How do you stop loving someone you cant have (172)
Darkhorseman: Freddy had a totally different life style to mine. Don't believe every mo you read.
I believe it was mug shot no#4 Scuze me for my Faux par
kizzy27: No point being in love alone .....sorry youve had your heart broken , glad to hear your getting on now .shells weedkiller idea is evil yet genius....scary as hell shell belle lol
I think if your gonna seek revenge you honestly need to put your heart and soul into it
Darkhorseman: Or failing that "Kill them and move on" ... Just kidding ... put down the knife ... give back the car keys ...
yea yea the only person u wanna kill or throw in front of a moving car or bus is yourself!!!...but ...absolutely nooooooooo man is worth the pain or slow death.........ooops hang on yes there are...my sons
Shell225: I think if your gonna seek revenge you honestly need to put your heart and soul into it
This is true
Shell225: I think if your gonna seek revenge you honestly need to put your heart and soul into it
but but but.. revenge creates bad karma
and NO one is worth that
blondeozichick: but but but.. revenge creates bad karma
and NO one is worth that
and NO one is worth that
I know .... 
but dont forget the best revenge I ever got over someone, I was never trying to get!! That must have been their BAD karma pay back.. m0msie46: PS...Just one more thing thanks CS I did meet this wonderful man on here so girls if you dont succeed with love at least theres hope with friendship...Being best friends isnt such a bad thing after all
OMG they say ...shes back ....yes I am
Just when I thought I was getting myself together....I slowly start falling apart...
Yesterday I had a visitor....yes it was him....he moved interstate this morning....why why why????
We said our goodbyes - a hug, a kiss and an exchange of gifts...but it was so hard to look each other in the eye....we felt so awkward just being together I didnt want to let him go but was brave - held my head up - told him to take care and to keep in touch.......
This morning i woke at 5am thinking of him, it was my babies birthday and coming up my second christmas without my late husband...emotions running high and tears flowing like a waterfall I cried for the next 2 hours unable to control myself.....like a fool i text him and told him i thought I was falling for him again....he rung me and told me to stop talking silly but also heard the sadness in my voice and knew it was more than just him...so i told him... he was so great and by the time i got off the phone I felt better and stronger...then I text him back and told him that I promise that I would fight it because our friendship had more value than a relationship....damn im my own worse enemy ... even though I have come to terms with our relationship its still hard.....told him its probably good hes interstate and it may make things easier...time will tell....my heart aches but i know i have to be strong .....someone kick me !!!
m0msie46: OMG they say ...shes back ....yes I am
Just when I thought I was getting myself together....I slowly start falling apart...
Yesterday I had a visitor....yes it was him....he moved interstate this morning....why why why????
We said our goodbyes - a hug, a kiss and an exchange of gifts...but it was so hard to look each other in the eye....we felt so awkward just being together I didnt want to let him go but was brave - held my head up - told him to take care and to keep in touch.......
This morning i woke at 5am thinking of him, it was my babies birthday and coming up my second christmas without my late husband...emotions running high and tears flowing like a waterfall I cried for the next 2 hours unable to control myself.....like a fool i text him and told him i thought I was falling for him again....he rung me and told me to stop talking silly but also heard the sadness in my voice and knew it was more than just him...so i told him... he was so great and by the time i got off the phone I felt better and stronger...then I text him back and told him that I promise that I would fight it because our friendship had more value than a relationship....damn im my own worse enemy ... even though I have come to terms with our relationship its still hard.....told him its probably good hes interstate and it may make things easier...time will tell....my heart aches but i know i have to be strong .....someone kick me !!!
Just when I thought I was getting myself together....I slowly start falling apart...
Yesterday I had a visitor....yes it was him....he moved interstate this morning....why why why????
We said our goodbyes - a hug, a kiss and an exchange of gifts...but it was so hard to look each other in the eye....we felt so awkward just being together I didnt want to let him go but was brave - held my head up - told him to take care and to keep in touch.......
This morning i woke at 5am thinking of him, it was my babies birthday and coming up my second christmas without my late husband...emotions running high and tears flowing like a waterfall I cried for the next 2 hours unable to control myself.....like a fool i text him and told him i thought I was falling for him again....he rung me and told me to stop talking silly but also heard the sadness in my voice and knew it was more than just him...so i told him... he was so great and by the time i got off the phone I felt better and stronger...then I text him back and told him that I promise that I would fight it because our friendship had more value than a relationship....damn im my own worse enemy ... even though I have come to terms with our relationship its still hard.....told him its probably good hes interstate and it may make things easier...time will tell....my heart aches but i know i have to be strong .....someone kick me !!!
..... Kaaaaa!!! booot!!!! ...pull that love energy in for someone that is willing to share theirs with you Girl ! ..twill be better but only when you are...
m0msie46: OMG they say ...shes back ....yes I am
Just when I thought I was getting myself together....I slowly start falling apart...
Yesterday I had a visitor....yes it was him....he moved interstate this morning....why why why????
