WHEN TO GIVE UP LOOKING ( Archived) (207)

Jul 26, 2009 12:59 AM CST WHEN TO GIVE UP LOOKING
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
dillydally: Natural to change themselves ,yes .Others ,no .


i tend to disagree there, dear. it takes both hands to clap. if only one changes and the other partner doesn't in a relationship, it will be mighty hard to have a smooth and sustainable relationship.
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Jul 26, 2009 1:00 AM CST WHEN TO GIVE UP LOOKING
dillydally
dillydallydillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads 2,697 Posts
RobertC2: Thank you!

Woof!

I got stalked by a crazy American woman once for months.

The ruder I was to her the more she thought I was joking!

It was wonderful!



I cant remember exactly but there's a name for that behavior ............. apart from the obvious laugh


Im sorry for your loss of the stalker laugh
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Jul 26, 2009 1:01 AM CST WHEN TO GIVE UP LOOKING
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
doh I love sarcasm rolling on the floor laughing sigh
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Jul 26, 2009 1:01 AM CST WHEN TO GIVE UP LOOKING
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
dillydally: I cant remember exactly but there's a name for that behavior ............. apart from the obvious Im sorry for your loss of the stalker


She HAD to go.......... her calls at three a.m. kept waking up the current girlfriend! moping
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Jul 26, 2009 1:01 AM CST WHEN TO GIVE UP LOOKING
AsleepInNJ
AsleepInNJAsleepInNJCherry Hill, New Jersey USA53 Threads 3 Polls 2,862 Posts
mnowsa: i tend to disagree there, dear. it takes both hands to clap. if only one changes and the other partner doesn't in a relationship, it will be mighty hard to have a smooth and sustainable relationship.


not to change the topic but how's the drought? is it really as bad as the meida makes it out to be?
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Jul 26, 2009 1:02 AM CST WHEN TO GIVE UP LOOKING
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
avecaim: I love sarcasm


Well - I'm your's then!

Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit......and I'm as low as you can get!
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Jul 26, 2009 1:04 AM CST WHEN TO GIVE UP LOOKING
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
AsleepInNJ: not to change the topic but how's the drought? is it really as bad as the meida makes it out to be?


i live in texas and it is hot brother. And guess what i just love this hot weatherlaugh
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Jul 26, 2009 1:05 AM CST WHEN TO GIVE UP LOOKING
dillydally
dillydallydillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads 2,697 Posts
mnowsa: i tend to disagree there, dear. it takes both hands to clap. if only one changes and the other partner doesn't in a relationship, it will be mighty hard to have a smooth and sustainable relationship.




Of course change should be together . But for one to change the other without contributing ,is a no go for me .Yes we grow ...... tastes differ and we all eventually move from phase to phase .But can you honestly say your 'ok' with the fact your lady may change you to suit herself without sacrificing something of her own good self (unless of course its for health/money reasons ) .Why would someone allow another person to say who they can and cannot be ?!
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Jul 26, 2009 1:05 AM CST WHEN TO GIVE UP LOOKING
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
AsleepInNJ: not to change the topic but how's the drought? is it really as bad as the meida makes it out to be?


You know what they say:

'When there's a drought it's time to give up looking for love and start looking for water!'

If you are very, very lucky you might wander far and wide and then come across an oasis with a beautiful naked girl bathing in it.

You then get to drink water and get an eye-full at the same time.

Quenching your thirst can be very, very, very good fun if all the conditions are just right.

I believe in karma.

I am very very thirsty.

I am also hungry.

Yum yum!
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Jul 26, 2009 1:05 AM CST WHEN TO GIVE UP LOOKING
AsleepInNJ
AsleepInNJAsleepInNJCherry Hill, New Jersey USA53 Threads 3 Polls 2,862 Posts
mnowsa: i live in texas and it is hot brother. And guess what i just love this hot weather


yea that's what i'm saying but i've read reports of water shortages.
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Jul 26, 2009 1:08 AM CST WHEN TO GIVE UP LOOKING
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
AsleepInNJ: yea that's what i'm saying but i've read reports of water shortages.


hmmm....thanks god that we don't really have any water shortage where i live. i better get some local news.
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Jul 26, 2009 1:11 AM CST WHEN TO GIVE UP LOOKING
AsleepInNJ
AsleepInNJAsleepInNJCherry Hill, New Jersey USA53 Threads 3 Polls 2,862 Posts
mnowsa: hmmm....thanks god that we don't really have any water shortage where i live. i better get some local news.


