MILESTONES IN LIFE - E.G. THE BIG 50 ( Archived) (34)

Aug 2, 2010 2:34 AM CST MILESTONES IN LIFE - E.G. THE BIG 50
leostartingover
leostartingoverleostartingoverSandton, Gauteng South Africa33 Threads 1 Polls 1,685 Posts
I'm turning 50 in 10 days time and feel really miserable about it! When I was young, 50 seemed so OLD! I still feel young, but now at 50 I am definitely middle aged..... Eeeeeeek. I think it is more about having certain expectations about what my life would be like by 50 which have not happened.....

I remember 30 being a huge milestone in my life, I even wrote a funny poem about the joys of ageing; but 40 felt good. I'm going to have to think up a really good poem for the big 50!!!!

Do you feel the same about milestone birthdays??? Which have been your biggies?
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Aug 2, 2010 2:43 AM CST MILESTONES IN LIFE - E.G. THE BIG 50
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
leostartingover: I'm turning 50 in 10 days time and feel really miserable about it! When I was young, 50 seemed so OLD! I still feel young, but now at 50 I am definitely middle aged..... Eeeeeeek. I think it is more about having certain expectations about what my life would be like by 50 which have not happened.....

I remember 30 being a huge milestone in my life, I even wrote a funny poem about the joys of ageing; but 40 felt good. I'm going to have to think up a really good poem for the big 50!!!!

Do you feel the same about milestone birthdays??? Which have been your biggies?


At thirty, I decided it was time to grow up.

That was a misereable idea.



I turned forty a couple months ago.

Growing up I never imagined my self in my forties,

so I'm in uncharted territory.


I'm liking that.
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Aug 2, 2010 2:45 AM CST MILESTONES IN LIFE - E.G. THE BIG 50
leostartingover
leostartingoverleostartingoverSandton, Gauteng South Africa33 Threads 1 Polls 1,685 Posts
Ocee35: At thirty, I decided it was time to grow up.

That was a misereable idea.
I turned forty a couple months ago.

Growing up I never imagined my self in my forties,

so I'm in uncharted territory. I'm liking that.


Hmmmm, a nice way of looking at it Ocee! I like the way you think!!! thumbs up
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Aug 2, 2010 4:57 AM CST MILESTONES IN LIFE - E.G. THE BIG 50
carobnjak3
carobnjak3carobnjak3melbourne, Victoria Australia2 Threads 95 Posts
leostartingover: I'm turning 50 in 10 days time and feel really miserable about it! When I was young, 50 seemed so OLD! I still feel young, but now at 50 I am definitely middle aged..... Eeeeeeek. I think it is more about having certain expectations about what my life would be like by 50 which have not happened.....

I remember 30 being a huge milestone in my life, I even wrote a funny poem about the joys of ageing; but 40 felt good. I'm going to have to think up a really good poem for the big 50!!!!

Do you feel the same about milestone birthdays??? Which have been your biggies?


You should be so happy...you said it your self "I still feel young" Nothing changes...
Aaaaaat nearly 50...you are so beautiful and you have a good heart
I red some of you previous posts and it tells me that about you...
All the best...;-)))))))))

CHEERS...
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Aug 2, 2010 5:10 AM CST MILESTONES IN LIFE - E.G. THE BIG 50
Raynew1959
Raynew1959Raynew1959Barrington, New Hampshire USA120 Threads 2 Polls 2,218 Posts
For me, birthdays are nothing more than another day.

The only ones who make a big deal about them are my present employers who go out and buy a cake whenever a birthday comes around.

My 50'th came and went by with hardly a happy birthday from anyone.

With 51 coming up real quick, I don't give a damn any more
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Aug 2, 2010 5:30 AM CST MILESTONES IN LIFE - E.G. THE BIG 50
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
No, I just remember some of them have been absolute classic celebrations like my 21st, when I was out in South Africa. Now that was memorable not to say the leastdancing yay
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Aug 2, 2010 5:47 AM CST MILESTONES IN LIFE - E.G. THE BIG 50
Northof7
Northof7Northof7Cameron, Ontario Canada29 Threads 696 Posts
Fifty I wish I could go back-------------NOT. Fifty is just a number to tell you that you have taken the right steps in life to make it this far. Go with the feelings inside, if you feel young go with it.

