lovingyou49: Hell no not messing with a married man, get a divorce and then go find someone else. Not me you cheat once you'll do it twice.
That was my recommendations to the person. I told them first of all, I definitely was not interested in a married man. Secondly, if he knew that he wasn't leaving his wife then he needed to work on his marriage. If he was that unhappy he needed to get over it and get a divorce. Regardless, I was not going to be dragged into the middle of the mess.
I know his wife very well and I really hate it for her now. He claims that she is having an affair right now. I told him that that did not give him a right to go out messing around while he was still married to her. He needed to work things out with her or get a divorce if he was so miserable.
The nerve to ask me to do this......I just sat there like this.. ...then I would for a minute because I could not believe what had just happened, then... ..then ...
lovely4u7da: Not sharing and dont want what your wife dont even want SOME men will find a way to justify whatever they want ,,,,does not make it ok to do
Happygolucky4u: I have a few rules I live by in life. They help my life run a little smoother. One is I do not step on anothers toes. And what an insult to me and his wife. That he would think I would be that type of woman hmph.
Exactly....what an insult to think that I was that kind of person.
obviously who i am today is different than who i was in my past
but depending on the guy
??
sure it is possibletoday im a different person and i cant justify anything like that
but ya know-mickey aint gonna live forever and if he goes first who knows what mischief i will get up to at 76 years old crap i just realized who would make me this offer when im 76?
ok well then i guess the answer is no due to lack of opportunity
woodzchick: That was my recommendations to the person. I told them first of all, I definitely was not interested in a married man. Secondly, if he knew that he wasn't leaving his wife then he needed to work on his marriage. If he was that unhappy he needed to get over it and get a divorce. Regardless, I was not going to be dragged into the middle of the mess.
I know his wife very well and I really hate it for her now. He claims that she is having an affair right now. I told him that that did not give him a right to go out messing around while he was still married to her. He needed to work things out with her or get a divorce if he was so miserable.
The nerve to ask me to do this......I just sat there like this.. ...then I would for a minute because I could not believe what had just happened, then... ..then ...
I have to see these people every day...
Wow sorry this really happened to you, I know its got to be hard seeing either one of them, but hes a dog and her she also has no respect for herself or him. Sounds like it could really ruin a friendship, that you thought was good. SORRY
well i didnt know it was all that involved woodz i thought it was a hypothetical
i have known and been friends with a number of men for many many years due to playing music and the majority there are men, so i may have known them before their marriage or whatnot i mean history between people is really something
and i was lookin more at the relationship between me and him than the woman
I think i'd be flattered at my age especially, but the answer is no, but thanks for the thought. Now go home and try to put that same passion into romancing your spouse.......
Lets say that someone you have known for a very long time...a married somebody, approaches you one day and gives you this offer:
"I love my wife (or husband) and I'm not going to leave them. I think they are fooling around on me and I have on them. But I think you are hot and my wife (or husband) is not satisfying me lately.....so can we get it on and you not tell."
What would you say?
Now why would a person want to risk loosing what they already have in hopes of getting what they already have? That just doesn't make any sense to me.
Now if there is something wrong with what they already have, then that is a different story. But even at that you should either fix what is wrong with what you have or let what you have go before you get something else!!
I just happen to "have" that particular feeling about this particular "something!!"
Think a bed of nails would feel more comfortable than bedding anyone with this irresistible offer (not) ... NO... NOT NOW... NOT EVER... unless I enjoy sticking a needle in my eye I would steer clear
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