Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think..... ( Archived) (119)

Apr 26, 2010 9:35 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
I would be pretty mad. In fact, I would say the long time friendship would be over.
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Apr 26, 2010 9:36 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
woodzchick: Ladies and Gentlemen,

Lets say that someone you have known for a very long time...a married somebody, approaches you one day and gives you this offer:

"I love my wife (or husband) and I'm not going to leave them. I think they are fooling around on me and I have on them. But I think you are hot and my wife (or husband) is not satisfying me lately.....so can we get it on and you not tell."

What would you say?


no. dont bother me about it again
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Apr 26, 2010 9:49 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
jlw45: ok ok, i'll admit it...like you, when i was younger, i woould've knocked the bottom out of it impetuous youth !!

and that wasnt all that long ago

i mean if i can still remember it then it musta been in the last 10 yrs rightconfused
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Apr 26, 2010 9:53 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
elsson
elssonelssonLondon, Greater London, England UK24 Threads 1,864 Posts
woodzchick: ....76...


Its only for peeing then and that would be spontaneous.
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Apr 26, 2010 9:57 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
Desertguy49: Remember, what goes around comes around, Instant Karma will get ya.
Wouldn't do it!!!


OH....I hadn't planned on it. Wouldn't think of it. I was totally insulted that he thought I was that kind of person.
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Apr 26, 2010 9:59 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
dsmidiman: Now why would a person want to risk loosing what they already have in hopes of getting what they already have? That just doesn't make any sense to me.

Now if there is something wrong with what they already have, then that is a different story. But even at that you should either fix what is wrong with what you have or let what you have go before you get something else!!

I just happen to "have" that particular feeling about this particular "something!!"


ME too!! I don't want to get dragged up into the middle of it.
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Apr 26, 2010 10:00 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
mindfful: and that wasnt all that long ago

i mean if i can still remember it then it musta been in the last 10 yrs right


You're cracking me up! rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 26, 2010 10:02 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
woodzchick: You're cracking me up!
what can i say?
ive crammed so much into my past the early stuff fell out


no roomdunno


grin
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Apr 26, 2010 10:08 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
lovingyou49: Wow sorry this really happened to you, I know its got to be hard seeing either one of them, but hes a dog and her she also has no respect for herself or him. Sounds like it could really ruin a friendship, that you thought was good.
SORRY


I still can't believe that it happened. I didn't beat around the bush when I expressed how wrong I thought it was. I've been in shock all night. The bad part about it.....I didn't do anything to deserve this. I don't mess with people. I stay to myself and mind my own business. I definitely don't flirt with married men. For someone that I know to approach me with this just blows me away.

I now feel compelled to tell his wife and I know that that will be like pouring gas on the fire. She will probably never view me the same again and I didn't do anything to deserve this. It really just sucks!! I can see if I brought it on myself, but I didn't. These people are my neighbors and I happen to think a lot of her. I am not a deceitful person and I will have no peace with myself until I tell her what has happened. Then you can only imagine what is going to happen. It's a no win situation.
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Apr 26, 2010 10:09 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
mindfful: what can i say?
ive crammed so much into my past the early stuff fell outno room


I think that happens to us all.laugh
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Apr 26, 2010 10:11 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
woodzchick: I still can't believe that it happened. I didn't beat around the bush when I expressed how wrong I thought it was. I've been in shock all night. The bad part about it.....I didn't do anything to deserve this. I don't mess with people. I stay to myself and mind my own business. I definitely don't flirt with married men. For someone that I know to approach me with this just blows me away.

I now feel compelled to tell his wife and I know that that will be like pouring gas on the fire. She will probably never view me the same again and I didn't do anything to deserve this. It really just sucks!! I can see if I brought it on myself, but I didn't. These people are my neighbors and I happen to think a lot of her. I am not a deceitful person and I will have no peace with myself until I tell her what has happened. Then you can only imagine what is going to happen. It's a no win situation.


anonymous type written letter


just a suggestion

hey the guy has always found you hawt

it happens

not sayin its ok
i just wish you werent so upset woodz
dont send it from another town in the mail tho cuz some one in that town might get blamed

sad flower
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Apr 26, 2010 10:16 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
Barrellofart
BarrellofartBarrellofartGrand Rapids, Michigan USA16 Threads 9 Polls 761 Posts
If they think their significant other is fooling around on them, they need to verify it, preferably by talking it over with them. If it's true, and they both seem to be open to getting around outside their marriage, well, then that's that, and they should either decide to knock it off, or to have an open relationship.