Here is a song by George Strait, in the song he talks about the damn old mirror.



This is my new Birthday Song
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Aug 2, 2010 5:49 AM CST MILESTONES IN LIFE - E.G. THE BIG 50
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
leostartingover: I'm turning 50 in 10 days time and feel really miserable about it! When I was young, 50 seemed so OLD! I still feel young, but now at 50 I am definitely middle aged..... Eeeeeeek. I think it is more about having certain expectations about what my life would be like by 50 which have not happened.....

I remember 30 being a huge milestone in my life, I even wrote a funny poem about the joys of ageing; but 40 felt good. I'm going to have to think up a really good poem for the big 50!!!!

Do you feel the same about milestone birthdays??? Which have been your biggies?


Nah, it's just a number. Celebrate your mental age instead!
Mine is 8...
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Aug 2, 2010 5:54 AM CST MILESTONES IN LIFE - E.G. THE BIG 50
ChasingCars
ChasingCarsChasingCarsCrappy Thrappy, Northamptonshire, England UK26 Threads 5 Polls 1,006 Posts
OP I wouldn't worry about how you feel, it's more a case of how other people treat and perceive you, and some will have prejudices. Others won't give a damn. Carry on being yourself and show the muppets who put you in a little box that they are just that muppets. Most of them are incredibly small minded and boring.
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Aug 2, 2010 6:06 AM CST MILESTONES IN LIFE - E.G. THE BIG 50
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
Age is just that,a number added on every year and should be just that. All this talk about "life begins at 40"! It starts from the first day you draw breath and ends on the last gasp. What you do in between is what counts ,and every DAY should be a milestone and treated as such.

I was 70 this year and spent it in bed with Nova Virus.sigh

Always remember yesterday is history,

Tomorrow is a mystery,

Today is a gift.

Enjoy your 50th for what it is, your Birthday.happy birthday
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Aug 2, 2010 7:20 AM CST MILESTONES IN LIFE - E.G. THE BIG 50
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
I'll be 51 in 2 weeks, can't remember what I did for my 50th, it's great ..... may just repeat it all over again ..... laugh


Have a lovely birthday when it comes, it really ain't that bad, I promise you.

bouquet cake wave
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Aug 2, 2010 10:16 AM CST MILESTONES IN LIFE - E.G. THE BIG 50
leostartingover
leostartingoverleostartingoverSandton, Gauteng South Africa33 Threads 1 Polls 1,685 Posts
carobnjak3: You should be so happy...you said it your self "I still feel young" Nothing changes...
Aaaaaat nearly 50...you are so beautiful and you have a good heart
I red some of you previous posts and it tells me that about you...
All the best...;-)))))))))

CHEERS...


Awwwwwwwww thanks! I need all the luuuuuuuurve I can get right now!!! wine
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Aug 2, 2010 10:17 AM CST MILESTONES IN LIFE - E.G. THE BIG 50
leostartingover
leostartingoverleostartingoverSandton, Gauteng South Africa33 Threads 1 Polls 1,685 Posts
Veritaas: No, I just remember some of them have been absolute classic celebrations like my 21st, when I was out in South Africa. Now that was memorable not to say the least


Memorable NOT? What happened? dunno
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Aug 2, 2010 10:19 AM CST MILESTONES IN LIFE - E.G. THE BIG 50
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
leostartingover: I'm turning 50 in 10 days time and feel really miserable about it! When I was young, 50 seemed so OLD! I still feel young, but now at 50 I am definitely middle aged..... Eeeeeeek. I think it is more about having certain expectations about what my life would be like by 50 which have not happened.....

I remember 30 being a huge milestone in my life, I even wrote a funny poem about the joys of ageing; but 40 felt good. I'm going to have to think up a really good poem for the big 50!!!!

Do you feel the same about milestone birthdays??? Which have been your biggies?


