Who should make the first move? ( Archived) (41)

What he said

i cant speak for all me , but for me, i like it when the girl makes the first move , that way, i guess i dont feel like im gonna be rejected or shot down. so i go into it with more confidence and it just seems to go smoother. but again, thats just me!
but,thats not to say that i never make the first move,it just depends on the hunch or feeling i get i suppose.

If everyone sat around waiting for the other to make the first move, we would all be alone.

I have learned not to waste precious time.

Best advice I have, let the other person know you are interested.

Exactly....

This is a good question; I like to 'go with the gut'. If I feel resistance or hesitation, I liken that to my 'inner vision' telling me no. But if the feeling is like a 'release' or a relaxed sensation, I take that as a 'go'. It's always a good idea to tap into our instincts rather than to merely put trust in our emotionally tainted impulses. They seem to be connected to a deeper, wiser source.

What difference does it make? WHO CARES?

yes guys like to make the first move but some girls like to be first as well top you

sometimes love is like chess
the first one to move wins
other times it is the last one who moves wins
sometimes it is a draw for you agree to stay as friends


but yet is not a game you should play with someone
for you are dealing with a human being
who has feelings that can get hurt
a heart that can get broken
sometimes you are dealing
with someone who already has had their heart broken
they are seeking someone who will love them
someone who will care about them
someone who will never break their heart
but only to fill it with love and happiness
a love that will last forever and ever


but yet sometimes love is like a game
for it takes 2 people to play
but they have to want the same thing
for sometimes one wants something
while the other one wants something else
they both has to want the same thing
they have to be on the same page


but love takes time to start
love also takes time to grow
first you must know the inside of each other
you have to know what each other wants
you have to know where both of you want to go
you have to know if both of you wants the same thing


love is something you cannot rush
for sometimes when you rush love
it does not work out and it does not last
soemtimes you get hurt


it does not matter who makes the first move
what does matter if you both
are willing to take the time
to get to know each other
not from the outside in
but from the inside out


you both have to know which way you want to go
you both have to want the same thing
in order for it to work
if you both fall in love with each other
both of you have to be willing
to let your love for each other
inside of your heart to grow with each beat of your heart
you both have to want the love you have for each other
to last forever and ever.

so in reality it does not really matter who makes the first move
all that matters if both of you want the same thing

so very true!!