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May 11, 2010 11:45 PM CST Pretty pathetic
junglejoose
junglejoosejunglejoosesalem, Virginia USA2 Threads 6 Posts
Ok, my name is pete, a couple years ago i met this girl. she was super awesome and eventually started dating. first couple of months were great and quickly fell in love. soon things tuned for the worse. she eventually seemed like she never wanted to be around me and never wanted to have any intimate time with me anymore. it made me feel really ugly. she broke up with me about 6 times. always her calling me askin to get back together. everytime i have money in my pocket she claimed it hers. she cheated on me once. but things have changed i have been single for a while and plan on looking for the right girl out there :]
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May 12, 2010 12:00 AM CST Pretty pathetic
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
Yup, that's about right .........six times before we learn ...roll eyes
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May 12, 2010 12:04 AM CST Pretty pathetic
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
jvaski: Yup, that's about right .........six times before we learn ...
oh exercise some compassion codgerlaugh
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May 12, 2010 12:08 AM CST Pretty pathetic
junglejoose
junglejoosejunglejoosesalem, Virginia USA2 Threads 6 Posts
its jus that she told me she loved me and stuff...she jus rarely showed it. she always seemed unhappy around me. and she made me cry one morning at school when i said good morning to her she totally ignored me confused when i told her about it...she jus called me a baby and to get over it...sigh
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May 12, 2010 12:10 AM CST Pretty pathetic
bamabulldog08
bamabulldog08bamabulldog08tuscaloosa, Alabama USA24 Threads 972 Posts
mindfful: oh exercise some compassion codger
A man has to know when to move on, I bust up with someone once te second time is the last. No playing games.......banana
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May 12, 2010 12:12 AM CST Pretty pathetic
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
bamabulldog08: A man has to know when to move on, I bust up with someone once te second time is the last. No playing games.......
yes but becoming a man is a journey and we all evolve

we dont just show up knowing how to conduct ourselves perfectly


look kid

im glad youre here
i am glad you are talking and that you are learning

keep posting not everyone here will give you a hard time

just mostdoh


blushing
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May 12, 2010 12:14 AM CST Pretty pathetic
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
junglejoose: its jus that she told me she loved me and stuff...she jus rarely showed it. she always seemed unhappy around me. and she made me cry one morning at school when i said good morning to her she totally ignored me when i told her about it...she jus called me a baby and to get over it...


we have all been in relationships with people that were less than healthy and kind

we stay because we hope
or we think we cant get anyone better
or because we think we see their good side and that if we love them enough they will feel better and act better


i know i have done it

more than once

but i did eventually stop

and im glad
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May 12, 2010 12:19 AM CST Pretty pathetic
54xmax
54xmax54xmaxDublin, Ireland32 Threads 5 Polls 1,712 Posts
junglejoose: Ok, my name is pete, a couple years ago i met this girl. she was super awesome and eventually started dating. first couple of months were great and quickly fell in love. soon things tuned for the worse. she eventually seemed like she never wanted to be around me and never wanted to have any intimate time with me anymore. it made me feel really ugly. she broke up with me about 6 times. always her calling me askin to get back together. everytime i have money in my pocket she claimed it hers. she cheated on me once. but things have changed i have been single for a while and plan on looking for the right girl out there :]


What the hell have you been thinking, grin it was obvious, she was an egoistical, self centered, broom flying woman. The first time, you two broke up, that should have been it - - - but hey, we all done stupid things, chalk it up to experiences grin

I wish you luck man cheers
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May 12, 2010 12:20 AM CST Pretty pathetic
junglejoose
junglejoosejunglejoosesalem, Virginia USA2 Threads 6 Posts
i think i was just too sensitive for her.
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May 12, 2010 1:08 AM CST Pretty pathetic
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
junglejoose: its jus that she told me she loved me and stuff...she jus rarely showed it. she always seemed unhappy around me. and she made me cry one morning at school when i said good morning to her she totally ignored me when i told her about it...she jus called me a baby and to get over it...