Happy upcoming birthday, and remember the 11th commandment..cheers

Don't sweat the small chit (and it's ALL small chit).. wink
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Aug 2, 2010 10:19 AM CST MILESTONES IN LIFE - E.G. THE BIG 50
leostartingover
leostartingoverleostartingoverSandton, Gauteng South Africa33 Threads 1 Polls 1,685 Posts
Raynew1959: For me, birthdays are nothing more than another day.

The only ones who make a big deal about them are my present employers who go out and buy a cake whenever a birthday comes around.

My 50'th came and went by with hardly a happy birthday from anyone.

With 51 coming up real quick, I don't give a damn any more


Hmmmmm, well I think I'm going to start counting backwards from now on when it comes to birthdays!!! You're lucky your employer buys you a cake - we have a horrible tradition of having to buy our OWN birthday cake for everyone in the bloody office!!!! I think it's nice to celebrate our rite of passage...... How far away is real quick????? hug
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Aug 2, 2010 10:22 AM CST MILESTONES IN LIFE - E.G. THE BIG 50
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
grin hell,never though i would see 50 now that i have i live everyday enjoying lifehug wave
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Aug 2, 2010 10:24 AM CST MILESTONES IN LIFE - E.G. THE BIG 50
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
leostartingover: Hmmmmm, well I think I'm going to start counting backwards from now on when it comes to birthdays!!! You're lucky your employer buys you a cake - we have a horrible tradition of having to buy our OWN birthday cake for everyone in the bloody office!!!! I think it's nice to celebrate our rite of passage...... How far away is real quick?????


Not far away at all, it is the here & now..grin
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Aug 2, 2010 10:29 AM CST MILESTONES IN LIFE - E.G. THE BIG 50
leostartingover
leostartingoverleostartingoverSandton, Gauteng South Africa33 Threads 1 Polls 1,685 Posts
Northof7: Fifty I wish I could go back-------------NOT. Fifty is just a number to tell you that you have taken the right steps in life to make it this far. Go with the feelings inside, if you feel young go with it.

Here is a song by George Strait, in the song he talks about the damn old mirror.



This is my new Birthday Song


Hey North... thanks for that! I'm not a huge country fan generally, but that is one hot ole cowboy and I liked the words!!! I wonder if 50 feels different for a woman because we are kind of looking at the end of an era in a way... I mean it isn't just the menopause, it is the men-have-paused!!! Ah well..... wine
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Aug 2, 2010 10:32 AM CST MILESTONES IN LIFE - E.G. THE BIG 50
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
leostartingover: I'm turning 50 in 10 days time and feel really miserable about it! When I was young, 50 seemed so OLD! I still feel young, but now at 50 I am definitely middle aged..... Eeeeeeek. I think it is more about having certain expectations about what my life would be like by 50 which have not happened.....

I remember 30 being a huge milestone in my life, I even wrote a funny poem about the joys of ageing; but 40 felt good. I'm going to have to think up a really good poem for the big 50!!!!

Do you feel the same about milestone birthdays??? Which have been your biggies?


there s something defiantly wrong with mu brain...

I had a midlife crises at the age of 25....doh
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Aug 2, 2010 12:00 PM CST MILESTONES IN LIFE - E.G. THE BIG 50
mmichaelm
mmichaelmmmichaelmPort Charlotte, Florida USA6 Threads 1 Polls 240 Posts
leostartingover: I'm turning 50 in 10 days time and feel really miserable about it! When I was young, 50 seemed so OLD! I still feel young, but now at 50 I am definitely middle aged..... Eeeeeeek. I think it is more about having certain expectations about what my life would be like by 50 which have not happened.....

I remember 30 being a huge milestone in my life, I even wrote a funny poem about the joys of ageing; but 40 felt good. I'm going to have to think up a really good poem for the big 50!!!!

Do you feel the same about milestone birthdays??? Which have been your biggies?


Turning 50 was no big deal to me. I was more depressed turning 30. At this age, hell..I'm proud (and surprised) I lived this long considering how many candles I burned at both ends when I was 30

laugh
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