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Lee464: A heart that desires will always be vulnerable to suffering. Remember that your heart ships with everything it requires from the factory and that it's true purpose is to share it's inexhaustible supply of love and happiness.
It's when we get confused and begin to believe that our heart requires something from another source that we set ourselves up for disappointment and suffering...and deservedly so, as we've then become selfish beings...
Your heart was designed to send out goodness with no thought to where it's going or to whom...just a steady outward stream of love.
The person who understands what his heart is for has a heart that is incapable of being hurt...a heart that wants nothing can not be disappointed.
Those who complain about a broken heart have forgotten what the purpose of their heart is and deserve the pain as punishment for that transgression.
Yeah,kind of casting Pearls,and not even getting Porkchops in return!It's when we get confused and begin to believe that our heart requires something from another source that we set ourselves up for disappointment and suffering...and deservedly so, as we've then become selfish beings...
Your heart was designed to send out goodness with no thought to where it's going or to whom...just a steady outward stream of love.
The person who understands what his heart is for has a heart that is incapable of being hurt...a heart that wants nothing can not be disappointed.
Those who complain about a broken heart have forgotten what the purpose of their heart is and deserve the pain as punishment for that transgression.
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Conrad73: Yeah,kind of casting Pearls,and not even getting Porkchops in return!
You've lost me...care to clarify?
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Hi there
. I agree with much of what you say about giving without thought as to who. Doing for others makes me feel great.I think that when a person has been very close with another and then the other hurts the person badly,that is part of being human and having a heart. We can't love and care about others,if we can't also be hurt at times.
. I agree with much of what you say about giving without thought as to who. Doing for others makes me feel great.I think that when a person has been very close with another and then the other hurts the person badly,that is part of being human and having a heart. We can't love and care about others,if we can't also be hurt at times.------ This thread is Archived ------
Lee464: A heart that desires will always be vulnerable to suffering. Remember that your heart ships with everything it requires from the factory and that it's true purpose is to share it's inexhaustible supply of love and happiness.
It's when we get confused and begin to believe that our heart requires something from another source that we set ourselves up for disappointment and suffering...and deservedly so, as we've then become selfish beings...
Your heart was designed to send out goodness with no thought to where it's going or to whom...just a steady outward stream of love.
The person who understands what his heart is for has a heart that is incapable of being hurt...a heart that wants nothing can not be disappointed.
Those who complain about a broken heart have forgotten what the purpose of their heart is and deserve the pain as punishment for that transgression.
It's when we get confused and begin to believe that our heart requires something from another source that we set ourselves up for disappointment and suffering...and deservedly so, as we've then become selfish beings...
Your heart was designed to send out goodness with no thought to where it's going or to whom...just a steady outward stream of love.
The person who understands what his heart is for has a heart that is incapable of being hurt...a heart that wants nothing can not be disappointed.
Those who complain about a broken heart have forgotten what the purpose of their heart is and deserve the pain as punishment for that transgression.
Nice piece of wisdom, much needed in this me,me,me world.
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nomindgames: Hi there . I agree with much of what you say about giving without thought as to who. Doing for others makes me feel great.I think that when a person has been very close with another and then the other hurts the person badly,that is part of being human and having a heart. We can't love and care about others,if we can't also be hurt at times.
I concur!
Good to see ya sis
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nomindgames: Hi there . I agree with much of what you say about giving without thought as to who. Doing for others makes me feel great.I think that when a person has been very close with another and then the other hurts the person badly,that is part of being human and having a heart. We can't love and care about others,if we can't also be hurt at times.
I'm sorry but you can't agree with much of what I said and then say what you did above.
The fact that your concern for how you are made to feel after doing for others shows that you don't understand what I'm saying so how can you agree with it?
Please...just think a little before you respond...take your mind off auto pilot and actually consider your thoughts. I feel sad for you that you believe that you are somehow required to feel pain in life...you may have bought that line of crap at some point in your life...but you didn't have to...it's a choice you made and there is a better one that you can make now.
Afterall it's your happiness that's at stake.
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Lee464: I'm sorry but you can't agree with much of what I said and then say what you did above.
The fact that your concern for how you are made to feel after doing for others shows that you don't understand what I'm saying so how can you agree with it?
Please...just think a little before you respond...take your mind off auto pilot and actually consider your thoughts. I feel sad for you that you believe that you are somehow required to feel pain in life...you may have bought that line of crap at some point in your life...but you didn't have to...it's a choice you made and there is a better one that you can make now.
Afterall it's your happiness that's at stake.
The fact that your concern for how you are made to feel after doing for others shows that you don't understand what I'm saying so how can you agree with it?
Please...just think a little before you respond...take your mind off auto pilot and actually consider your thoughts. I feel sad for you that you believe that you are somehow required to feel pain in life...you may have bought that line of crap at some point in your life...but you didn't have to...it's a choice you made and there is a better one that you can make now.