Mostly Austin, San Antonio area.

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Jul 26, 2009 1:15 AM CST WHEN TO GIVE UP LOOKING
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
dillydally: Of course change should be together . But for one to change the other without contributing ,is a no go for me .Yes we grow ...... tastes differ and we all eventually move from phase to phase .But can you honestly say your 'ok' with the fact your lady may change you to suit herself without sacrificing something of her own good self (unless of course its for health/money reasons ) .Why would someone allow another person to say who they can and cannot be ?!


well, gosh, what shall i say here? why you are making it only about "YOU"? if you have noticed it in your daily life, you will find that almost everyday you try to change yourself. for example, let's say, you like a certain dress and you really like to wear it outside to your work. But the problem is your boss or office doesn't allow that kind of dress. so what you do? you probably wear a different dress which you may not like that much. so things like that happen everyday in our lives.
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Jul 26, 2009 1:16 AM CST WHEN TO GIVE UP LOOKING
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
AsleepInNJ: Mostly Austin, San Antonio area.



wow..it really looks bad
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Jul 26, 2009 1:18 AM CST WHEN TO GIVE UP LOOKING
AsleepInNJ
AsleepInNJAsleepInNJCherry Hill, New Jersey USA53 Threads 3 Polls 2,862 Posts
mnowsa: wow..it really looks bad


just like the economy. cheers
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Jul 26, 2009 1:18 AM CST WHEN TO GIVE UP LOOKING
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
mnowsa: well, gosh, what shall i say here? why you are making it only about "YOU"? if you have noticed it in your daily life, you will find that almost everyday you try to change yourself. for example, let's say, you like a certain dress and you really like to wear it outside to your work. But the problem is your boss or office doesn't allow that kind of dress. so what you do? you probably wear a different dress which you may not like that much. so things like that happen everyday in our lives.


so my question is, if we can do those things to change ourselves almost every other day, why it is so difficult for us to change ourselves for the person that we "claim" to "love" so much?dunno confused
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Jul 26, 2009 1:19 AM CST WHEN TO GIVE UP LOOKING
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
AsleepInNJ: just like the economy.


well..i am an optmistic person bro. so i do believe that things are going to get betterbeer
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Jul 26, 2009 3:38 AM CST WHEN TO GIVE UP LOOKING
southmiami
southmiamisouthmiamiTampa, Florida USA3 Threads 87 Posts
On this thread I just read through, pretty good opinions to share.
I just finished a relationship and now I'm just letting time come to pass.
I've seen people trying to improve themselves which I applaud greatly.
Others that are laid-back and if it comes, it comes.
People overcoming a break-up, still bitter and angry.
I believe you should never give up there is always someone that can make you happy.
I'm focused now in getting my life together and moving forward .
I have enjoyed CS and thought at some point to get off for a while but then realized
it is a good place to connect with others.
You can never predict when that person is coming into your life, I had been alone for
quite a while and tried but did not work.
I'm inviting here everyone to be positive, I was just scrolling through the pictures how
many faces are out there looking.
Make that first move to initiate,( he or she) so many surprises can come into your life.!!
sad flower
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Jul 26, 2009 3:44 AM CST WHEN TO GIVE UP LOOKING
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
southmiami: On this thread I just read through, pretty good opinions to share.
I just finished a relationship and now I'm just letting time come to pass.
I've seen people trying to improve themselves which I applaud greatly.
Others that are laid-back and if it comes, it comes.
People overcoming a break-up, still bitter and angry.
I believe you should never give up there is always someone that can make you happy.
I'm focused now in getting my life together and moving forward .
I have enjoyed CS and thought at some point to get off for a while but then realized
it is a good place to connect with others.
You can never predict when that person is coming into your life, I had been alone for
quite a while and tried but did not work.
I'm inviting here everyone to be positive, I was just scrolling through the pictures how
many faces are out there looking.
Make that first move to initiate,( he or she) so many surprises can come into your life.!!



wave I like what you said. I too thougth about leaving but decided to stick it out and see how my personal changes will come to affect my ability to give love.
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Jul 26, 2009 3:45 AM CST WHEN TO GIVE UP LOOKING
steve6611
steve6611steve6611Victor Harbor, South Australia Australia1 Threads 1,767 Posts
avecaim: I like what you said. I too thougth about leaving but decided to stick it out and see how my personal changes will come to affect my ability to give love.


I was a great post & I prsonally am so glad you chose to stay Ave
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