So do you or don't you care what people say?...and be honest...
Lots of us say we really don't care...but deep inside we do...we've all learned how to "hide" behind things...be it humour, looks, intelligence whatever the case...but we do hide..
I guess it depends on who it is and how they say it! If they are my friend then I know what they are saying is BECAUSE they are my friend. Sometimes words can scar your heart, but it heals!!
That is so true, once it is out there you can't take it back. In my last relationship a lot of things were said which were very hurtful and something I can't forget
But is somebody having an opinion about me and doesn't even know me, I shake it of. Can't carry that kind of crap around.... wears you down.
If I have respect for the person who is saying it I DO care. If I know someone is right...I do take what they say into consideration. I always consider the source.
Words are about all we have, especially on site. They can hurt, they can affect one's day. It would be nice to be one's own island, but such is not the case with many of us. Words have started wars, toppled regimes. Words are what set us apart from all other mammals. Paws
I agree it always depends on how close the person is to me whether I care or not!
If the person is way off base and speaking from something they don't know anything about..I will explain it once and that's it, but only if it's someone I respect...if not I can't be bothered to explain myself at all! I get tired of trying to explain myself sometimes to people that have no clue!
Otherwise I could really care less what others think of especially rude judgemental people, because I already know who I am, even if they don't!
I really don't care at all what they said. I listen but i really don't care, it's my life and i will do as i pleased. I don't care because i live life respecting others.
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
Lots of us say we really don't care...but deep inside we do...we've all learned how to "hide" behind things...be it humour, looks, intelligence whatever the case...but we do hide..
So do you or don't you care what people say?