At 18 you have the whole world at your feet and yes it does get a little confusing at times when it comes to matters of the heart... one thing that will help you(if you believe it that is) is to pay ATTENTION and totally TRUST that niggling feeling you get when something isn't right (as it's never wrong) and remember that actions always speak louder than words...

Best wishes in finding your true sweetheart hun hug teddybear
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May 12, 2010 1:30 AM CST Pretty pathetic
mjames
mjamesmjamesnapa, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 779 Posts
junglejoose: Ok, my name is pete, a couple years ago i met this girl. she was super awesome and eventually started dating. first couple of months were great and quickly fell in love. soon things tuned for the worse. she eventually seemed like she never wanted to be around me and never wanted to have any intimate time with me anymore. it made me feel really ugly. she broke up with me about 6 times. always her calling me askin to get back together. everytime i have money in my pocket she claimed it hers. she cheated on me once. but things have changed i have been single for a while and plan on looking for the right girl out there :]


You shouldn't have taken her back after the first time; she used you but you let her. Six times? You have to think better of yourself and improve your self esteem; she knew you were very into her and used that.

choose better next time and look at the actions. You deserve much better.
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May 12, 2010 1:37 AM CST Pretty pathetic
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
doh


rolling on the floor laughing flirty


goofus
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May 12, 2010 1:46 AM CST Pretty pathetic
Liebe2
Liebe2Liebe2Salmiya, Hawalli Kuwait12 Threads 3,449 Posts
mindfful: we have all been in relationships with people that were less than healthy and kind

we stay because we hope
or we think we cant get anyone better
or because we think we see their good side and that if we love them enough they will feel better and act betteri know i have done it

more than once

but i did eventually stop

and im glad


So true. And I am still doing it frustrated
Somebody smack me! doh
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May 12, 2010 1:51 AM CST Pretty pathetic
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
Liebe2: So true. And I am still doing it
Somebody smack me!
hug its ok

i think youre younger than me?

so the lesson is

sooner or later you will wise updunno

sorry tho...
its so tricky isnt it? i always struggled with not knowing the line between knowing when the ride is over or am i beating a dead horse?

and then at the end of the relationship
i was like CRAP this is the same guy in a different face

ITS MEEEEEEEfrustrated

and then

id accidentally do it again

crappyblues
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May 12, 2010 1:53 AM CST Pretty pathetic
bohemianjack
bohemianjackbohemianjackEast Central, Minnesota USA6 Threads 2 Polls 2,701 Posts
54xmax: What the hell have you been thinking, it was obvious, she was an egoistical, self centered, broom flying woman. The first time, you two broke up, that should have been it - - - but hey, we all done stupid things, chalk it up to experiences

I wish you luck man



wine smoking

typing rolling on the floor laughing


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May 12, 2010 1:53 AM CST Pretty pathetic
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
junglejoose: Ok, my name is pete, a couple years ago i met this girl. she was super awesome and eventually started dating. first couple of months were great and quickly fell in love. soon things tuned for the worse. she eventually seemed like she never wanted to be around me and never wanted to have any intimate time with me anymore. it made me feel really ugly. she broke up with me about 6 times. always her calling me askin to get back together. everytime i have money in my pocket she claimed it hers. she cheated on me once. but things have changed i have been single for a while and plan on looking for the right girl out there :]


yep... it hurts ....

I always blamed my self when I was misled ... as it was to me only to keep my mind clear and my eyes open
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May 12, 2010 1:55 AM CST Pretty pathetic
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
hello menfolk

dancing
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May 12, 2010 1:56 AM CST Pretty pathetic
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
i wouldnt be that young again for anything

everything was so painful


help
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May 12, 2010 1:57 AM CST Pretty pathetic
bohemianjack
bohemianjackbohemianjackEast Central, Minnesota USA6 Threads 2 Polls 2,701 Posts
tip hat

wine
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May 12, 2010 2:01 AM CST Pretty pathetic
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
grin yay

on my way to dreamland


i hope

havent slept really in 2 nights

dunno
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