We take the time to repair our own selves , and get the past behind us , so we can be ready when that Special One Appears, we dont need to be trying to still clean up outr Past..... so fix yourself up, new paint job if possible and Stay Ready
I won't go out with someone just because I don't want to be on my own because I'm perfectly happy on my own and have been for the most part of the three and a half years since I came out of a long term relationship.
If I'm seeing someone it's because I want to be seeing them...not just because I don't want to feel those 'alone' times. Alone times are ok in my book.
I won't go out with someone just because I don't want to be on my own because I'm perfectly happy on my own and have been for the most part of the three and a half years since I came out of a long term relationship.
If I'm seeing someone it's because I want to be seeing them...not just because I don't want to feel those 'alone' times. Alone times are ok in my book.
.................. ...Well said...Young Lady.....To many people are looking for a Partner to make them so called'Happy'....But really they should be 'Happy' in themselves first....
moonkitten: Question: (Your Views, concerning a relationship) <What does a person do , if they`re on a "dry dock"?>
just concentrate on fulfilling your "other" needs.... preferrably with someone who's name you wont remember in the morning and whom you'll never see again !!!!
seekndestroy: just concentrate on fulfilling your "other" needs.... preferrably with someone who's name you wont remember in the morning and whom you'll never see again !!!!
moonkitten: Question: (Your Views, concerning a relationship) <What does a person do , if they`re on a "dry dock"?>
I suppose I would wonder if you're on a 'dry dock' because you're not finding a person you want to be with, or if it is because you are not sure of who or what kind of relationship you are looking for.
moonkitten: Question: (Your Views, concerning a relationship) <What does a person do , if they`re on a "dry dock"?>
Great post. I live in a small town (had lived for years in a cosmopolitan area) so it's even more difficult. Try to look at it this way: you don't want to be damaged by someone. God doesn't want to see you get hurt. A little bit of rain on dirt makes the whole darn field muddy. And so on. I am so impatient, myself. I struggled for so long with my love/passion, and now that I feel so ready to love and be wanted, desired, loved, cherished, all those beautiful things, it is elusive. Funny, when I resisted what were probably good matches for me, back in the day, there were enough of them for me to have made a good partner. Now that I really, really want to, it is so elusive. Life! Hanging in there, though, and thanking God for keeping me out of harm's way, even though loneliness for a lover persists. (although I am not a "lonely" type--very happy when I am alone much of the time. Still, I need a hunky warm body next to mine. I'd rather not get stuck with a turd, though. Kapiche?
moonkitten: Question: (Your Views, concerning a relationship) <What does a person do , if they`re on a "dry dock"?>
I live my life while I am in dry dock. I decided a while back that I couldn't wait for us to find each other. I figured out what my life should be like and started engaging to do it. I wake up each morning happy and looking forward to whatever the day will bring.
I make plans, but realize plans are made to be changed. I won't stay on a course just because I planned to do it. This drives some people crazy! Like when I announce I am leaving CS, then come back! People have written me emails being very critical. Who cares....
I live my life. I love golf, fishing, volunteering, helping others and travel. My family is the most important thing in the world. There is nothing I wouldn't do for them. Nothing. Period.
I'm on the dry dock, but not under repairs. Just waiting to be put back in the water.
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