WHEN TO GIVE UP LOOKING (207)
woody636: Hiya Dilly! Long time no see. What I see on this site more then anything else, is expectations that most persons can't live up too. Instead of having all these "requirements" how about just going with the flow and enjoy the moment or connection. Think we have a tendency to try too damned hard!!!!!!!!!
Hey stranger
Thats the problem ,I dont think I try hard enough . Plus the more I like someone the more I distance myself .
Others must have some problems .......come on .............. I dont wanna be the black sheep tonight
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dillydally: God no ...... but you cant .... ok ,shouldnt throw in the towel at the first hurdle .For instance if you like the girl ,you start chatting .You compliment her on certain attributes ........ 6 months down the line your both stable (?) why would you then try to change what you first fell for in the girl ? Isnt that a bit backward ?!
i think it is only natural for somebody to change their taste and preferences from time to time unless he/she is dramatically changing his/her likings for worse
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I'm mean.
I give women MY telephone number under the pretext they should NOT give me mine just in case I turn out to be a stalker!
That way they call me for frigging hours and it all goes on THEIR telephone bills!
Yay!
I give women MY telephone number under the pretext they should NOT give me mine just in case I turn out to be a stalker!
That way they call me for frigging hours and it all goes on THEIR telephone bills!
Yay!
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mnowsa: i think it is only natural for somebody to change their taste and preferences from time to time unless he/she is dramatically changing his/her likings for worse
good point. what would cause that?
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avecaim: good point. what would cause that?
Hey - I LOVE the quote:
"Rg Veda "All truth is one. The wise call it by many names."
Hmmmm........... nothing to talk about then!
I shall contemplate my navel and universal truths.
Cool.
The answer to all life is there - down below!
My quivering starving belly knows the answer to everything and it is written in two words and in capital letters!
FEED ME!
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mnowsa: well, i would respectfully disagree with you there dear. it is a very dangerous demeaning assuption to make. First of all, we don't know everybody in this world that we could say that no one has any trust whatsoever. well, if that is really how you feel about the rest of the world, then it is certainly a very negative aspect of your life and nobody could really do anything to change it
Im talking about trust on a personal issue .The i.m thing ? ! My son has a laptop of his own ,when my pc goes into the repair shop I borrow his ,it has no yahoo nor msn because I do not think my 10 year old boy should be online so young no matter how many of his mates are .Iv had some mails tell me that Im 'lying' because Iv explained so .I get told that Im 'playing' only because Im looking after my son .This is where my view on lack of trust comes in . I have no reason to not trust ,unless you harm me or mine .
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avecaim: good point. what would cause that?
well, with my limited knowledge, we can only say that we are greedy and we are slowly losing the virtue of remaining satisfied with whatever little we have. Besides, in a world, where everybody is busy around the clock trying to prove better from each other, we all think that we deserve better than what we have at present. then again it is just my thought..
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mnowsa: i think it is only natural for somebody to change their taste and preferences from time to time unless he/she is dramatically changing his/her likings for worse
Natural to change themselves ,yes .Others ,no .
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mnowsa: well, with my limited knowledge, we can only say that we are greedy and we are slowly losing the virtue of remaining satisfied with whatever little we have. Besides, in a world, where everybody is busy around the clock trying to prove better from each other, we all think that we deserve better than what we have at present. then again it is just my thought..
I know I don't deserve my good fortune.
Do I feel guilty about it?
Why should I?
I worked damn hard to get lucky.
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RobertC2: I'm mean.
I give women MY telephone number under the pretext they should NOT give me mine just in case I turn out to be a stalker!
That way they call me for frigging hours and it all goes on THEIR telephone bills!
Yay!
I give women MY telephone number under the pretext they should NOT give me mine just in case I turn out to be a stalker!
That way they call me for frigging hours and it all goes on THEIR telephone bills!
Yay!
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dillydally: Im talking about trust on a personal issue .The i.m thing ? ! My son has a laptop of his own ,when my pc goes into the repair shop I borrow his ,it has no yahoo nor msn because I do not think my 10 year old boy should be online so young no matter how many of his mates are .Iv had some mails tell me that Im 'lying' because Iv explained so .I get told that Im 'playing' only because Im looking after my son .This is where my view on lack of trust comes in . I have no reason to not trust ,unless you harm me or mine .
oh..that IM thing. how old are the guys that you talking with on IM? are they 16 years old or something?!
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I'm just stuffing my face enjoying this 
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dillydally: Natural to change themselves ,yes .Others ,no .
How very wise of you, young lady!
That's where so many of us go wrong.
We can only change ourselves - change comes from within NOT externally.
Trying to change the ones we love never works!
Having somebody you love try and make you change builds up resentment that eventually kills that wonderful love you both once shared.
I like what you wrote.
It has real depth of meaning.
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avecaim: I'm just stuffing my face enjoying this
You're making me AND my stomach jealous!
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nobody here or anywhere else is worth giving up looking because of. 
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plenty to share
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dillydally: Sick puppy
Thank you!
Woof!
I got stalked by a crazy American woman once for months.
The ruder I was to her the more she thought I was joking!
It was wonderful!
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avecaim: plenty to share
Yum yum!
I like a sharing woman!
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RobertC2: How very wise of you, young lady!
That's where so many of us go wrong.
We can only change ourselves - change comes from within NOT externally.
Trying to change the ones we love never works!
Having somebody you love try and make you change builds up resentment that eventually kills that wonderful love you both once shared.
I like what you wrote.
It has real depth of meaning.
That's where so many of us go wrong.
We can only change ourselves - change comes from within NOT externally.
Trying to change the ones we love never works!
Having somebody you love try and make you change builds up resentment that eventually kills that wonderful love you both once shared.
I like what you wrote.
It has real depth of meaning.
This is what Iv been trying to say all night
Well said (thankyoup on my depth
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well, i don't know if the reasons to falling for someone before 6 months is really such an important issue after all as long as there is some kind of communication going on to put things into perspective