My turn "and he was bad" ???? (86)
kitty.... there is no need to send me emails to call my a putts (not putz) you already have and can do it in here to your heart's delight....
maybe then others can see how nice a person you really are !!!
but i am glad to see that you think me to be clueless....!!!
now i would love to engage you in a battle of wits but as you pointed out, it is late and i am tired.... so as much as i'd love to get it on... imma have to take a rain check....
you have your mighty self a good night and i'll scream at ya later.....
just a figure of speech... im not REALLY gonna scream !!!!
maybe then others can see how nice a person you really are !!!
but i am glad to see that you think me to be clueless....!!!
now i would love to engage you in a battle of wits but as you pointed out, it is late and i am tired.... so as much as i'd love to get it on... imma have to take a rain check....
you have your mighty self a good night and i'll scream at ya later.....
just a figure of speech... im not REALLY gonna scream !!!!
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OneKitty: Wow. That is pretty bold.
Actually, I have a lot of friends on here.
I am sorry that you and I have never met before or that you have never read my posts before. Maybe you did. Maybe you just did not care to pay attention to someone you never met before. Maybe you prefer to converse with people who are more in proximity to where you live. I really don't know.
And yes. Silly me. I did post my concerns on a public forum, which indeed does invite strangers to lambaste me. You did ask the questions and I did answer them.
Sadly I did not answer them to your satisfaction. And also sadly, you did not take the time to get to know me better.
Perhaps in the future we will have an understanding about one another and be in mutual positions to help one another.
In respect, I thank you very kindly for voicing your heartfelt opinions on my concern.
Warmest regard,
Kitty
Actually, I have a lot of friends on here.
I am sorry that you and I have never met before or that you have never read my posts before. Maybe you did. Maybe you just did not care to pay attention to someone you never met before. Maybe you prefer to converse with people who are more in proximity to where you live. I really don't know.
And yes. Silly me. I did post my concerns on a public forum, which indeed does invite strangers to lambaste me. You did ask the questions and I did answer them.
Sadly I did not answer them to your satisfaction. And also sadly, you did not take the time to get to know me better.
Perhaps in the future we will have an understanding about one another and be in mutual positions to help one another.
In respect, I thank you very kindly for voicing your heartfelt opinions on my concern.
Warmest regard,
Kitty
Bold? If you consider my honesty bold then yes. As to why we havn't met before I've not been around much this past year but people who know me from when i was a more active member know that I'm always honest with my posts and expect the same in return... I've never been one to ask for opinions and then been upset if people didn't respond in a sympathetic manner, if I'm screwing up i hope my friends will be honest enough to point it out.
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seekndestroy: kitty.... there is no need to send me emails to call my a putts (not putz) you already have and can do it in here to your heart's delight....
maybe then others can see how nice a person you really are !!!but i am glad to see that you think me to be clueless....!!!
now i would love to engage you in a battle of wits but as you pointed out, it is late and i am tired.... so as much as i'd love to get it on... imma have to take a rain check....you have your mighty self a good night and i'll scream at ya later..... just a figure of speech... im not REALLY gonna scream !!!!
maybe then others can see how nice a person you really are !!!but i am glad to see that you think me to be clueless....!!!
now i would love to engage you in a battle of wits but as you pointed out, it is late and i am tired.... so as much as i'd love to get it on... imma have to take a rain check....you have your mighty self a good night and i'll scream at ya later..... just a figure of speech... im not REALLY gonna scream !!!!
Please continue showing us how bright you are, fool. If I wanted to talk about GOLF I would have. Why don't YOU look it up (putts vs putz). You want to do this in public? That's your call. I have been telling you all evening to cool it. Relax. Get rid of your high or drunk or whatever you are on and talk with me with a clear head tomorrow. You have refused to do that. You seem to like to antagonize on the threads. You my dear, have only exposed yourself. Don't play me, friend.
Have a nice evening and a nice sleep. Hope you feel better tomorrow. K
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If you can't say anything nice about someone, say nothing. Then creep up behind them with a baseball bat and really let em have it.
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jbibiza: Bold? If you consider my honesty bold then yes. As to why we havn't met before I've not been around much this past year but people who know me from when i was a more active member know that I'm always honest with my posts and expect the same in return... I've never been one to ask for opinions and then been upset if people didn't respond in a sympathetic manner, if I'm screwing up i hope my friends will be honest enough to point it out.
Well you did hope so I just have to say.
Your right...
Too little information from the OP for me to comment Im afraid, or even form an opinion altho the defensive replies makes me think....
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Isn't it odd the way everyone automatically assumes that the goo in soap dispensers is always soap? I like to fill mine with mustard, just to teach people a valuable lesson in trust.
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jbibiza: not enough information to give an opinion. Who is janeen? Unless she's an ex girl friend he hasn't finished up with... Why would you have a problem with him talking or spending time with her...everyone is entitled to have friends. I don't get the sink reference but if he was having plumbing problems it would make sense to deal with them.
