This is hard...Family! ( Archived) (16)

Jul 6, 2009 5:50 PM CST This is hard...Family!
starshinebright
starshinebrightstarshinebrightRiverside, California USA189 Threads 1 Polls 6,305 Posts
Not sure what to say here........family....yes we all know...always drama...........but everyone of us deserves to be loved.....

I came and still am in Louisiana because my brother died. We weren't close anymore.........but I always loved him.

I never knew Aunts, Uncles, or cousins very well because I grew up in a military lifestyle. I went to see 2 Aunts today...because they are old and not in good health. Aunt Elvie is 92. Aunt Jewell is 81..........when I got to her house the nurses said.....she was in the process of dying..the last 2 hours..I was there when the priest came to give her her last rites..........so sad..........sounds so sad....but I feel blessed.......I got to be there with her!!!!
Just asking for prayers..love and light.......I am going back now to be with her........Like my mom says...........Life...Life...Life........and then mom says Fun Fun Fun.............
Bless all that has past this month............so many!!!!teddybear lips

Sandie
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Jul 6, 2009 5:55 PM CST This is hard...Family!
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
hug comfort bouquet At least you did get to be with her as she passed. Even when we don't get along, my family is everything to me.

Blessings, Starshine. teddybear
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Jul 6, 2009 5:56 PM CST This is hard...Family!
prairiewoman
prairiewomanprairiewomanBrandon, Manitoba Canada11 Threads 1,397 Posts
Sending good thought...


hug teddybear
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Jul 6, 2009 6:00 PM CST This is hard...Family!
USThumper
USThumperUSThumperMexico, New York USA4 Threads 3,957 Posts
hug hug hug bouquet
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Jul 6, 2009 6:02 PM CST This is hard...Family!
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
I guess to reach the age of 92 and have
your family around when you leave is more
than most people can hope for.

Bless you Sandie...it cant have been easy for you.



teddybear
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Jul 6, 2009 6:15 PM CST This is hard...Family!
starshinebright
starshinebrightstarshinebrightRiverside, California USA189 Threads 1 Polls 6,305 Posts
bodleing: I guess to reach the age of 92 and have
your family around when you leave is more
than most people can hope for.

Bless you Sandie...it cant have been easy for you.

You know...........I pray she can pass on....she has no life..with chemo etc...........I feel blessed that she knew I was there............going back now...........I hope to offer some light as she passes!!! thank you

teddybear
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Jul 6, 2009 6:15 PM CST This is hard...Family!
starshinebright
starshinebrightstarshinebrightRiverside, California USA189 Threads 1 Polls 6,305 Posts
bodleing: I guess to reach the age of 92 and have
your family around when you leave is more
than most people can hope for.

Bless you Sandie...it cant have been easy for you.

You know...........I pray she can pass on....she has no life..with chemo etc...........I feel blessed that she knew I was there............going back now...........I hope to offer some light as she passes!!! thank you

teddybear
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Jul 6, 2009 6:18 PM CST This is hard...Family!
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
my prayers are with you hug hug hug hug
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Jul 6, 2009 6:27 PM CST This is hard...Family!
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Go live YOUR life..wink
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Jul 6, 2009 6:41 PM CST This is hard...Family!
starshinebright
starshinebrightstarshinebrightRiverside, California USA189 Threads 1 Polls 6,305 Posts
HJFinAZ: Go live YOUR life..

I am living my life!!!!!!!!!!!! My Aunt was special to me...the way I see it....is she waited to see me again...I feel blessed I was here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am not sad for her....other than the pain she is now living........I prayed she could release herself and go..............I loved that I was here...........has nothing to do with Me living my life!!!!!!!! Just loving someone who is gonna pass!!confused
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Jul 6, 2009 6:54 PM CST This is hard...Family!
gooddogman
gooddogmangooddogmanLeesburg, Florida USA23 Threads 1,028 Posts
You where there for her. We are put in place, to help others...you have....
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Jul 6, 2009 7:00 PM CST This is hard...Family!
Bentlee
BentleeBentleeSmith Falls, Ontario Canada44 Threads 4 Polls 874 Posts
Hugs an blessings sent your way Sandie:)
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Jul 6, 2009 7:03 PM CST This is hard...Family!
starshinebright
starshinebrightstarshinebrightRiverside, California USA189 Threads 1 Polls 6,305 Posts
Thank you all!!!!!!!!!!!!!lips
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Jul 6, 2009 7:44 PM CST This is hard...Family!
starshinebright
starshinebrightstarshinebrightRiverside, California USA189 Threads 1 Polls 6,305 Posts
starshinebright: Not sure what to say here........family....yes we all know...always drama...........but everyone of us deserves to be loved.....

I came and still am in Louisiana because my brother died. We weren't close anymore.........but I always loved him.

I never knew Aunts, Uncles, or cousins very well because I grew up in a military lifestyle. I went to see 2 Aunts today...because they are old and not in good health. Aunt Elvie is 92. Aunt Jewell is 81..........when I got to her house the nurses said.....she was in the process of dying..the last 2 hours..I was there when the priest came to give her her last rites..........so sad..........sounds so sad....but I feel blessed.......I got to be there with her!!!!
Just asking for prayers..love and light.......I am going back now to be with her........Like my mom says...........Life...Life...Life........and then mom says Fun Fun Fun.............
Bless all that has past this month............so many!!!!

Sandie
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Jul 6, 2009 7:52 PM CST This is hard...Family!
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
sad flower teddybear
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Jul 6, 2009 8:13 PM CST This is hard...Family!
starshinebright
starshinebrightstarshinebrightRiverside, California USA189 Threads 1 Polls 6,305 Posts
thx......................life is weird...........it goes round and round...............hug
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