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itsallme112: Was invited out to a public function by a nice lady. We danced a little bit and only one or two drinks. At the end of the night we went to her place where I left my car. Before I got out her car she leaned over and gave me a big wet kiss and asked me if I wanted to come in for a night cap. Her teen son at that time arrived home and I felt uncomfortable being a stranger coming into his home with his mom. So I just left.
Was that a form of seduction on her part and what would you do?
Was that a form of seduction on her part and what would you do?
For a change... Im serious this time...
I have great respect for children... and I would do the same as you...
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itsallme112: Was invited out to a public function by a nice lady. We danced a little bit and only one or two drinks. At the end of the night we went to her place where I left my car. Before I got out her car she leaned over and gave me a big wet kiss and asked me if I wanted to come in for a night cap. Her teen son at that time arrived home and I felt uncomfortable being a stranger coming into his home with his mom. So I just left.
Was that a form of seduction on her part and what would you do?
Was that a form of seduction on her part and what would you do?
Let me see if I understood you...
She invited you to spend a night at her place while her teen son (whom you've never met before) was at home? Is that it?
You did the right thing leaving, Itsallme.
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Laura25: Let me see if I understood you...
She invited you to spend a night at her place while her teen son (whom you've never met before) was at home? Is that it? You did the right thing leaving, Itsallme.
She invited you to spend a night at her place while her teen son (whom you've never met before) was at home? Is that it? You did the right thing leaving, Itsallme.
To be fair, she only invited him in for a nightcap, not specifically to spend the night and the teen son happened to arrive home at the same time.
I think he did exactly the right thing, showed consideration for the son's feelings and acted like a gentleman.
But, if you really like her, why not give her a call? She's obviuously interested in you
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lets give the benefit of doubt to her, at the start of the day i dont think anyone of you wud have thot of making up until the kiss happended and the kid just walked inn just abt the same time ...
you were right in not going ahead with it and respecting the childs emotions
you were right in not going ahead with it and respecting the childs emotions
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I dunno here.
She appeared comfortable enough with you to invite you in and that's with the knowledge that her teenage son would be there, at some stage.
I personally would have gone in for a coffee, met the lad, shook his hand and after the coffee, I would have THEN left.
She appeared comfortable enough with you to invite you in and that's with the knowledge that her teenage son would be there, at some stage.
I personally would have gone in for a coffee, met the lad, shook his hand and after the coffee, I would have THEN left.
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Steve5721: I dunno here.
She appeared comfortable enough with you to invite you in and that's with the knowledge that her teenage son would be there, at some stage.
I personally would have gone in for a coffee, met the lad, shook his hand and after the coffee, I would have THEN left.
She appeared comfortable enough with you to invite you in and that's with the knowledge that her teenage son would be there, at some stage.
I personally would have gone in for a coffee, met the lad, shook his hand and after the coffee, I would have THEN left.
I think there is a time for adult stuff and a right time to introduce a new man into your childrens lives...
Does this woman do this sort of thing ALL the time
And what affect is it going to have on the boy and how will he treat woman when it is his time to date
You did the right thing and maybe you are the first Gentleman role model for the boy
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todger: I think there is a time for adult stuff and a right time to introduce a new man into your childrens lives...
Does this woman do this sort of thing ALL the time
And what affect is it going to have on the boy and how will he treat woman when it is his time to date
You did the right thing and maybe you are the first Gentleman role model for the boy
Does this woman do this sort of thing ALL the time
And what affect is it going to have on the boy and how will he treat woman when it is his time to date
You did the right thing and maybe you are the first Gentleman role model for the boy
I agree about the adult stuff comment..but coffee is not adult stuff to me...but then again, maybe it can be classed as that.
Personally, I would have seen no harm in going in for coffee, having that coffee and then bidding everyone a good night.
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Steve5721: I agree about the adult stuff comment..but coffee is not adult stuff to me...but then again, maybe it can be classed as that.
Personally, I would have seen no harm in going in for coffee, having that coffee and then bidding everyone a good night.
Personally, I would have seen no harm in going in for coffee, having that coffee and then bidding everyone a good night.
Yes Steve, but hun, thats because you are a gent and dont think everyone is like you.. I think that you need to trust your instincts about the current situation at all times....
(Thanx hun for spending some time driving me about, I enjoyed your company...
Off to London by coach in less than an hour...)
Cheers
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Angelo9: To be fair, she only invited him in for a nightcap, not specifically to spend the night and the teen son happened to arrive home at the same time.
I think he did exactly the right thing, showed consideration for the son's feelings and acted like a gentleman.
But, if you really like her, why not give her a call? She's obviuously interested in you
I think he did exactly the right thing, showed consideration for the son's feelings and acted like a gentleman.
But, if you really like her, why not give her a call? She's obviuously interested in you
Fair enough...
That's why I asked OP to elaborate a little - after all the question was if it "was a form of seduction on her part...".
In any case OP did the right thing leaving.
P.S. And I agree, if he is interested, he knows what to do.
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Merriweather: Yes Steve, but hun, thats because you are a gent and dont think everyone is like you.. I think that you need to trust your instincts about the current situation at all times....
(Thanx hun for spending some time driving me about, I enjoyed your company...
Off to London by coach in less than an hour...)
Cheers
(Thanx hun for spending some time driving me about, I enjoyed your company...
Off to London by coach in less than an hour...)
Cheers
It seems that only I think it's okay to have coffee
Maybe it's because I know me I guess.Have a good trip to the UK Skippy! it was fun walking around Barcelona with you...my knees have recovered!
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Steve5721: Yes, I agree there and that is the sad thing. Men (some men) think 'Come in for coffee' means 'Come and screw me'!
Yep a nightcap is just that, also it may be she (me being devious) had arranged for her lad to be there to check you out and be her chaperone in case you thought it was more than a nightcap It can be a minefield...Still you did the right thing. So why not give her a call and arrange another date???? ------ This thread is Archived ------
itsallme112: Was invited out to a public function by a nice lady. We danced a little bit and only one or two drinks. At the end of the night we went to her place where I left my car. Before I got out her car she leaned over and gave me a big wet kiss and asked me if I wanted to come in for a night cap. Her teen son at that time arrived home and I felt uncomfortable being a stranger coming into his home with his mom. So I just left.
... what would you do?
... what would you do?
I'd wait for you to drive away and ring the bell.
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So she kissed you.Maybe you should've come right out and asked what she meant by a night cap.So her teenage son had arrived home.Maybe you should've went in anyway and had the coffee and left.
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Was that a form of seduction on her part and what would you do?