southmiami: On this thread I just read through, pretty good opinions to share. I just finished a relationship and now I'm just letting time come to pass. I've seen people trying to improve themselves which I applaud greatly. Others that are laid-back and if it comes, it comes. People overcoming a break-up, still bitter and angry. I believe you should never give up there is always someone that can make you happy. I'm focused now in getting my life together and moving forward . I have enjoyed CS and thought at some point to get off for a while but then realized it is a good place to connect with others. You can never predict when that person is coming into your life, I had been alone for quite a while and tried but did not work. I'm inviting here everyone to be positive, I was just scrolling through the pictures how many faces are out there looking. Make that first move to initiate,( he or she) so many surprises can come into your life.!!
<<<<<<<<That Girl don't even know the words "Giving up" never ever... life is wonderful and you can not find everything you look for in a second....so don't ever give up in anything you look for!!!
dillydally: I would say to never give up .Me though wont be taking that advice . Personally I cant be arsed any more as I seem to always want the one's who dont want me and the ones who want me I dont want Yeah I know .But Im optimistic .I have faith Il one day make the right moves on the right man .So ,I s'pose Die trying is my answer (yeah ,babbled a bit )
sometimes it is hard to work out what is real - even in our own heads - and what is worth taking that chance for. I think the vibes, if I might use that word, will be there and at some point you have to go with your instincts. JMO as they say
Fallingman: sometimes it is hard to work out what is real - even in our own heads - and what is worth taking that chance for. I think the vibes, if I might use that word, will be there and at some point you have to go with your instincts. JMO as they say
Addressing the subject though - no, don't give up. I'm patient. Good things and good people are worth waiting for!
avecaim: I just read this and wanted to let you know how humbled and inspired I am hearing your experience. If you can do Cold Turkey after 35 years then I can quit after 10! I would love to know some of your other strategies. As for not finding love for so long, I am perplexed. You are a brave and soulful man. I believe it WILL happen for you. Keep showing us women this side of yourself. It is very becoming to you. Thanks so much.
Hi avecaim, Thanks ,for seeing is believing, and I have used alot of will power, but you can do it, It Is Mindset..... It is way late, I will fill you in tomorrow...
Yes , but no drinking for me, We had a local Band ( Our Mortician) Ha true tho, It was a 5 yr class reuinion in a large Building , Live band and about a hundred people....
I used to party with all these people, but now , I go and drink Pepsi, tho e danced and had a good time, just a bunch of locals, that I know, nice to see you. Larry
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HotrodLarrys: Yes , but no drinking for me, We had a local Band ( Our Mortician) Ha true tho, It was a 5 yr class reuinion in a large Building , Live band and about a hundred people....
I used to party with all these people, but now , I go and drink Pepsi, tho e danced and had a good time, just a bunch of locals, that I know, nice to see you. Larry
Ahhhhh! sounds like fun. Yup its good to go out and not drink.. you feel so much better in the morning lol
Nice to see you too Larry! Well sweet dreams and maybe see you when you wake up
JS171965: <<<<<<<<That Girl don't even know the words "Giving up" never ever... life is wonderful and you can not find everything you look for in a second....so don't ever give up in anything you look for!!!
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