Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think..... (119)
Englishman55: You have every right to get mad.... I would be furious that anyone would take me for a fool.
If they wanted to approach me AFTER they had finished their married relationship, then that might be different, but I would have to be sure it was totaly over.
Having been cheated on, I know what it's like and would not want to have anything to do with someone who thought it was ok to cheat.
And yes I have turned down women who have made just such an offer in the past.
If they wanted to approach me AFTER they had finished their married relationship, then that might be different, but I would have to be sure it was totaly over.
Having been cheated on, I know what it's like and would not want to have anything to do with someone who thought it was ok to cheat.
And yes I have turned down women who have made just such an offer in the past.
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Englishman55: You have every right to get mad.... I would be furious that anyone would take me for a fool.
If they wanted to approach me AFTER they had finished their married relationship, then that might be different, but I would have to be sure it was totaly over.
Having been cheated on, I know what it's like and would not want to have anything to do with someone who thought it was ok to cheat.
And yes I have turned down women who have made just such an offer in the past.
If they wanted to approach me AFTER they had finished their married relationship, then that might be different, but I would have to be sure it was totaly over.
Having been cheated on, I know what it's like and would not want to have anything to do with someone who thought it was ok to cheat.
And yes I have turned down women who have made just such an offer in the past.
Im not married.....totally single here
hmmm maybe I should make an offer
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Englishman55: You have every right to get mad.... I would be furious that anyone would take me for a fool.
If they wanted to approach me AFTER they had finished their married relationship, then that might be different, but I would have to be sure it was totaly over.
Having been cheated on, I know what it's like and would not want to have anything to do with someone who thought it was ok to cheat.
And yes I have turned down women who have made just such an offer in the past.
If they wanted to approach me AFTER they had finished their married relationship, then that might be different, but I would have to be sure it was totaly over.
Having been cheated on, I know what it's like and would not want to have anything to do with someone who thought it was ok to cheat.
And yes I have turned down women who have made just such an offer in the past.
EM...I'm still in shock and soooo mad
that he put me in this situation. I think I totally busted this guy's bubble. He actually thought I was going to fall for this crap. Somebody please take the sign down off of my back stating that I'm usable.
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sweetlyscented1: Im not married.....totally single here
hmmm maybe I should make an offer and offer that you cant refuse
hmmm maybe I should make an offer and offer that you cant refuse
But I am still married
I can assure you that the relationship is totally over, dead and buried, way in the past and if I could get a divorce tomorrow, then just tell me where to sign.
Just make me that offer
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sweetlyscented1: Im not married.....totally single here
hmmm maybe I should make an offer and offer that you cant refuse
hmmm maybe I should make an offer and offer that you cant refuse
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woodzchick: EM...I'm still in shock and soooo mad that he put me in this situation. I think I totally busted this guy's bubble. He actually thought I was going to fall for this crap.
Somebody please take the sign down off of my back stating that I'm usable.
Somebody please take the sign down off of my back stating that I'm usable.
You should have just kicked him in the head......... you know.... the other head where the smaller brain resides
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Englishman55: You should have just kicked him in the head......... you know.... the other head where the smaller brain resides
He really freaked me out bad. I kept looking to make sure that he wasn't going to try to kiss me or something...
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I would say "Hell to the naw!" go find a cheap hoe who is down for that drama.
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nanners2863: Couldn't do it..I think that a bond between two people is sacred..I am not about to mess around with that. Bad karma!!
I had wanted to answer this, too, but didn't quite know how to say it. And, I have a very realistic view about life in general. Your response was probably the best way to put it. Now, I am not necessarily opposed to this, but all involved parties would need to be aware. No lies. No sneaking around. Would it still be cheating 
If all were aware, and agreeable, then I wonder if it would be... As the question was presented, however, NO, this is not acceptable.------ This thread is Archived ------
woodzchick: Ladies and Gentlemen,
Lets say that someone you have known for a very long time...a married somebody, approaches you one day and gives you this offer:
"I love my wife (or husband) and I'm not going to leave them. I think they are fooling around on me and I have on them. But I think you are hot and my wife (or husband) is not satisfying me lately.....so can we get it on and you not tell."
What would you say?
Lets say that someone you have known for a very long time...a married somebody, approaches you one day and gives you this offer:
"I love my wife (or husband) and I'm not going to leave them. I think they are fooling around on me and I have on them. But I think you are hot and my wife (or husband) is not satisfying me lately.....so can we get it on and you not tell."