Might be receptive to someone who has an agreeable open relationship, but I would be frowny about someone who just wants to sleep around behind their SO's back.
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Apr 26, 2010 10:20 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
mindfful: anonymous type written letterjust a suggestion

hey the guy has always found you hawt

it happens

not sayin its ok
i just wish you werent so upset woodz
dont send it from another town in the mail tho cuz some one in that town might get blamed


I'd rather tell the chick myself instead of her hearing from it elsewhere. That way she would know that I didn't have anything to do with it. The chick is at least 10 times bigger than me and I don't want to open my door to her one day just to get the !#%& knocked out of me. I did nothing wrong. I'm not really, really upset....just totally shocked! I can't believe the nerve of this guy. I mean...what did he expect, me to be overwhelmed with his offer and bang him right there? The ego of some people.doh
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Apr 26, 2010 10:36 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
Barrellofart: Hardly!

I mean, really, the first thing I suggested, really, was that he/she take care of the issue with their partner first!

Your situation might be different, I was just saying, you know, if it were me, that's what I would suggest, and if those were the circumstances, those would be my reactions.

Who needs a beer? Anyone?


I might would drink one right about now.laugh
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Apr 26, 2010 10:41 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
doberman3: Woodz, you didn't do anything wrong. If it had happened to me, I would feel the same way. I would either tell her what her husband suggested or do a letter w/o my name on it.

Then again, they could both take it out of you.

I guess I would want to tell the truth but at what cost to your self?

Also, lay low with both.

Also, is she really cheating on him or is he lying?

The Dobe

I hate cheating men, and their other women. Been there, it hurts like hell.
But I believe in Karma and what goes around, comes around.


I hate cheating people too. I don't know of any way that telling her would help me except to relieve my mind and not feel as though I was being deceitful to her. If my husband had done that I would want someone to tell me. Especially if it was a neighbor! Like I said....a no win situation. It all comes down to what I can live with....and I'm not a dishonest person. I believe in the whole Karma thing, too. I don't want Karma biting me in my butt! laugh
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Apr 26, 2010 10:43 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
Trifon
TrifonTrifonNorwood, Massachusetts USA8 Threads 83 Posts
woodzchick: Ladies and Gentlemen,

Lets say that someone you have known for a very long time...a married somebody, approaches you one day and gives you this offer:

"I love my wife (or husband) and I'm not going to leave them. I think they are fooling around on me and I have on them. But I think you are hot and my wife (or husband) is not satisfying me lately.....so can we get it on and you not tell."

What would you say?


Don't think I could do that
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Apr 26, 2010 11:08 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
woodzchick: I'd rather tell the chick myself instead of her hearing from it elsewhere. That way she would know that I didn't have anything to do with it. The chick is at least 10 times bigger than me and I don't want to open my door to her one day just to get the !#%& knocked out of me. I did nothing wrong. I'm not really, really upset....just totally shocked! I can't believe the nerve of this guy. I mean...what did he expect, me to be overwhelmed with his offer and bang him right there? The ego of some people.


WOODZ!!! your language shocks meblushing


rock on then wichyo bad self
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Apr 26, 2010 11:11 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
woodzchick: Ladies and Gentlemen,

Lets say that someone you have known for a very long time...a married somebody, approaches you one day and gives you this offer:

"I love my wife (or husband) and I'm not going to leave them. I think they are fooling around on me and I have on them. But I think you are hot and my wife (or husband) is not satisfying me lately.....so can we get it on and you not tell."

What would you say?


Maybe not say anthing at all - then knee him in the crotch as you smile roll eyes
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Apr 26, 2010 11:35 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
woodzchick: Ladies and Gentlemen,

Lets say that someone you have known for a very long time...a married somebody, approaches you one day and gives you this offer:

"I love my wife (or husband) and I'm not going to leave them. I think they are fooling around on me and I have on them. But I think you are hot and my wife (or husband) is not satisfying me lately.....so can we get it on and you not tell."

What would you say?


depends on... Is she bangable or not....grin
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Apr 26, 2010 11:44 PM CST Let me throw this idea your way and see what you think.....
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
Boban1: depends on... Is she bangable or not....


I'm glad you said that and not me .....uh oh laugh
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