scoutmasterGranite falls, Washington USA1,100 posts
yes is happens to us guys too, In E-mails exchanges I make it apparent I am into hiking and climbing mountains, and I keep getting Emails from ladies who weight 400 pounds and think a wilderness adventure is pulling the rv into a koa campground.
Not to mention they never look like the picks that are posted,
SensualBBWPlease: Hmmmmm and who keeps picking types of men, who understand not that the look across the room, or the light touch while going in the opposite direction, heading off to enjoy individual pastimes so as to continue to grow as a powerful woman, meaning that when they return the growth both have gained will add immensely to their passions together, and that the lady desires and needs from time to time a strong shoulder to melt into, and knowing she is heard, wanted and at ease with who she is nods off while having her hair stroked??
NO ONE PICKS THEM. These idiots contact you without you asking and without them reading your profile to learn of exactly what you want. That's what she is talking about here, not about "picking"the wrong men.
chococherrie: it makes me angry! you put on ur profile what u like and what u want then just get the opposite??? does this happen to u guys too?
I think both genders may be guilty of Profile Disregard. A while ago I posted a thread asking a hypothetical question about age-range preferences on profiles.
The responses by both men and women seemed to indicate that they were willing to disregard a stated preference on a member's profile, and in fact some women (not realizing it was a hypothetical question) urged me to make contact anyway. (Ironically, it later became a question of actuality, although regarding location and not age range.)
Scant as this evidence is, it would appear to show that yes it does happen to guys too, although less often since gals are still less likely to make overtures. It would also indicate that there ain't no use in you getting angry 'cause it ain't likely to change.
equiya: NO ONE PICKS THEM. These idiots contact you without you asking and without them reading your profile to learn of exactly what you want. That's what she is talking about here, not about "picking"the wrong men.
Really? so no replies to them ever occur, for once a reply has then you have picked them to communicate with.
SensualBBWPlease: Really? so no replies to them ever occur, for once a reply has then you have picked them to communicate with.
NO, I don't reply to anyone ever, who does not meet my requirements so how did I pick them? Most people here even just block and delete. I DON'T REPLY TO ANYONE I DEEM TO HAVE NOT READ MY PROFILE. I just ignore them. MY IM was off or is off. I used to get a lot of requests repeatedly from the same people. Did I pick them? HELL, no.
NO, I don't reply to anyone ever, who does not meet my requirements so how did I pick them? Most people here even just block and delete. I DON'T REPLY TO ANYONE I DEEM TO HAVE NOT READ MY PROFILE. I just ignore them. MY IM was off or is off. I used to get a lot of requests repeatedly from the same people. Did I pick them? HELL, no.[/quote
Happy and at ease I see you are, sadness. I just never give them my power as it is never about me in those circumstances, so just enjoy the moment and sigh I do.
demonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA5,654 posts
SensualBBWPlease: Bet you had a nice giggle to yourself as he walked away, ahhhhh to be part of a youths educational material
Yes,was funny,i still remember it to this day...i saw him a few times out after that we were friends,always spoke and cut up with each other...he was really a nice person so you can't judge a person by first contact...
SensualBBWPlease: NO, I don't reply to anyone ever, who does not meet my requirements so how did I pick them? Most people here even just block and delete. I DON'T REPLY TO ANYONE I DEEM TO HAVE NOT READ MY PROFILE. I just ignore them. MY IM was off or is off. I used to get a lot of requests repeatedly from the same people. Did I pick them? HELL, no.[/quoteHappy and at ease I see you are, sadness. I just never give them my power as it is never about me in those circumstances, so just enjoy the moment and sigh I do.
sadness? from what? I DECIDE who I communicate with and who I don't. Like I said, most people here even block and delete.
I DON"T give them my power either. How will they get power from me if I don't respond to an unwanted email or IM request? I IGNORE them, like I am going to ignore you now.
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