For him talking to Janeen, I don't see anything wrong with that! The problem I see is the feeling of insecurity somewhere. Do you trust this guy? Is the problem talking to Janeen or talking to Janeen and forgeting all about you?It depends on when and how often the "plumbing" issues come up! Is it one of many excuses he brings up whenever you need his attention?
All in all you desire attention but demanding for it won't help. Just let him know you feel, if he loves and respects you, he will try to adjust. In a relationship there is always a price to pay to adjust because we are different.
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adamisk: If you can't say anything nice about someone, say nothing. Then creep up behind them with a baseball bat and really let em have it.
I hav`nt found , a post that has more truth and wisdom in it ,than this one...
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OneKitty: That's what I was thinking too. This, after I have invested only about 8 months into this relationship.
I ask, am I not worthy of feelings? Am I not worthy of a bad day? Am I not worthy of a little comfort and love and TLC?
To all of the above and more, I say YES. Why can't I be the weak one today? Why can't I have comfort?
It's just not right.
Thanks for your comment. K
I ask, am I not worthy of feelings? Am I not worthy of a bad day? Am I not worthy of a little comfort and love and TLC?
To all of the above and more, I say YES. Why can't I be the weak one today? Why can't I have comfort?
It's just not right.
Thanks for your comment. K
you are in the situation and know best-you dont need anyone elses confirmation do you?
you answered you own question here..
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OneKitty: Many of you know me. Many of you told me don't do this because it was a he said/she said. Running down the street and shouting it is silly.
Let's just cut to the chase. Do you think I am nuts?
I don't think so.
He put me aside to talk with "janeene" or whatever.
Then while visiting, he had to go see his "sink."
Get real.
Said I was nuts and would not talk anymore.
me: major pXXXXX'd
You: tell me what.
If I sound crazy, I want to hear that too. Ask all the questions you want.
PS - he's not from CS
Let's just cut to the chase. Do you think I am nuts?
I don't think so.
He put me aside to talk with "janeene" or whatever.
Then while visiting, he had to go see his "sink."
Get real.
Said I was nuts and would not talk anymore.
me: major pXXXXX'd
You: tell me what.
If I sound crazy, I want to hear that too. Ask all the questions you want.
PS - he's not from CS
Impossible to do anything but wildly speculate based on the incomplete (and fairly incoherent) account given here.
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Now,
What exactly is the problem you are having with this guy....
What exactly is the problem you are having with this guy....
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adamisk: If you can't say anything nice about someone, say nothing. Then creep up behind them with a baseball bat and really let em have it.
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OneKitty: Hey JB and Morgan! Thanks for trusting me on this one. Okay, let me clear up the ???. I have NO clue who Janeen is other than the conversation is carried on at least 3 times a week (former classmate is what I am told, do I belive it? Not really). Why would I have a problem with it? Because it was over 30 years ago if it is indeed a former classmate -- say bye bye. Yes everyone is entitled to have "friends", but I come first. Sorry. That is the way it works, here. Selfish? Maybe. But what would you do? Put yourself on back seat to a "former classmate"? I don't think so. I have invested nearly a year in this relationship and I won't be put on the back seat. Item next? Oh the sink. Damned if I know too. All I know is I got put on hold after the chickie babe and also after the "sink." Clear, darlings? You now know what I know. Even made a phone call and said "you don't get to do this to me." Someone got very angry. I was not me. I can't do this ladies. Not anymore. If you have more to say, I would very much like to hear it.
If you speak to him as you are speaking here, I can understand why he'd want to go visit "Janeen" or perhaps do some plumbing. Maybe even dig a ditch somewhere.
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adamisk: Isn't it odd the way everyone automatically assumes that the goo in soap dispensers is always soap? I like to fill mine with mustard, just to teach people a valuable lesson in trust.
I'l keep that in mind next time I am out and washing my hands, I will be sure to bring my empty mustard container to refill it while I am there.....handy that...
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jbibiza: not enough information to give an opinion. Who is janeen? Unless she's an ex girl friend he hasn't finished up with... Why would you have a problem with him talking or spending time with her...everyone is entitled to have friends. I don't get the sink reference but if he was having plumbing problems it would make sense to deal with them.
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stefonline: Now,
What exactly is the problem you are having with this guy....
What exactly is the problem you are having with this guy....
lol
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From what I have read between the lines, he seems to be getting it on with some other ladies.... wasn't rocket science to figure it out....
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stefonline: From what I have read between the lines, he seems to be getting it on with some other ladies.... wasn't rocket science to figure it out....
Isn't that the answer you usually come up with when reading between the lines regardless??
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OneKitty: Really. Its that bad?
Uhhhhhh... yes...
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.... yeah... well.... that logic is lost with some people !!!!
i hear the Pacific Northwest is full of clueless, controlling and absolutely ridiculously irrational women..... im thinking it may have something to do with them being granola, liberal and attractiveness challenged !!!!