Please help guys, not sure what to think... Story involved here... (174)
I am not aiming this post to anyone person but out of respect to
the Op please can we stop focusing on the terminology we feel is
correct towards this guy. Not once has she asked for that.
the Op please can we stop focusing on the terminology we feel is
correct towards this guy. Not once has she asked for that.
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Sommerauer71: Seems not the right way Mike. We must accept this man is an abuser. Don't you get it?
See, I am thankful there are people like you in this place.
Always able to see further than the end of your nose
4See, I am thankful there are people like you in this place.
Always able to see further than the end of your nose
Ok... I abide
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Sommerauer71: Seems not the right way Mike. We must accept this man is an abuser. Don't you get it?
See, I am thankful there are people like you in this place.
Always able to see further than the end of your nose
See, I am thankful there are people like you in this place.
Always able to see further than the end of your nose
firstly you did say that dont judge and calling him an abuser was dangerous[ like labeling someone] because he could turn out to be a beautiful loveing person like your ex husband.
secondly i dont think this girl asked for giving her advice to not think this is a bad person for her.
If you dont think he abused her why bother to post as you know its a very upsetting thing she has gone through.
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This is getting ridiculous.
Way beyond my limited intelligence I am afraid.
To the OP in any case
Stay with your friends, they are the best you can have at any time!
Way beyond my limited intelligence I am afraid.
To the OP in any case
Stay with your friends, they are the best you can have at any time!
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Sommerauer71: Seems not the right way Mike. We must accept this man is an abuser. Don't you get it?
See, I am thankful there are people like you in this place.
Always able to see further than the end of your nose
See, I am thankful there are people like you in this place.
Always able to see further than the end of your nose
As it is unlikely that what is posted here will impact on the man in question in any way, it is not relevant to him whether we do or do not call him an abuser.
What is relevant is our support of GalwayGirl.
What is also relevant is our opinions being expressed. Some people see him as an abuser, full stop, based on what GalwayGirl has posted. No one has disputed the truth of what she has said. It is definitely my opinion that he is an abuser. My opinion on this has no impact on him therefore I do not believe I am attempting to be judge and jury on this, merely giving my opinion.
Why there should be need of a Devils Advocate in this situation is beyond my understanding
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LadyBlackAdder: As it is unlikely that what is posted here will impact on the man in question in any way, it is not relevant to him whether we do or do not call him an abuser.
What is relevant is our support of GalwayGirl.
What is also relevant is our opinions being expressed. Some people see him as an abuser, full stop, based on what GalwayGirl has posted. No one has disputed the truth of what she has said. It is definitely my opinion that he is an abuser. My opinion on this has no impact on him therefore I do not believe I am attempting to be judge and jury on this, merely giving my opinion.
Why there should be need of a Devils Advocate in this situation is beyond my understanding
What is relevant is our support of GalwayGirl.
What is also relevant is our opinions being expressed. Some people see him as an abuser, full stop, based on what GalwayGirl has posted. No one has disputed the truth of what she has said. It is definitely my opinion that he is an abuser. My opinion on this has no impact on him therefore I do not believe I am attempting to be judge and jury on this, merely giving my opinion.
Why there should be need of a Devils Advocate in this situation is beyond my understanding
BRAVO
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yum_yum: you did say that about your ex husband .
bye have a nice day too
bye have a nice day too
Isn't it strange how intelligent people are called stupid? by someone they do not agree with
Isn't it strange how everyone just doesnt 'get it'
always with the I am misunderstood
wtf??
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livinglarge: Isn't it strange how intelligent people are called stupid? by someone they do not agree with
Isn't it strange how everyone just doesnt 'get it' always with the I am misunderstood
wtf??
Isn't it strange how everyone just doesnt 'get it' always with the I am misunderstood
wtf??
Oh yes
and then the mailing around for support
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May be time this thread was put to bed IMO...
As it has completely gone of topic....
As it has completely gone of topic....
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livinglarge: Look I agree with Morgan here ,
there is much truth in what you say , and I believe that the truth shall set you free.
But seriously not now
You are talking to a very young woman ,
she is not flamimg Krishnamurty !!!
It takes a long time for one to understand such concepts
there is much truth in what you say , and I believe that the truth shall set you free.
But seriously not now
You are talking to a very young woman ,
she is not flamimg Krishnamurty !!!
It takes a long time for one to understand such concepts
Taking these concepts in the wrong way, without proper guidance, can also lead to a lowering of self esteem instead of raising it. "I have attracted this terrible behaviour." "I continue to attract this so I must be very wrong in my thinking" "What is wrong with me that these people treat me like this?" This is not something that someone should attempt to do alone because of advice on an open forum.
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LadyBlackAdder: Taking these concepts in the wrong way, without proper guidance, can also lead to a lowering of self esteem instead of raising it. "I have attracted this terrible behaviour." "I continue to attract this so I must be very wrong in my thinking" "What is wrong with me that these people treat me like this?" This is not something that someone should attempt to do alone because of advice on an open forum.
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LadyBlackAdder: Taking these concepts in the wrong way, without proper guidance, can also lead to a lowering of self esteem instead of raising it. "I have attracted this terrible behaviour." "I continue to attract this so I must be very wrong in my thinking" "What is wrong with me that these people treat me like this?" This is not something that someone should attempt to do alone because of advice on an open forum.
Wow I never thought of it that way
Very interesting and an eye opener ,thanks for that
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Hi Morgan
You know I am wasting my breath, now the judge and jury are here.
I know, darling, I never said that 'everybody' had, I said some.
Some people, some advice.
He is AN ABUSER is pretty clear though.
Some have missed my point.
It must be the Japanese I am using.