Meeting up with someone quickly (28)
flick1980Offaly, Ireland27 Threads 1 Polls 1,684 PostsJust wondering what people think. I dont like communicating through email. I get very lazy and stop replying to emails and then it would seem im not interested. I prefer to meet up with someone very quickly after i start to talk to them to see if there is a connection. I dont believe there can be a connection until u meet someone face to face. I think u could be talking to someone through email for a week or else 6 months and it doesnt make a difference. To be honest i couldnt be bothered to keep on emailing. Maybe that is stopping me meeting someone great but its just how i am. Just wondering would that be a turn off for men if a woman looked to meet them quickly? And sure while im at it does anyone want to start talking to me tomorrow, then take me out this weekend?
flick1980: Just wondering what people think. I dont like communicating through email. I get very lazy and stop replying to emails and then it would seem im not interested. I prefer to meet up with someone very quickly after i start to talk to them to see if there is a connection. I dont believe there can be a connection until u meet someone face to face. I think u could be talking to someone through email for a week or else 6 months and it doesnt make a difference. To be honest i couldnt be bothered to keep on emailing. Maybe that is stopping me meeting someone great but its just how i am. Just wondering would that be a turn off for men if a woman looked to meet them quickly? And sure while im at it does anyone want to start talking to me tomorrow, then take me out this weekend?
Hi flick, I had a look at your profile. You have an amazing attitude and spirit.
I agree, someotimes you can put so much energy into emailing, so much time can go by, it's so much easier to meet. Of-course, that would apply more to meeting a local, but equally important for any LDR's.
All the best to you. I'm sure you can teach us all a thing or two.
flick1980: Just wondering what people think. I dont like communicating through email. I get very lazy and stop replying to emails and then it would seem im not interested. I prefer to meet up with someone very quickly after i start to talk to them to see if there is a connection. I dont believe there can be a connection until u meet someone face to face. I think u could be talking to someone through email for a week or else 6 months and it doesnt make a difference. To be honest i couldnt be bothered to keep on emailing. Maybe that is stopping me meeting someone great but its just how i am. Just wondering would that be a turn off for men if a woman looked to meet them quickly? And sure while im at it does anyone want to start talking to me tomorrow, then take me out this weekend?
im the same its hard to get to know a name on a screen i would rather meet and find out if someone is funny,down to earth and able to hold a conversation for a while which does not make me want to sleep or jump through a window . dont mind if some of the words are wrong just in from the pub!!!
flick1980: Just wondering what people think. I dont like communicating through email. I get very lazy and stop replying to emails and then it would seem im not interested. I prefer to meet up with someone very quickly after i start to talk to them to see if there is a connection. I dont believe there can be a connection until u meet someone face to face. I think u could be talking to someone through email for a week or else 6 months and it doesnt make a difference. To be honest i couldnt be bothered to keep on emailing. Maybe that is stopping me meeting someone great but its just how i am. Just wondering would that be a turn off for men if a woman looked to meet them quickly? And sure while im at it does anyone want to start talking to me tomorrow, then take me out this weekend?
I think I would like to be mailing for a few days and see how things go - but thats just me
I think that it is true that you can mail and mail someone but not get to the "real" person until you have met them in real life. Maybe moving on to chatting on the phone before meeting can help. At least you know if they can hold a conversation. I think there is an advantage in meeting up quickly in that you are not using up your time mailing someone that in real life you would never get on with. However, mailing someone for a length of time can also develop a connection that might at least end up as a friendship. Like everything else, it depends on the person. There are no definitive rules we can follow. We gotta do what suits us.
flick1980: Just wondering what people think. I dont like communicating through email. I get very lazy and stop replying to emails and then it would seem im not interested. I prefer to meet up with someone very quickly after i start to talk to them to see if there is a connection. I dont believe there can be a connection until u meet someone face to face. I think u could be talking to someone through email for a week or else 6 months and it doesnt make a difference. To be honest i couldnt be bothered to keep on emailing. Maybe that is stopping me meeting someone great but its just how i am. Just wondering would that be a turn off for men if a woman looked to meet them quickly? And sure while im at it does anyone want to start talking to me tomorrow, then take me out this weekend?
I completely agree.
I'm a bit pushy in regards to meeting people, if I have the time or the means then I'm like "Lets do it."