Afterall it's your happiness that's at stake.
Hey, easy there Lee464... That's a real lady you are talking to
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Lee464: I'm sorry but you can't agree with much of what I said and then say what you did above.
The fact that your concern for how you are made to feel after doing for others shows that you don't understand what I'm saying so how can you agree with it?
Please...just think a little before you respond...take your mind off auto pilot and actually consider your thoughts. I feel sad for you that you believe that you are somehow required to feel pain in life...you may have bought that line of crap at some point in your life...but you didn't have to...it's a choice you made and there is a better one that you can make now.
Afterall it's your happiness that's at stake.
The fact that your concern for how you are made to feel after doing for others shows that you don't understand what I'm saying so how can you agree with it?
Please...just think a little before you respond...take your mind off auto pilot and actually consider your thoughts. I feel sad for you that you believe that you are somehow required to feel pain in life...you may have bought that line of crap at some point in your life...but you didn't have to...it's a choice you made and there is a better one that you can make now.
Afterall it's your happiness that's at stake.
Sir, with all due respect, maybe you should try cleaning the dirty window you're looking through before trying to clean someone else's. If you have TRULY given of yourself to others how could you have NEVER encountered SOME KIND of hurt in the process???? After all, there is no such thing as a PERFECT give and take relationship.
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Grandepensees: Hey, easy there Lee464... That's a real lady you are talking to
Sorry? I fail to see how gender enters into it. If I'm not free to express my opinion here just tell me and I'll remove myself. This thread was designed to try and help people avoid unnecessary pain, but if the truth is too painful then there's nothing to be done...
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hopefloats: Sir, with all due respect, maybe you should try cleaning the dirty window you're looking through before trying to clean someone else's. If you have TRULY given of yourself to others how could you have NEVER encountered SOME KIND of hurt in the process???? After all, there is no such thing as a PERFECT give and take relationship.
You are right...it's the take part that messes it up...and may I ask why you feel the need to become aggressive when someone disagrees with you?
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Lee464: Sorry? I fail to see how gender enters into it. If I'm not free to express my opinion here just tell me and I'll remove myself. This thread was designed to try and help people avoid unnecessary pain, but if the truth is too painful then there's nothing to be done...
No, you're more than welcome to express yourself here, don't let little ol' dumb me refrain you from that.
And I do appreciate what you say, it is only Truth... Just know that some people ARE affected by what others do and say to them, it doesn't mean that they just chose to be hurt, it just means that they care about what others feel, think and say about and to them.
And nomindgames is a friend of mine, I care about her opinions and I value her input on these threads.
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Lee464: You are right...it's the take part that messes it up...and may I ask why you feel the need to become aggressive when someone disagrees with you?
Aggressive?
I was only clarifying a point. If you want to see "aggressive" go to a religious or political thread and read their responses.
Good day
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Grandepensees: No, you're more than welcome to express yourself here, don't let little ol' dumb me refrain you from that.
And I do appreciate what you say, it is only Truth... Just know that some people ARE affected by what others do and say to them, it doesn't mean that they just chose to be hurt, it just means that they care about what others feel, think and say about and to them.
And nomindgames is a friend of mine, I care about her opinions and I value her input on these threads.
And I do appreciate what you say, it is only Truth... Just know that some people ARE affected by what others do and say to them, it doesn't mean that they just chose to be hurt, it just means that they care about what others feel, think and say about and to them.
And nomindgames is a friend of mine, I care about her opinions and I value her input on these threads.
As do I...I was eagerly awaiting her reply when you two ambushed me...
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hopefloats: Aggressive? I was only clarifying a point. If you want to see "aggressive" go to a religious or political thread and read their responses.
Good day
Good day
So you clarify points with insults? Strange...who taught you to do that?
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Lee464: As do I...I was eagerly awaiting her reply when you two ambushed me...
OMG GP, we "ambushed" him......
No more worries Lee, I'm CLEARLY in the wrong thread.
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hopefloats: OMG GP, we "ambushed" him......
No more worries Lee, I'm CLEARLY in the wrong thread.
No more worries Lee, I'm CLEARLY in the wrong thread.
Yeah, we got drunk and he surrounded us in the confusion
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Lee464: As do I...I was eagerly awaiting her reply when you two ambushed me...
Sorry, it's a bad habit from living too long in the U.S, we love to ambush people here
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It's when we get confused and begin to believe that our heart requires something from another source that we set ourselves up for disappointment and suffering...and deservedly so, as we've then become selfish beings...
Your heart was designed to send out goodness with no thought to where it's going or to whom...just a steady outward stream of love.
The person who understands what his heart is for has a heart that is incapable of being hurt...a heart that wants nothing can not be disappointed.
Those who complain about a broken heart have forgotten what the purpose of their heart is and deserve the pain as punishment for that transgression.