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Jul 1, 2009 6:46 AM CST Question
twocheeky
twocheekytwocheekyDublin, Ireland4 Threads 1 Polls 28 Posts
I was out over the weekend with some mates and the subject came up of respect and one night stands. too be honest i was a bit shocked by some of the responces both male and female!

So I would like to get a wider view and put these questions out there. . .

What are your views on one night stands?

Which girl do you think has more RESPECT for herself: the one who makes the decision that she likes a guy and is going to sleep with him or the one who does not plan to do it but gets to drunk to know the difference or stop herself?

dunno
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Jul 1, 2009 6:51 AM CST Question
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
twocheeky: I was out over the weekend with some mates and the subject came up of respect and one night stands. too be honest i was a bit shocked by some of the responces both male and female!

So I would like to get a wider view and put these questions out there. . .

What are your views on one night stands?

Which girl do you think has more RESPECT for herself: the one who makes the decision that she likes a guy and is going to sleep with him or the one who does not plan to do it but gets to drunk to know the difference or stop herself?


One night stands lead to one night wonders.i.e. I wondered what happened to whats-his-name ? J.M.O.
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Jul 1, 2009 7:02 AM CST Question
pebblesbamban
pebblesbambanpebblesbambanPennsylvania, USA3 Threads 4,038 Posts
popcorn
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Jul 1, 2009 7:21 AM CST Question
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Neither has respect....ONS are trashy and cheap, and don't do much to contribute to a lasting relationship...

But hey, what do I know?...I'm just an old fart...::oldfartemoticon::
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Jul 1, 2009 7:26 AM CST Question
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
twocheeky: I was out over the weekend with some mates and the subject came up of respect and one night stands. too be honest i was a bit shocked by some of the responces both male and female!

So I would like to get a wider view and put these questions out there. . .

What are your views on one night stands?

Which girl do you think has more RESPECT for herself: the one who makes the decision that she likes a guy and is going to sleep with him or the one who does not plan to do it but gets to drunk to know the difference or stop herself?


Thats your question???

self respect???
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Jul 1, 2009 7:26 AM CST Question
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Lagoona22: Neither has respect....ONS are trashy and cheap, and don't do much to contribute to a lasting relationship...

But hey, what do I know?...I'm just an old fart...::oldfartemoticon::





laugh
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Jul 1, 2009 7:27 AM CST Question
twocheeky
twocheekytwocheekyDublin, Ireland4 Threads 1 Polls 28 Posts
Lagoona22: Neither has respect....ONS are trashy and cheap, and don't do much to contribute to a lasting relationship...

But hey, what do I know?...I'm just an old fart...::oldfartemoticon::


Thank you Lagoona, would be of the same opinion myself.
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Jul 1, 2009 7:28 AM CST Question
twocheeky
twocheekytwocheekyDublin, Ireland4 Threads 1 Polls 28 Posts
BOBANBOBAN: Thats your question???

self respect???


Yes Boban.
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Jul 1, 2009 7:30 AM CST Question
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
bestbefore: One night stands lead to one night wonders.i.e. I wondered what happened to whats-his-name ? J.M.O.
Don't think that happens in all cases . Think it depends on the situation.



wine
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Jul 1, 2009 7:37 AM CST Question
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
twocheeky: Yes Boban.


Well i hope that ,based on a one night stand,self respect wont be lower.

My point is...if i wer a woman... and had a one night stand...

it was my dessione....my self respect would be the same
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Jul 1, 2009 1:48 PM CST Question
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Lago

If a woman is confident, happy in her one night stands, hurts no person, does not want a long term relationship, where is the harm in that?

If a person uses a succession of one night stands in the hope of securing a relationship then they are only going to run into problems.
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Jul 1, 2009 2:12 PM CST Question
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
I've had one night stands for both reasons...it happens. It only affects your self esteem if you let it. And yes, like Nana, there was a time when I let it do that...but not now.

And I don't judge anyone else for having one.
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Jul 1, 2009 6:49 PM CST Question
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
Some people go for the one night stand thing -sorry,just not my bag of chips.wine
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Jul 1, 2009 6:54 PM CST Question
rodolpho
rodolphorodolphoamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands30 Threads 3,401 Posts
But nobody will state on a single forum they are up for one night stands.
Dont you think?
Its not real good advertisement these days is it?laugh
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Jul 1, 2009 6:57 PM CST Question
twocheeky: I was out over the weekend with some mates and the subject came up of respect and one night stands. too be honest i was a bit shocked by some of the responces both male and female!

So I would like to get a wider view and put these questions out there. . .

What are your views on one night stands?

Which girl do you think has more RESPECT for herself: the one who makes the decision that she likes a guy and is going to sleep with him or the one who does not plan to do it but gets to drunk to know the difference or stop herself?
It is never a good idea for anyone, male or female, to settle for one-night stands. And remember,"if you have to ask, then don't!" I realize that some people believe that if both parties are agreeable to this sort of arrangement, then what's the harm, etc...There is always someone in the arrangement who is not happy with this, even thought they may say different. Besides, that is a lot to give to someone for a shallow ending. I don't recommend it.
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Jul 1, 2009 7:09 PM CST Question
twocheeky
twocheekytwocheekyDublin, Ireland4 Threads 1 Polls 28 Posts
rodolpho: But nobody will state on a single forum they are up for one night stands.
Dont you think?
Its not real good advertisement these days is it?


haha

No its not, but at the end of the day they do more harm than good to at least one of the parties conversing
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Jul 1, 2009 7:11 PM CST Question
twocheeky: haha

No its not, but at the end of the day they do more harm than good to at least one of the parties
thumbs up thumbs up
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Jul 1, 2009 7:12 PM CST Question
twocheeky
twocheekytwocheekyDublin, Ireland4 Threads 1 Polls 28 Posts
zoranova: There are multitude of answers depending on multitude of factors. If She uses a Male (much younger, not willing, non-rational etc. etc. Male), Yes She should. If it is between two consenting adults willing at that time to go for it, She should not.

In the western world everybody has a right, and is free, to make a choice, with full responsibility for their own actions.

In some other cultures...well, you know the answer.


I get you frustrated
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