What would you say?
I´d say he was a liar and using the "my wife may be fooling around" line as a get out (and perhaps bait for some unsuspecting female) for his own behaviour.
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JAN_is: I´d say he was a liar and using the "my wife may be fooling around" line as a get out (and perhaps bait for some unsuspecting female) for his own behaviour.
According to him, his wife has screwed the whole neighborhood......not possible. I want to tell her everything he said about her so that she knows just what she is married to (in case she doesn't). I wonder if they would stay married then?
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woodzchick: According to him, his wife has screwed the whole neighborhood......not possible. I want to tell her everything he said about her so that she knows just what she is married to (in case she doesn't). I wonder if they would stay married then?
I´m sure she has more than an inkling about who she is married so your input probably wouldn´t make an iota of difference. More fool her!
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woodzchick: According to him, his wife has screwed the whole neighborhood......not possible. I want to tell her everything he said about her so that she knows just what she is married to (in case she doesn't). I wonder if they would stay married then?
Hi Woodzchick . I have followed your thread and find it very interesting .Good for you that you declined said offer . If you really want an opinion on this , mine would be that you step back now and leave these 2 people to their own devices . There is absolutely no honour in "outing him" as it were , to his wife.
You are the one who will get hurt I think. He will deny having propositioned you and his wife will believe him , you may end up with a "rep" of trying to come between a couple .Relationships are sacrosanct even DISFUNCTIONAL ones and to save yourself the hassle of getting involved in their drama , maybe it is best if you keep stum ? It is just an opinion , not a judgement or any such.
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missbliss: Hi Woodzchick . I have followed your thread and find it very interesting .Good for you that you declined said offer . If you really want an opinion on this , mine would be that you step back now and leave these 2 people to their own devices . There is absolutely no honour in "outing him" as it were , to his wife.
You are the one who will get hurt I think. He will deny having propositioned you and his wife will believe him , you may end up with a "rep" of trying to come between a couple .Relationships are sacrosanct even DISFUNCTIONAL ones and to save yourself the hassle of getting involved in their drama , maybe it is best if you keep stum ? It is just an opinion , not a judgement or any such.
You are the one who will get hurt I think. He will deny having propositioned you and his wife will believe him , you may end up with a "rep" of trying to come between a couple .Relationships are sacrosanct even DISFUNCTIONAL ones and to save yourself the hassle of getting involved in their drama , maybe it is best if you keep stum ? It is just an opinion , not a judgement or any such.
I totally agree and well said.
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Englishman55: I totally agree and well said.
Thank you .
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nope would not do that,would not do it for a separated woman, and never again for a woman divorced less then five years.. 
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missbliss: Hi Woodzchick . I have followed your thread and find it very interesting .Good for you that you declined said offer . If you really want an opinion on this , mine would be that you step back now and leave these 2 people to their own devices . There is absolutely no honour in "outing him" as it were , to his wife.
You are the one who will get hurt I think. He will deny having propositioned you and his wife will believe him , you may end up with a "rep" of trying to come between a couple .Relationships are sacrosanct even DISFUNCTIONAL ones and to save yourself the hassle of getting involved in their drama , maybe it is best if you keep stum ? It is just an opinion , not a judgement or any such.
You are the one who will get hurt I think. He will deny having propositioned you and his wife will believe him , you may end up with a "rep" of trying to come between a couple .Relationships are sacrosanct even DISFUNCTIONAL ones and to save yourself the hassle of getting involved in their drama , maybe it is best if you keep stum ? It is just an opinion , not a judgement or any such.
You make a very good point. Part of me wants to say something and the other part of me says to stay out of it. Unless something else happens, I will probably just stay to myself. I don't like drama in my life.
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Really, no one here would be interested to try to help out the 'offender' in the sense of really talking his indiscretions over with him/her?
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Barrellofart: Really, no one here would be interested to try to help out the 'offender' in the sense of really talking his indiscretions over with him/her?
The effort would not be appreciated 99% of the time.
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You have every right to get mad.... I would be furious that anyone would take me for a fool.
If they wanted to approach me AFTER they had finished their married relationship, then that might be different, but I would have to be sure it was totaly over.
Having been cheated on, I know what it's like and would not want to have anything to do with someone who thought it was ok to cheat.
And yes I have turned down women who have made just such an offer in the past.