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Feb 10, 2010 5:29 PM CST What do people "REALLY" want??
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: The truth is easy. It's what others do with the truth, that is hard to handle.


Not hard for me at all..dunno Matter of fact, ain't none of my business what they do with it..grin
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Feb 10, 2010 7:06 PM CST What do people "REALLY" want??
imsophie1
imsophie1imsophie1Knox, Pennsylvania USA23 Threads 501 Posts
We can't embrace our future until we settle our past and let it go.
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Feb 10, 2010 7:09 PM CST What do people "REALLY" want??
tennesseejudy
tennesseejudytennesseejudyNew Holland, Pennsylvania USA54 Threads 2 Polls 1,540 Posts
HJFinAZ: Plan the "fishing trip", not the "fish fry"..


What does this mean?
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Feb 10, 2010 7:24 PM CST What do people "REALLY" want??
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
tennesseejudy: What does this mean?
Honestly, what I and some people want is to meet new friends, maybe date, but in general have a bit of fun talking to folks all over the world.

I am up for meeting anyone face to face as I have already proven IN Edinburh(Sad all blokes good lads though) and in Dublin All nice folk. We should be using this forum to broaden our horizons well I am. or I am being to serious just for a change????wave cheers grin
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Feb 10, 2010 7:46 PM CST What do people "REALLY" want??
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
tennesseejudy: What does this mean?


Take a risk, and do not plan the outcome..wink

Enjoy the moment...yay
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Feb 10, 2010 7:59 PM CST What do people "REALLY" want??
sideshowbob
sideshowbobsideshowbob1st house on the left, Tasman New Zealand1 Threads 337 Posts
What do I really want?

Oh lord, wont you buy me a mercedes benz head banger head banger
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Feb 10, 2010 8:27 PM CST What do people "REALLY" want??
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
LOVE
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Feb 10, 2010 9:07 PM CST What do people "REALLY" want??
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
constanza: LOVE


"To thine own self be true."wink
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Feb 11, 2010 1:58 AM CST What do people "REALLY" want??
Serenity1971
Serenity1971Serenity1971Serenity's Island, New York USA81 Threads 2 Polls 3,815 Posts
I remember a long time ago that someone asked me and made a few statements in the same conversation. I don't remember it all word for word, but it went something like this:

"What does Cristyne Marie want?" Then went on a tangent about me wanting to be loved and then went on to the subject of looking in the mirror and loving the person looking back at them and having a relationship with the person in the mirror in order to find out what that person wants mumbling frustrated

Of course the initial reaction to the whole thing was "What the h@!! do you know about me! Then I remembered that person saying that I was a female version of him 30 years ago doh

Today I know what I want and it doesn't matter whether or not I find him. I know that I have the most important thing that makes me happy...Knowing and understanding me and being able to look in the mirror and love the woman that looks back at me. I have many people in my life that love me because I'm me. Sure it'd be nice to have the "And they lived happily ever after" but in the meantime life is meant to be lived and enjoyed, so I'm taking full advantage of it grin

Thanks Papa hug bouquet
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Feb 11, 2010 2:37 AM CST What do people "REALLY" want??
HJFinAZ: "To thine own self be true."
Seems I have some Coins with that on it!grin
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Feb 11, 2010 2:39 AM CST What do people "REALLY" want??
HJFinAZ: Plan the "fishing trip", not the "fish fry"..
Could always buy some Fish on the way back!confused





























rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 11, 2010 12:21 PM CST What do people "REALLY" want??
thank you Jeepers. I really, really mean that.hug
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Feb 11, 2010 12:26 PM CST What do people "REALLY" want??
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Serenity1971: I remember a long time ago that someone asked me and made a few statements in the same conversation. I don't remember it all word for word, but it went something like this:

"What does Cristyne Marie want?" Then went on a tangent about me wanting to be loved and then went on to the subject of looking in the mirror and loving the person looking back at them and having a relationship with the person in the mirror in order to find out what that person wants

Of course the initial reaction to the whole thing was "What the h@!! do you know about me! Then I remembered that person saying that I was a female version of him 30 years ago