Not literally do it but I think people can be so different online personality wise, more confident or whatever cause it's not face to face, hence why I think it's so important to meet quickly, so you know what's what.
Good woman Flick!
tgwstw: I completely agree.
I'm a bit pushy in regards to meeting people, if I have the time or the means then I'm like "Lets do it."
Not literally do it but I think people can be so different online personality wise, more confident or whatever cause it's not face to face, hence why I think it's so important to meet quickly, so you know what's what.
Good woman Flick!
I'm a bit pushy in regards to meeting people, if I have the time or the means then I'm like "Lets do it."
Not literally do it but I think people can be so different online personality wise, more confident or whatever cause it's not face to face, hence why I think it's so important to meet quickly, so you know what's what.
Good woman Flick!
I have the opposite problem. I get on great by email but once they come to visit, that seems to be the end of it. I wonder if it's anything to do with the collection of stuffed fluffy kittens I keep in the cellar and the small cemetary I keep for ex girlfriends in ther back garden.
Godsgift: I have the opposite problem. I get on great by email but once they come to visit, that seems to be the end of it. I wonder if it's anything to do with the collection of stuffed fluffy kittens I keep in the cellar and the small cemetary I keep for ex girlfriends in ther back garden.
Well thats their loss GG .....My kids always argue that theirs 8 feet in a Yard with their teacher ,not 3 feet ...but theyve seen the bodies in my Yard
Honestly though i like to meet quickly as a visual is a 1000 words and why go to all the trouble of mailing for ages if you dont fancy them in real life
..besides you can have a better banter in mails after you see them in person.... so im in agreeance with ya flick.....oh yehhh its amazing the amount of posters who dont look anything like their picture taken back in 1994 who forget to tell you .....Omurchu65: Well thats their loss GG .....My kids always argue that theirs 8 feet in a Yard with their teacher ,not 3 feet ...but theyve seen the bodies in my Yard Honestly though i like to meet quickly as a visual is a 1000 words and why go to all the trouble of mailing for ages if you dont fancy them in real life ..besides you can have a better banter in mails after you see them in person.... so im in agreeance with ya flick.....oh yehhh its amazing the amount of posters who dont look anything like their picture taken back in 1994 who forget to tell you .....
Or 1982 as in some cases
flick1980: Just wondering what people think. I dont like communicating through email. I get very lazy and stop replying to emails and then it would seem im not interested. I prefer to meet up with someone very quickly after i start to talk to them to see if there is a connection. I dont believe there can be a connection until u meet someone face to face. I think u could be talking to someone through email for a week or else 6 months and it doesnt make a difference. To be honest i couldnt be bothered to keep on emailing. Maybe that is stopping me meeting someone great but its just how i am. Just wondering would that be a turn off for men if a woman looked to meet them quickly? And sure while im at it does anyone want to start talking to me tomorrow, then take me out this weekend?
Go for it if u can, i sometimes use the excuse of mailing so that eventually we wud get fed up and i wouldnt have to meet up
Now of course thats not all the time
ladylumps: Or 1982 as in some cases
yes but in some cases thats understandable.....
.........Most of my dates are from the Womens Prison in Holloway and that could be their charge sheet photo
Omurchu65: yes but in some cases thats understandable..............Most of my dates are from the Womens Prison in Holloway and that could be their charge sheet photo
If they are on day release its handy cause if you dont click you dont have to see them again.
flick1980: Just wondering what people think. I dont like communicating through email. I get very lazy and stop replying to emails and then it would seem im not interested. I prefer to meet up with someone very quickly after i start to talk to them to see if there is a connection. I dont believe there can be a connection until u meet someone face to face. I think u could be talking to someone through email for a week or else 6 months and it doesnt make a difference. To be honest i couldnt be bothered to keep on emailing. Maybe that is stopping me meeting someone great but its just how i am. Just wondering would that be a turn off for men if a woman looked to meet them quickly? And sure while im at it does anyone want to start talking to me tomorrow, then take me out this weekend?
