say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie ( Archived) (919)

Sep 9, 2010 10:22 AM CST say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie
Softshell
SoftshellSoftshellGoodman, Missouri USA253 Posts
eria1212: starts with attraction, of course, but altimately I think you need 4 more things:

maturity, compatability, commitment, and communication
thumbs up applause
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 9, 2010 10:26 AM CST say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
eria1212: starts with attraction, of course, but altimately I think you need 4 more things:

maturity, compatability, commitment, and communication


The real question is:

what happens to all (or some of) these four magic substances after people get married?
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 9, 2010 10:28 AM CST say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie
Softshell
SoftshellSoftshellGoodman, Missouri USA253 Posts
Laura25: The real question is:

what happens to all (or some of) these four magic substances after people get married?
I think it's when they start taking each other for granted and one ends up feeling lost and neglected then the problems begin.moping crying
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 9, 2010 10:30 AM CST say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
kidatheart: Why is it that I feel it is a secret then, and even repulsed by the very idea? It would almost be like me converting to Islam, or Christianity in nature, like I was lying just to fit in.

Hell, I don't even know why I feel this way, I just do. Yes, I can be stubborn, but everything is always negotiable, and so long as there's a valid reason, I can possibly change my mind.


Excellent question, Kid...

Perhaps because the idea itself scares the day-lights out of you? cowboy laugh

It's too-loaded of a subject for a 'say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie' I suppose... dancingsanta


hug
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 9, 2010 10:33 AM CST say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
Softshell: I think it's when they start taking each other for granted and one ends up feeling lost and neglected then the problems begin.


Yes! We all kinda laugh know when and how problems begin. conversing moping



So the secret of a happy marriage remains a secret?



Hi SS! wave teddybear
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 9, 2010 10:35 AM CST say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie
Softshell
SoftshellSoftshellGoodman, Missouri USA253 Posts
Laura25: Yes! We all kinda know when and how problems begin.
So the secret of a happy marriage remains a secret?
Hi SS!
wave Hello
crying Darn then I will never know either...moping
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 9, 2010 10:36 AM CST say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie
eria1212
eria1212eria1212somewhere in, New Jersey USA1 Threads 44 Posts
Laura25: Yes! We all kinda know when and how problems begin.
So the secret of a happy marriage remains a secret?
Hi SS!



there you go I made a new thread just for Secret to a Happy Marriage (and Why get married at all?)
grin
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 9, 2010 10:37 AM CST say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
Laura25: Yes! We all kinda know when and how problems begin.
So the secret of a happy marriage remains a secret?
Hi SS!


I've been married for thirty five years. For the first five years it was a bit rocky. Then I found the secret to a happy marriage.

We went our separate ways!!!


laugh
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 9, 2010 11:12 AM CST say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
marriage isnt always happy

thats the secret

life isnt always happy but do we kill ourselves the moment it isnt?
no we wait and walk on and it changes again.

this is life and marriage.

no secret.dunno
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 9, 2010 11:15 AM CST say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
well, you better figure it out fast or i'm never gonna get married laugh

wave
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 9, 2010 11:16 AM CST say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
mindfful: marriage isnt always happy

thats the secret

life isnt always happy but do we kill ourselves the moment it isnt?
no we wait and walk on and it changes again.

this is life and marriage.

no secret.
yay!
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 9, 2010 11:23 AM CST say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
plainlyjune: yay!



well its a 2 parter i guess

staying power (some might call it commitment or devotion)

and can you or will you stay forever if unhappy?


so its not just the staying, there is also the changing.

and since we can only change ourselves this is where staying becomes challenging and getting real and intimate and maturing
within ourselves is the maker or breaker




i thinkconfused



laugh


hi junieyay
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 9, 2010 3:16 PM CST say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
I so love it when my adult kids and I can make each laugh over the stupidest things!rolling on the floor laughing
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 9, 2010 3:55 PM CST say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie
Raven0
Raven0Raven0Right here, Alberta Canada28 Threads 3,454 Posts
"People of Earth, your attention, please. This is Prostetnic Vogon Jeltz of the Galactic Hyperspace Planning Council. As you will no doubt be aware, the plans for development of the outlying regions of the Galaxy require the building of a hyperspatial express route through your star system. And regrettably, your planet is one of those scheduled for demolition. The process will take slightly less than two of your Earth minutes. Thank you."

-DA-
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 9, 2010 4:02 PM CST say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
Raven0: "People of Earth, your attention, please. This is Prostetnic Vogon Jeltz of the Galactic Hyperspace Planning Council. As you will no doubt be aware, the plans for development of the outlying regions of the Galaxy require the building of a hyperspatial express route through your star system. And regrettably, your planet is one of those scheduled for demolition. The process will take slightly less than two of your Earth minutes. Thank you."

-DA-
roll eyes Again ?

Here I gooooo to save the daaaaay !! super
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 9, 2010 4:11 PM CST say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
Raven0: "People of Earth, your attention, please. This is Prostetnic Vogon Jeltz of the Galactic Hyperspace Planning Council. As you will no doubt be aware, the plans for development of the outlying regions of the Galaxy require the building of a hyperspatial express route through your star system. And regrettably, your planet is one of those scheduled for demolition. The process will take slightly less than two of your Earth minutes. Thank you."

-DA-


Towel?
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 9, 2010 5:01 PM CST say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
Excuse me a moment......

FFS! Stop it already! You are beating a dead horse! Why does this have to happen just about every frickin' evening! Give it a rest already! Enough!frustrated frustrated frustrated

Thank you, my rant is now done....I feel a sqooshy bit better now.sigh
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 9, 2010 5:16 PM CST say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
amahlala: Excuse me a moment......

FFS! Stop it already! You are beating a dead horse! Why does this have to happen just about every frickin' evening! Give it a rest already! Enough!

Thank you, my rant is now done....I feel a sqooshy bit better now.
Could you repeat that please I did not get it the first time roll eyes grin cheers
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 9, 2010 5:31 PM CST say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie
kcuc0574
kcuc0574kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam10 Threads 3 Polls 2,003 Posts
hi everybody, now it just 5h30 am in vn, i just wake up after a very long sleep, but i still feel very tired, heavy head, grin doh bouquet , will start my day now bouquet wave laugh
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 9, 2010 5:40 PM CST say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
patmac: Could you repeat that please I did not get it the first time


Thanks Pat!rolling on the floor laughing cheers grin
------ This thread is Archived ------
Post Comment - Post a comment on this Forum Thread

This Thread is Archived

This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.

« Go back to All Threads
Message #318

Share this Thread

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here