Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think..... ( Archived) (119)

Apr 26, 2010 8:30 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
Christmas1
Christmas1Christmas1Peterborough, Ontario Canada31 Threads 2,419 Posts
I would say....Piss off.
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Apr 26, 2010 8:30 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
AngelinBali
AngelinBaliAngelinBaliBali, Indonesia270 Posts
nanners2863: Couldn't do it..I think that a bond between two people is sacred..I am not about to mess around with that. Bad karma!!


thumbs up

I don't do the men of my "sisters" - Code of honor.
To much of an energy mix and bad karma professor
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Apr 26, 2010 8:31 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
well i will be honest

obviously who i am today is different than who i was in my past

but depending on the guy

??

sure it is possible


today im a different person and i cant justify anything like that

but ya know-mickey aint gonna live forever and if he goes first who knows what mischief i will get up to at 76 years olddunno grin head banger


crap i just realized who would make me this offer when im 76?

ok well then i guess the answer is no due to lack of opportunitydoh
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Apr 26, 2010 8:31 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
lovingyou49: Hell no not messing with a married man, get a divorce and then go find someone else. Not me you cheat once you'll do it twice.


That was my recommendations to the person. I told them first of all, I definitely was not interested in a married man. Secondly, if he knew that he wasn't leaving his wife then he needed to work on his marriage. If he was that unhappy he needed to get over it and get a divorce. Regardless, I was not going to be dragged into the middle of the mess.

I know his wife very well and I really hate it for her now. He claims that she is having an affair right now. I told him that that did not give him a right to go out messing around while he was still married to her. He needed to work things out with her or get a divorce if he was so miserable.

The nerve to ask me to do this......I just sat there like this..wow ...then I would laugh for a minute because I could not believe what had just happened, then...wow ..then ...laugh wow laugh

I have to see these people every day...wow wow
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Apr 26, 2010 8:33 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
lovely4u7da: Not sharing and dont want what your wife dont even want SOME men will find a way to justify whatever they want ,,,,does not make it ok to do


OM goodness how they will try to justify it.
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Apr 26, 2010 8:35 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
Happygolucky4u: I have a few rules I live by in life. They help my life run a little smoother. One is I do not step on anothers toes. And what an insult to me and his wife. That he would think I would be that type of woman hmph.


Exactly....what an insult to think that I was that kind of person.very mad
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Apr 26, 2010 8:36 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
mindfful: well i will be honest

obviously who i am today is different than who i was in my past

but depending on the guy

??

sure it is possibletoday im a different person and i cant justify anything like that

but ya know-mickey aint gonna live forever and if he goes first who knows what mischief i will get up to at 76 years old crap i just realized who would make me this offer when im 76?

ok well then i guess the answer is no due to lack of opportunity


laugh ....76...laugh
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Apr 26, 2010 8:39 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
lovingyou49
lovingyou49lovingyou49Napoleon, Ohio USA3 Threads 359 Posts
woodzchick: That was my recommendations to the person. I told them first of all, I definitely was not interested in a married man. Secondly, if he knew that he wasn't leaving his wife then he needed to work on his marriage. If he was that unhappy he needed to get over it and get a divorce. Regardless, I was not going to be dragged into the middle of the mess.

I know his wife very well and I really hate it for her now. He claims that she is having an affair right now. I told him that that did not give him a right to go out messing around while he was still married to her. He needed to work things out with her or get a divorce if he was so miserable.

The nerve to ask me to do this......I just sat there like this.. ...then I would for a minute because I could not believe what had just happened, then... ..then ...

I have to see these people every day...


Wow sorry this really happened to you, I know its got to be hard seeing either one of them, but hes a dog and her she also has no respect for herself or him. Sounds like it could really ruin a friendship, that you thought was good.
SORRY
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Apr 26, 2010 8:42 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
woodzchick: ....76...
meanwhile i could get hit by a bus tomorrowdunno

well i didnt know it was all that involved woodz
i thought it was a hypothetical

i have known and been friends with a number of men for many many years due to playing music and the majority there are men,
so i may have known them before their marriage or whatnot
i mean history between people is really something

and i was lookin more at the relationship between me and him than the woman

shame me i dont caretongue
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Apr 26, 2010 8:43 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
Desertguy49
Desertguy49Desertguy49South Western Desert, Arizona USA7 Threads 2,259 Posts
Remember, what goes around comes around, Instant Karma will get ya.
Wouldn't do it!!!grin
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Apr 26, 2010 8:46 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
strict
strictstricttehran, Iran5 Threads 2,018 Posts
teacher:do you think bad is good?
student:hell noo..bad is BAD
teacher:exactly
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Apr 26, 2010 8:49 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
deacon6347
deacon6347deacon6347Amado, Arizona USA10 Threads 757 Posts
I think i'd be flattered at my age especially, but the answer is no, but thanks for the thought. Now go home and try to put that same passion into romancing your spouse.......doh
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Apr 26, 2010 8:49 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
dsmidiman
dsmidimandsmidimanIndianapolis, Indiana USA2 Threads 1 Polls 10 Posts
woodzchick: Ladies and Gentlemen,

Lets say that someone you have known for a very long time...a married somebody, approaches you one day and gives you this offer:

"I love my wife (or husband) and I'm not going to leave them. I think they are fooling around on me and I have on them. But I think you are hot and my wife (or husband) is not satisfying me lately.....so can we get it on and you not tell."

What would you say?


Now why would a person want to risk loosing what they already have in hopes of getting what they already have? That just doesn't make any sense to me.

Now if there is something wrong with what they already have, then that is a different story. But even at that you should either fix what is wrong with what you have or let what you have go before you get something else!!

I just happen to "have" that particular feeling about this particular "something!!" professor professor professor
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Apr 26, 2010 9:07 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
ok sure people
im the oooooonly onedoh grin cool
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Apr 26, 2010 9:08 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
Think a bed of nails would feel more comfortable than bedding anyone with this irresistible offer (not) uh oh... NO... NOT NOW... NOT EVER... unless I enjoy sticking a needle in my eye I would steer clear doh help barf
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Apr 26, 2010 9:09 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
strict
strictstricttehran, Iran5 Threads 2,018 Posts
mindfful: ok sure people
im the oooooonly one
who tell the truth.
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Apr 26, 2010 9:12 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
nanners2863: Couldn't do it..I think that a bond between two people is sacred..I am not about to mess around with that. Bad karma!!


Same here; as Snaglepuss used to say,"Exit, stage left!"laugh
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Apr 26, 2010 9:19 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
strict: who tell the truth.



blushing dunno

ive done some livin and alot of it i was able to justify for a long time






but im better nowthumbs up
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Apr 26, 2010 9:29 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
justadawg
justadawgjustadawgsomewhere, Texas USA2 Threads 328 Posts
woodzchick: You dirty dawg, you!
rolling on the floor laughing help comfort
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Apr 26, 2010 9:34 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
mindfful: ok sure people
im the oooooonly one
doh ok ok, i'll admit it...like you, when i was younger, i woould've knocked the bottom out of itblushing


impetuous youth !!professor grin
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