In response to: Ok, my name is pete, a couple years ago i met this girl. she was super awesome and eventually started dating. first couple of months were great and quickly fell in love. soon things tuned for the worse. she eventually seemed like she never wanted to be around me and never wanted to have any intimate time with me anymore. it made me feel really ugly. she broke up with me about 6 times. always her calling me askin to get back together. everytime i have money in my pocket she claimed it hers. she cheated on me once. but things have changed i have been single for a while and plan on looking for the right girl out there :]
At 18 yrs ,you are young .Perhaps you will have many girlfriends who will come or will go .But important is that you must learn from this sad experience and looking for the right girl
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junglejoose: Ok, my name is pete, a couple years ago i met this girl. she was super awesome and eventually started dating. first couple of months were great and quickly fell in love. soon things tuned for the worse. she eventually seemed like she never wanted to be around me and never wanted to have any intimate time with me anymore. it made me feel really ugly. she broke up with me about 6 times. always her calling me askin to get back together. everytime i have money in my pocket she claimed it hers. she cheated on me once. but things have changed i have been single for a while and plan on looking for the right girl out there :]
She was a User hon and you got burned, wev'e all been there. Learn from it and move on, you will find a good girl.
junglejoose: Ok, my name is pete, a couple years ago i met this girl. she was super awesome and eventually started dating. first couple of months were great and quickly fell in love. soon things tuned for the worse. she eventually seemed like she never wanted to be around me and never wanted to have any intimate time with me anymore. it made me feel really ugly. she broke up with me about 6 times. always her calling me askin to get back together. everytime i have money in my pocket she claimed it hers. she cheated on me once. but things have changed i have been single for a while and plan on looking for the right girl out there :]
Hey Pete , When were young we give our hearts unconditionally , the feelings of falling in love the first time is truly allconsuming, people forget the hope we all had in the early days , how we truly believed they were the ones our first love the heart thumping eurphoric moments that literally took our breathe away,Man they are moments they you can never get back , your girl WAS super awesome you loved her , thats a wonderful thing Pete, take that with you into your future, forget about all the other stuff, thats her problem not yours , suffering is optional dont bother with it , There just ahead is a girl waiting just for you to love her if your lucky she will love you back everyday best of luck for your future .
Jungle... you sound to me like you are a pretty sweey guy with a good heart. Sounds to me like she was just nasty! And cant appreciate what you have to offer.
We all have brushes with peeps like that. They are there to teach us what we dont want in life. Look at it as practice. In fact, next time you see her tell her that.
Karma is the great equalizer.
Its not likely that she will ever be happy in love. You on the other hand with a heart like that will be im sure. A good heart is rarer than diamonds, more precious than jewels. Know what your worth and find a girl with the same kinda heart.
Remember, the best revenge is going on to have a happy life.
Pete, I am sorry for your pain dude! It is really difficult when you like someone so much. Most of us don't know how to deal with a bad relationship and we continue to try to make them work. I assume you posting here and started looking for a 'new lady' is a good re-start for you. Good luck in that.
junglejoose: Ok, my name is pete, a couple years ago i met this girl. she was super awesome and eventually started dating. first couple of months were great and quickly fell in love. soon things tuned for the worse. she eventually seemed like she never wanted to be around me and never wanted to have any intimate time with me anymore. it made me feel really ugly. she broke up with me about 6 times. always her calling me askin to get back together. everytime i have money in my pocket she claimed it hers. she cheated on me once. but things have changed i have been single for a while and plan on looking for the right girl out there :]
What, you think you are the Lone Ranger in this area??
mindfful: i wouldnt be that young again for anything
everything was so painful
WOW, mindfful, You hit it right on the head. When we are young we seem to have been programmed to think every relationship is permanent. The older you are the less you see life that way. Actually, each relationship COULD be a permanent one, but it could also be just a fling or to satisfy a need at that time. The girl you are speaking of is still young enough to be testing the water and trolling for the biggest fish she can catch. You are just one of the test fish she has used her bait to catch. Don't be so serious about it. If you and she are right for each other you would have never been used to practice on. Don't be mad at her, she is just doing what she need to to make HER good choices. Move on with your life. 50 years from now she will be just a tiny speck in your memory if you remember her at all.
junglejoose: Ok, my name is pete, a couple years ago i met this girl. she was super awesome and eventually started dating. first couple of months were great and quickly fell in love. soon things tuned for the worse. she eventually seemed like she never wanted to be around me and never wanted to have any intimate time with me anymore. it made me feel really ugly. she broke up with me about 6 times. always her calling me askin to get back together. everytime i have money in my pocket she claimed it hers. she cheated on me once. but things have changed i have been single for a while and plan on looking for the right girl out there :]
its part of a learning curve, get on with it and stop being a woos!
junglejoose: i think i was just too sensitive for her.
Be it as you are, do not suffer because of someone who is not worthy of you, you know that is difficult but now have to go forward through life, remember: Never give up of love
Ok, my name is pete, a couple years ago i met this girl. she was super awesome and eventually started dating. first couple of months were great and quickly fell in love. soon things tuned for the worse. she eventually seemed like she never wanted to be around me and never wanted to have any intimate time with me anymore. it made me feel really ugly. she broke up with me about 6 times. always her calling me askin to get back together. everytime i have money in my pocket she claimed it hers. she cheated on me once. but things have changed i have been single for a while and plan on looking for the right girl out there :][/quote
i totally believe in karma what comes around goes around,she will meet her match someday :) sorry to hear you were hurt,hope everything works out for you
junglejoose: Ok, my name is pete, a couple years ago i met this girl. she was super awesome and eventually started dating. first couple of months were great and quickly fell in love. soon things tuned for the worse. she eventually seemed like she never wanted to be around me and never wanted to have any intimate time with me anymore. it made me feel really ugly. she broke up with me about 6 times. always her calling me askin to get back together.
everytime i have money in my pocket she claimed it hers. she cheated on me once. but things have changed i have been single for a while and plan on looking for the right girl out there :]
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havent slept really in 2 nights
that was for jack cuz its always a treat to run into you