I don't think a week is that long but six months would be. I do think though that you need to get to know someone for a while online first because they could be a complete psycho in person and you would probably miss the warning signs if you are only talking for a short time. Having said that, I would have gotten impatient if it dragged on forever.
flick1980: Just wondering what people think. I dont like communicating through email. I get very lazy and stop replying to emails and then it would seem im not interested. I prefer to meet up with someone very quickly after i start to talk to them to see if there is a connection. I dont believe there can be a connection until u meet someone face to face. I think u could be talking to someone through email for a week or else 6 months and it doesnt make a difference. To be honest i couldnt be bothered to keep on emailing. Maybe that is stopping me meeting someone great but its just how i am. Just wondering would that be a turn off for men if a woman looked to meet them quickly? And sure while im at it does anyone want to start talking to me tomorrow, then take me out this weekend?
I agree that meeting has to be done relatively quickly. When you say "very quickly" - how fast do you mean? I always found it best to exchange mails for a day or two, then text for another day or two, then have a phone conversation, and then meet. Flick, I'd start talking to you today. Then take you out tonight :-)
flick1980: Just wondering what people think. I dont like communicating through email. I get very lazy and stop replying to emails and then it would seem im not interested. I prefer to meet up with someone very quickly after i start to talk to them to see if there is a connection. I dont believe there can be a connection until u meet someone face to face. I think u could be talking to someone through email for a week or else 6 months and it doesnt make a difference. To be honest i couldnt be bothered to keep on emailing. Maybe that is stopping me meeting someone great but its just how i am. Just wondering would that be a turn off for men if a woman looked to meet them quickly? And sure while im at it does anyone want to start talking to me tomorrow, then take me out this weekend?
iv to agree too an extent,that meeting up sooner rather than emailing for weeks or months,you can never truely get to know someone through email,
saying that i wouldnt be so quick to go it alone again,as you can never trust anyone...people can be desiving and face to face contact is one sure way of getting to know someone...
flick1980: Just wondering what people think. I dont like communicating through email. I get very lazy and stop replying to emails and then it would seem im not interested. I prefer to meet up with someone very quickly after i start to talk to them to see if there is a connection. I dont believe there can be a connection until u meet someone face to face. I think u could be talking to someone through email for a week or else 6 months and it doesnt make a difference. To be honest i couldnt be bothered to keep on emailing. Maybe that is stopping me meeting someone great but its just how i am. Just wondering would that be a turn off for men if a woman looked to meet them quickly? And sure while im at it does anyone want to start talking to me tomorrow, then take me out this weekend?
iv to agree too an extent,that meeting up sooner rather than emailing for weeks or months,you can never truely get to know someone through email,
saying that i wouldnt be so quick to go it alone again,as you can never trust anyone...people can be desiving and face to face contact is one sure way of getting to know someone...
I think meeting up after an IM chat or a few mails is ok, but if the very first mail is ......Hi wanna met up, I think its a bit of a waste of time, you need to get some sort of vibe from a few mails, an IM convo or a profile.
flick1980: Just wondering what people think. I dont like communicating through email. I get very lazy and stop replying to emails and then it would seem im not interested. I prefer to meet up with someone very quickly after i start to talk to them to see if there is a connection. I dont believe there can be a connection until u meet someone face to face. I think u could be talking to someone through email for a week or else 6 months and it doesnt make a difference. To be honest i couldnt be bothered to keep on emailing. Maybe that is stopping me meeting someone great but its just how i am. Just wondering would that be a turn off for men if a woman looked to meet them quickly? And sure while im at it does anyone want to start talking to me tomorrow, then take me out this weekend?
im the same...i chat away for a week or 2 on email but then want to meet...the only proviso in meeting tho is that i prefer to meet in my home town, cos im safe here and i know a lot of ppl, if it was a case of where he wanted to go out for the night then cos it's my town etc i do offer to pay half his bnb cos i do think thats only fair some take me up on it and some dont, but regardless of that i always go home to my own bed on me ownio 
flick1980: Just wondering what people think. I dont like communicating through email. I get very lazy and stop replying to emails and then it would seem im not interested. I prefer to meet up with someone very quickly after i start to talk to them to see if there is a connection. I dont believe there can be a connection until u meet someone face to face. I think u could be talking to someone through email for a week or else 6 months and it doesnt make a difference. To be honest i couldnt be bothered to keep on emailing. Maybe that is stopping me meeting someone great but its just how i am. Just wondering would that be a turn off for men if a woman looked to meet them quickly? And sure while im at it does anyone want to start talking to me tomorrow, then take me out this weekend?
yea united are out of the fa cup .. no good matches on wat do ya fancy doing?
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