Today I know what I want and it doesn't matter whether or not I find him. I know that I have the most important thing that makes me happy...Knowing and understanding me and being able to look in the mirror and love the woman that looks back at me. I have many people in my life that love me because I'm me. Sure it'd be nice to have the "And they lived happily ever after" but in the meantime life is meant to be lived and enjoyed, so I'm taking full advantage of it

Thanks Papa


What a**hole would EVER say anything like that??grin
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Feb 11, 2010 12:33 PM CST What do people "REALLY" want??
Sasyecat
SasyecatSasyecatCarroll, Iowa USA23 Posts
That's a good question. sigh I have an Ex that treats my life like a revolving door, for near 20 years. frustrated With him, I know what to expect, nothing. This time it's over, right? dunno
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Feb 11, 2010 1:52 PM CST What do people "REALLY" want??
Thebuffalo
ThebuffaloThebuffalonewark, Delaware USA3 Threads 59 Posts
Human nature is unlimited wants. We want it all, however scarcity prevents us from getting it all and keeps the world in balance.

The problem with love being scarcity no longer exists. With limitless communication and far to many people on earth to sift through, our unlimited wants are persued more strongly. The main reason that is being that chances dictate there is some one better out there for you. True love is overcoming these statistics, and finding some one who will truly satisfy the wants. Them being mental, physical, and emotional.

In order to find "the one" both parties must satisfy eachothers wants. The only way to do this is through unbuffered communication. Something else that is a rarity. If you don't trust a partner, its not going to work. Thats not to say that denial is the key to a good relationship. A good judge of this I find to be the ability to talk about ANYTHING with eachother, no matter how sensitive the topic.
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Feb 12, 2010 12:57 AM CST What do people "REALLY" want??
Serenity1971
Serenity1971Serenity1971Serenity's Island, New York USA81 Threads 2 Polls 3,815 Posts
HJFinAZ: What a**hole would EVER say anything like that??



roll eyes

Some ornery old fart named Pat rolling on the floor laughing

tongue
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Feb 12, 2010 3:18 AM CST What do people "REALLY" want??
misss
misssmisssbrisbane, Queensland Australia1 Posts
In response to: Profiles say one thing, our actions show another. I am sure all (at least most of us) really do enjoy the forums for the most part.

But why do we REALLY stay? Is it our longing to be loved? How many would truly be "WILLING" to take the risk that is required to make a loving relationship work?

I have often stated that BOTH parties must be "available" emotionally, spiritually, physically, and mentally.. How many are, and how many still CHOOSE to hang on to the past hurts or hang on to "what might be".



Dear Sir..how true your observation is.So many of us say we want a relationship,and yet it is as though people want the nice easy parts of it,but not the rest....Any relationship,but particularly a male/female one requires time,effort,commitment and when things don`t always go as planned, a reality check. Yes,moonlight walks on beaches,romantic dinners,idealised dreams are fine in their place.But,they are not the reality of an everyday relationship. That requires compromise,attention to mundane matters,sometimes boredom,sometimes disagreements,sometimes disappointments..Not the kind of things we mention we are looking for in our profiles.
Maybe for most..it is just too difficult.
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Feb 12, 2010 3:18 AM CST What do people "REALLY" want??
Thebuffalo: Human nature is unlimited wants. We want it all, however scarcity prevents us from getting it all and keeps the world in balance.

The problem with love being scarcity no longer exists. With limitless communication and far to many people on earth to sift through, our unlimited wants are persued more strongly. The main reason that is being that chances dictate there is some one better out there for you. True love is overcoming these statistics, and finding some one who will truly satisfy the wants. Them being mental, physical, and emotional.

In order to find "the one" both parties must satisfy eachothers wants. The only way to do this is through unbuffered communication. Something else that is a rarity. If you don't trust a partner, its not going to work. Thats not to say that denial is the key to a good relationship. A good judge of this I find to be the ability to talk about ANYTHING with eachother, no matter how sensitive the topic.
Now,could you translate that?grin confused
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Feb 12, 2010 3:21 AM CST What do people "REALLY" want??
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
What I REALLY want? Right now.... to see your pic up again, P?!!
cheers
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Feb 12, 2010 8:52 AM CST What do people "REALLY" want??
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Serenity1971: Some ornery old fart named Pat


Probably should have slapped the crap out of him..mumbling
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