I am SOOOOO desperate I am going to start going to the gym(everyday), get Botox injections, hire a personal trainer, get an "extension", lose 30 pounds, work on a 12 pack (the hell with the 6 pack), dye my hair jet black, buy a new Beamer convert (red naturally), lie about my age (well be going back to being 40), rent a luxury apartment(on a beach), and a whole new wardrobe from Neiman-Marcus..
I will do EVERYTHING to impress some "lady", after all, it what one has that counts..
That's funny, but i do not look at what one has, infact i avoid most material things, that's odd eh??
jeepers: I found this on a website :. Don’t Go On Dates Out of Desperation: To make up with your single-hood-ness, you could go on multiple dates on that quest to find true love. There’s thousands of online dating sites to try and meeting up with someone takes no little more than a few clicks of a mouse. But there’s a big difference between dating someone out of desperation and dating someone because they genuinely interest you. When you’re in desperation mode, you might find yourself settling for less than you really deserve or tricking yourself into thinking you like someone when really maybe the chemistry is not even there. Make a Rule: You’ll only date someone because they genuinely interest you and have similiar interests and passions – not just because they are a date.
That is why I AM taking time for me. You have to work through much regarding your past relationship, before you go to another one. Otherwise you can ruin something new by not being ready.
Konigsberg: Don't you know Harry it is all about Sanity in this life? lol What they were teaching you at school? Time to go and give my brain some rest .. I think.
Have a great sleep and restfull night
I left school early, too many crazy people trying to tell me what to do, and how to do it.
jeepersOPCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)10,968 posts
CjTenorSax: That is why I AM taking time for me. You have to work through much regarding your past relationship, before you go to another one. Otherwise you can ruin something new by not being ready.
I go on all kinds of dates. Some are with friends just to catch up on our lives; some are with family to socialize as families do; some are with ladies I think I might like; and, then I date ladies to find out if we are the 'ones' for each other. Hey in my mind all dates are good.
jeepers: I found this on a website :. Don’t Go On Dates Out of Desperation: To make up with your single-hood-ness, you could go on multiple dates on that quest to find true love. There’s thousands of online dating sites to try and meeting up with someone takes no little more than a few clicks of a mouse. But there’s a big difference between dating someone out of desperation and dating someone because they genuinely interest you. When you’re in desperation mode, you might find yourself settling for less than you really deserve or tricking yourself into thinking you like someone when really maybe the chemistry is not even there. Make a Rule: You’ll only date someone because they genuinely interest you and have similiar interests and passions – not just because they are a date.
pikengren: it always seems like you find someone when you are not looking anyway.
i aint lookin!i aint lookin!
i must have been cheating...
ok all this undesperately waiting for the right one is great in theory but as the years roll past,does anyone else start to wonder if they've gone a little to far the other way?too picky?to desperate?
ok all this undesperately waiting for the right one is great in theory but as the years roll past,does anyone else start to wonder if they've gone a little to far the other way?too picky?to desperate?
I think we all second guess and Monday morning judge ourselves; however, none of us wants to just settle with someone that is not what we seek.
jeepers: I found this on a website :. Don’t Go On Dates Out of Desperation: To make up with your single-hood-ness, you could go on multiple dates on that quest to find true love. There’s thousands of online dating sites to try and meeting up with someone takes no little more than a few clicks of a mouse. But there’s a big difference between dating someone out of desperation and dating someone because they genuinely interest you. When you’re in desperation mode, you might find yourself settling for less than you really deserve or tricking yourself into thinking you like someone when really maybe the chemistry is not even there. Make a Rule: You’ll only date someone because they genuinely interest you and have similiar interests and passions – not just because they are a date.
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Oh yeah...sorry. I completely forgot what this thread was about when I saw you on here! It's a serious debate...sorry!