secondly it would absolutely tear me apart to have to analyze everything to the point where its broken into sections and diveded into right and wrong. and even THEN it would only be my side of events. the only way i can cope with this, is to stay away from him, dont let myself be emotionally or physically vulnerable to him, and make sure that i dont let someone have such an influence on my life again. whether he knew ot or not, thats what it comes down to. he's had a huge impact on my life. especially on how i view men, intimacy, appreciation and love. and even though this post has reduced me to tears, im still so grateful that people have had the open mindedness to write what they really think. it genuinely has helped me. so thank you very much guys x
Pleased to see you back you have got the courage to get through it, All the best you 
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teacherman: dear galway girl, you are lovely and it sounds like you are a great girlfriend. he was a jerk and you deserve a lot better.
Hear, hear
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I just get uncomfortable making emotive statements about someone I know nothing about.
I have never stood up for the guy's behaviour. I just would rather keep an open mind.
I wish GG all the best for the future..
JMO
Hi Patal
nobody is being emotive
it only gets that way when personal experience is used
I think Yum Yum is being anything other than emotive .
She has given her opinion , as is allowed .