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Anyway...when we're younger, we anticipate getting married and raising a family. When we're older, we seek a mate who meets the needs we've discovered inside us. Our children are still important to us, they are the ones we labored so hard to bring forth into the world and cared for when they were so tiny. But a mate is now also important to us for who they are to us, not for creating children together.