When One Can`t find The Right Relationship ( Archived) (19)

Jul 28, 2009 3:52 PM CST When One Can`t find The Right Relationship
moonkitten
moonkittenmoonkittenBrighton, Michigan USA33 Threads 77 Posts
Question: (Your Views, concerning a relationship) <What does a person do , if they`re on a "dry dock"?>
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Jul 28, 2009 3:54 PM CST When One Can`t find The Right Relationship
dirko63
dirko63dirko63brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium2 Threads 426 Posts
moonkitten: Question: (Your Views, concerning a relationship) <What does a person do , if they`re on a "dry dock"?>


chuck a bucket of water over it laugh

fates just around the corner ready to smack you in the face
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Jul 28, 2009 3:55 PM CST When One Can`t find The Right Relationship
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
for How long????
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Jul 28, 2009 3:56 PM CST When One Can`t find The Right Relationship
We take the time to repair our own selves , and get the past behind us , so we can be ready when that Special One Appears, we dont need to be trying to still clean up outr Past..... so fix yourself up, new paint job if possible and Stay Readydunno grin
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Jul 28, 2009 4:29 PM CST When One Can`t find The Right Relationship
Entwangled
EntwangledEntwangledBerkshire, England UK7 Threads 103 Posts
I just 'be happy single'.

I won't go out with someone just because I don't want to be on my own because I'm perfectly happy on my own and have been for the most part of the three and a half years since I came out of a long term relationship.

If I'm seeing someone it's because I want to be seeing them...not just because I don't want to feel those 'alone' times.
Alone times are ok in my book.
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Jul 28, 2009 4:36 PM CST When One Can`t find The Right Relationship
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
Entwangled: I just 'be happy single'.

I won't go out with someone just because I don't want to be on my own because I'm perfectly happy on my own and have been for the most part of the three and a half years since I came out of a long term relationship.

If I'm seeing someone it's because I want to be seeing them...not just because I don't want to feel those 'alone' times.
Alone times are ok in my book.


..................thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up ...Well said...Young Lady.....To many people are looking for a Partner to make them so called'Happy'....But really they should be 'Happy' in themselves first.... handshake

J.D

grin devil
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Jul 29, 2009 7:40 PM CST When One Can`t find The Right Relationship
seekndestroy
seekndestroyseekndestroySeattle, Washington USA15 Threads 4,736 Posts
moonkitten: Question: (Your Views, concerning a relationship) <What does a person do , if they`re on a "dry dock"?>


just concentrate on fulfilling your "other" needs.... preferrably with someone who's name you wont remember in the morning and whom you'll never see again !!!!

grin
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Jul 29, 2009 7:45 PM CST When One Can`t find The Right Relationship
prairiewoman
prairiewomanprairiewomanBrandon, Manitoba Canada11 Threads 1,397 Posts
seekndestroy: just concentrate on fulfilling your "other" needs.... preferrably with someone who's name you wont remember in the morning and whom you'll never see again !!!!



...and you're name was....dunno
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Jul 29, 2009 7:48 PM CST When One Can`t find The Right Relationship
Brian67
Brian67Brian67Aurora, Ontario Canada7 Threads 295 Posts
moonkitten: Question: (Your Views, concerning a relationship) <What does a person do , if they`re on a "dry dock"?>


Well time to remove the chastity belt put on that string Bikini and take a plunge of the dock and get yourself all WET!professor rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 29, 2009 8:00 PM CST When One Can`t find The Right Relationship
seekndestroy
seekndestroyseekndestroySeattle, Washington USA15 Threads 4,736 Posts
prairiewoman: ...and you're name was....


Bond....


...James Bond !!!

cool
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Jul 29, 2009 8:01 PM CST When One Can`t find The Right Relationship
prairiewoman
prairiewomanprairiewomanBrandon, Manitoba Canada11 Threads 1,397 Posts
seekndestroy: Bond.......James Bond !!!



rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 29, 2009 8:03 PM CST When One Can`t find The Right Relationship
prairiewoman
prairiewomanprairiewomanBrandon, Manitoba Canada11 Threads 1,397 Posts
moonkitten: Question: (Your Views, concerning a relationship) <What does a person do , if they`re on a "dry dock"?>



I suppose I would wonder if you're on a 'dry dock' because you're not finding a person you want to be with, or if it is because you are not sure of who or what kind of relationship you are looking for.
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Jul 29, 2009 8:09 PM CST When One Can`t find The Right Relationship
Inthewoods
InthewoodsInthewoodsColorado Springs, Colorado USA9,899 Posts
Go out more and do the things you like to do, then you have more chances of finding someone with similar interest's dunno
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Jul 29, 2009 8:15 PM CST When One Can`t find The Right Relationship
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,518 Posts
moonkitten: Question: (Your Views, concerning a relationship) <What does a person do , if they`re on a "dry dock"?>
Great post. I live in a small town (had lived for years in a cosmopolitan area) so it's even more difficult. Try to look at it this way: you don't want to be damaged by someone. God doesn't want to see you get hurt. A little bit of rain on dirt makes the whole darn field muddy. And so on. I am so impatient, myself. I struggled for so long with my love/passion, and now that I feel so ready to love and be wanted, desired, loved, cherished, all those beautiful things, it is elusive. Funny, when I resisted what were probably good matches for me, back in the day, there were enough of them for me to have made a good partner. Now that I really, really want to, it is so elusive. Life! Hanging in there, though, and thanking God for keeping me out of harm's way, even though loneliness for a lover persists. (although I am not a "lonely" type--very happy when I am alone much of the time. Still, I need a hunky warm body next to mine. I'd rather not get stuck with a turd, though. Kapiche? hug handshake
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Aug 1, 2009 10:24 AM CST When One Can`t find The Right Relationship
moonkitten
moonkittenmoonkittenBrighton, Michigan USA33 Threads 77 Posts
I really like this post-see my profile. And do you have a picture? Moonkitten
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Aug 1, 2009 10:27 AM CST When One Can`t find The Right Relationship
moonkitten
moonkittenmoonkittenBrighton, Michigan USA33 Threads 77 Posts
And WHERE is your mind?????- Especially with an accent of negativity.....Meow! -You`re not getting any purr, this time. Moonkitten
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Aug 1, 2009 10:30 AM CST When One Can`t find The Right Relationship
moonkitten
moonkittenmoonkittenBrighton, Michigan USA33 Threads 77 Posts
Boban1: for How long????
Is 32 yrs too long?????
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Aug 1, 2009 10:32 AM CST When One Can`t find The Right Relationship
moonkitten
moonkittenmoonkittenBrighton, Michigan USA33 Threads 77 Posts
moonkitten: And WHERE is your mind?????- Especially with an accent of negativity.....Meow! -You`re not getting any purr, this time. Moonkitten
Intended for the someone who said to chuck water over "IT" (?)
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Aug 1, 2009 10:35 AM CST When One Can`t find The Right Relationship
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
moonkitten: Question: (Your Views, concerning a relationship) <What does a person do , if they`re on a "dry dock"?>


I live my life while I am in dry dock. I decided a while back that I couldn't wait for us to find each other. I figured out what my life should be like and started engaging to do it. I wake up each morning happy and looking forward to whatever the day will bring.

I make plans, but realize plans are made to be changed. I won't stay on a course just because I planned to do it. This drives some people crazy! Like when I announce I am leaving CS, then come back! People have written me emails being very critical. Who cares....

I live my life. I love golf, fishing, volunteering, helping others and travel. My family is the most important thing in the world. There is nothing I wouldn't do for them. Nothing. Period.

I'm on the dry dock, but not under repairs. Just waiting to be put back in the water.
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