how do you turn a heart to love ( Archived) (23)

Jun 18, 2010 12:18 AM CST how do you turn a heart to love
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
Greater hurt felt no man than this, but that the woman that i love, Loves someone else and ask my advise on how to get that person to love them back.
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Jun 18, 2010 12:28 AM CST how do you turn a heart to love
GingerBe
GingerBeGingerBeDonegal, Ireland2 Threads 3,106 Posts
Sampe1967: Greater hurt felt no man than this, but that the woman that i love, Loves someone else and ask my advise on how to get that person to love them back.


You can't turn a heart to love unless it is your own. You have no influence over someone else's feelings.sad flower comfort
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Jun 18, 2010 12:35 AM CST how do you turn a heart to love
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Sampe1967: Greater hurt felt no man than this, but that the woman that i love, Loves someone else and ask my advise on how to get that person to love them back.


Sorry for your pain...handshake

I am afraid Ginger is correct...
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Jun 18, 2010 12:38 AM CST how do you turn a heart to love
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
Sampe1967: Greater hurt felt no man than this, but that the woman that i love, Loves someone else and ask my advise on how to get that person to love them back.


Time has passed to cut ties and move on my friend thumbs up dunno
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Jun 18, 2010 12:55 AM CST how do you turn a heart to love
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
wish i knew the answer...sigh
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Jun 18, 2010 1:03 AM CST how do you turn a heart to love
TheStillOfNight
TheStillOfNightTheStillOfNightEastern NL, Newfoundland Canada48 Threads 1 Polls 530 Posts
I tend to agree with Ginger.

A heart must find its own way, it cannot be forced.
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Jun 18, 2010 1:35 AM CST how do you turn a heart to love
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
sadly everyone above me are correct, no one can turn a persons heart to love....but themselves sad flower

Unrequited love is one of the hardest love's there is....a saddness deep inside.

blues

teddybear
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Jun 18, 2010 1:45 AM CST how do you turn a heart to love
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Sampe1967: Greater hurt felt no man than this, but that the woman that i love, Loves someone else and ask my advise on how to get that person to love them back.


The solution is always simple, but sometimes its worst than the problem


Eliminate the competition (shoot every Man on earth)banana banana banana
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Jun 18, 2010 2:08 AM CST how do you turn a heart to love
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
Sampe1967: Greater hurt felt no man than this, but that the woman that i love, Loves someone else and ask my advise on how to get that person to love them back.
its hard that way but true love is looking for our beloved to be happy no matter how far she iswave
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Jun 18, 2010 5:07 AM CST how do you turn a heart to love
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
Boban1: The solution is always simple, but sometimes its worst than the problem Eliminate the competition (shoot every Man on earth)



detective
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Jun 18, 2010 5:37 AM CST how do you turn a heart to love
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
Sampe1967: Greater hurt felt no man than this, but that the woman that i love, Loves someone else and ask my advise on how to get that person to love them back.


Sounds like a tough situation.

The only heart we can "turn to love" is our own.
And it sounds like you don't have a problem in that area.
As for her heart, all you can do is demonstrate the most unselfish love you can.

It won't be wasted. It will have a good effect.
But not necessarily the desired good effect.

It might serve to help her to later appreciate genuine love and despise infatuation.
Or it might help her to endure if the tables are turned and she finds herself being rejected.
Or maybe it won't affect her at all, but it will give you a deeper sense of values.

But whatever form it takes. Any expression of true unselfish love is never lost. It will always bear some sort of good fruit.
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Jun 18, 2010 5:49 AM CST how do you turn a heart to love
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
Boban1: The solution is always simple, but sometimes its worst than the problem Eliminate the competition (shoot every Man on earth)


But start with Boban.
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Jun 18, 2010 5:53 AM CST how do you turn a heart to love
ravishingruby
ravishingrubyravishingrubykildare, Kildare Ireland2 Posts
Sampe1967: Greater hurt felt no man than this, but that the woman that i love, Loves someone else and ask my advise on how to get that person to love them back.


Who can tell when Summer turns to Authum and who can point the moment loves goes cold.. sad flower

There will be another Summer and another love to come for you. teddybear
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Jun 18, 2010 5:54 AM CST how do you turn a heart to love
ravishingruby
ravishingrubyravishingrubykildare, Kildare Ireland2 Posts
ravishingruby: Who can tell when Summer turns to Authum and who can point the moment loves goes cold..

There will be another Summer and another love to come for you.

doh Sorry, Autumn
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Jun 18, 2010 9:29 AM CST how do you turn a heart to love
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
I feel you, but the best thing to do with a cheater is to kick them to the curb and get on with your life...The best revenge is living well hug
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Jun 18, 2010 9:34 AM CST how do you turn a heart to love
strict
strictstricttehran, Iran5 Threads 2,018 Posts
Sampe1967: Greater hurt felt no man than this, but that the woman that i love, Loves someone else and ask my advise on how to get that person to love them back.
mmm..,i think its the heart which turn you to love.
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Jun 18, 2010 9:35 AM CST how do you turn a heart to love
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Its always the tenderhearts that get hurt the worst hug hug
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Jun 18, 2010 9:41 AM CST how do you turn a heart to love
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
Sampe1967: Greater hurt felt no man than this, but that the woman that i love, Loves someone else and ask my advise on how to get that person to love them back.


do you love her that much to give advice on how to catch another man's affection? think hard. scold
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Jun 18, 2010 11:55 AM CST how do you turn a heart to love
Ralphy2407
Ralphy2407Ralphy2407Veliko Tarnovo, Veliko Turnovo Bulgaria10 Threads 142 Posts
In response to: Greater hurt felt no man than this, but that the woman that i love, Loves someone else and ask my advise on how to get that person to love them back.


How do you turn a heart to love...

Easy, write 'love' on a piece of paper. Now take a sharp surgical knife, cut open the chest, insert the piece of paper with the word facing into the chest and then simply grab hold of the heart and twist it till it turns to face the piece of paper....by the way, don't try this at home...leave it to the professionalsprofessor rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 18, 2010 12:04 PM CST how do you turn a heart to love
joyannie
joyanniejoyannieA little closer to heaven, Colorado USA5 Threads 408 Posts
RayfromUSA: Sounds like a tough situation.

The only heart we can "turn to love" is our own.
And it sounds like you don't have a problem in that area.
As for her heart, all you can do is demonstrate the most unselfish love you can.

It won't be wasted. It will have a good effect.
But not necessarily the desired good effect.

It might serve to help her to later appreciate genuine love and despise infatuation.
Or it might help her to endure if the tables are turned and she finds herself being rejected.
Or maybe it won't affect her at all, but it will give you a deeper sense of values.

But whatever form it takes. Any expression of true unselfish love is never lost. It will always bear some sort of good fruit.


Ray....you bring up many valid points.

So I say, Sampe be there for her, be her good friend. Who knows she may because of your kindness and support see you in a different light in the near future. Stranger things have happened.
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