We said our goodbyes - a hug, a kiss and an exchange of gifts...but it was so hard to look each other in the eye....we felt so awkward just being together I didnt want to let him go but was brave - held my head up - told him to take care and to keep in touch.......
This morning i woke at 5am thinking of him, it was my babies birthday and coming up my second christmas without my late husband...emotions running high and tears flowing like a waterfall I cried for the next 2 hours unable to control myself.....like a fool i text him and told him i thought I was falling for him again....he rung me and told me to stop talking silly but also heard the sadness in my voice and knew it was more than just him...so i told him... he was so great and by the time i got off the phone I felt better and stronger...then I text him back and told him that I promise that I would fight it because our friendship had more value than a relationship....damn im my own worse enemy ... even though I have come to terms with our relationship its still hard.....told him its probably good hes interstate and it may make things easier...time will tell....my heart aches but i know i have to be strong .....someone kick me !!!
Just when I thought I was getting myself together....I slowly start falling apart...
Yesterday I had a visitor....yes it was him....he moved interstate this morning....why why why????
We said our goodbyes - a hug, a kiss and an exchange of gifts...but it was so hard to look each other in the eye....we felt so awkward just being together I didnt want to let him go but was brave - held my head up - told him to take care and to keep in touch.......
This morning i woke at 5am thinking of him, it was my babies birthday and coming up my second christmas without my late husband...emotions running high and tears flowing like a waterfall I cried for the next 2 hours unable to control myself.....like a fool i text him and told him i thought I was falling for him again....he rung me and told me to stop talking silly but also heard the sadness in my voice and knew it was more than just him...so i told him... he was so great and by the time i got off the phone I felt better and stronger...then I text him back and told him that I promise that I would fight it because our friendship had more value than a relationship....damn im my own worse enemy ... even though I have come to terms with our relationship its still hard.....told him its probably good hes interstate and it may make things easier...time will tell....my heart aches but i know i have to be strong .....someone kick me !!!
no offence mumsy.. but you are kidding yourself when you say you are just friends..
I know cos I have done it myself in the past ...you have feelings for this man... friend or no friend ... bottomline and something you REALLY need to start believing.... if he was yours he would be with you my advice.. as I said.. I have been there and it worked for me.. is to stay away for awhile..give yourself at least 3 months.. none or minimal contact and if you do talk, dont talk about things that make you believe there is something more than there is
so have a break from him... give yoruself time to start doing things with friends and for yourself .. in time you will realise you can and will live without him and be happy doing so
no offence taken Blondie I knew I was going to get such a reaction...yes i know everything you are saying is the truth and it sux...but it only sux cause its the truth...
I will always love him he was my first aussie love...but i think I am also strong enough to get over this.............
Lord give me strength, pride and dignity
I will always love him he was my first aussie love...but i think I am also strong enough to get over this.............
Lord give me strength, pride and dignity
yes this nightmare is back 
well its been almost a month since i was last on here and yes it has been a long month..
and yes hes back in my life...how things have happened I will never know...even though he has moved interstate we have become business partners...it was his suggestion... and our contact is now daily and more frequent. these last few days have been hard as he is stuck in the middle of the flooding at Toowoomba but is safe and surviving...
So yes he will be moving back here now there is nothing for him in Queensland....its ironic they say if you love them let them go if they come back its meant to be...hmmmm who knows....however I have changed a lot since he left but know when we meet up again (next Sunday) if he gets out of Queensland I will damn well crumble...
Once again Lord I ask for strength, pride and dignity..
well its been almost a month since i was last on here and yes it has been a long month..
and yes hes back in my life...how things have happened I will never know...even though he has moved interstate we have become business partners...it was his suggestion... and our contact is now daily and more frequent. these last few days have been hard as he is stuck in the middle of the flooding at Toowoomba but is safe and surviving...
So yes he will be moving back here now there is nothing for him in Queensland....its ironic they say if you love them let them go if they come back its meant to be...hmmmm who knows....however I have changed a lot since he left but know when we meet up again (next Sunday) if he gets out of Queensland I will damn well crumble...
Once again Lord I ask for strength, pride and dignity..
m0msie46: yes this nightmare is back
well its been almost a month since i was last on here and yes it has been a long month..
and yes hes back in my life...how things have happened I will never know...even though he has moved interstate we have become business partners...it was his suggestion... and our contact is now daily and more frequent. these last few days have been hard as he is stuck in the middle of the flooding at Toowoomba but is safe and surviving...
So yes he will be moving back here now there is nothing for him in Queensland....its ironic they say if you love them let them go if they come back its meant to be...hmmmm who knows....however I have changed a lot since he left but know when we meet up again (next Sunday) if he gets out of Queensland I will damn well crumble...
Once again Lord I ask for strength, pride and dignity..
Personally you are seeking advice that no-one can give you.well its been almost a month since i was last on here and yes it has been a long month..
and yes hes back in my life...how things have happened I will never know...even though he has moved interstate we have become business partners...it was his suggestion... and our contact is now daily and more frequent. these last few days have been hard as he is stuck in the middle of the flooding at Toowoomba but is safe and surviving...
So yes he will be moving back here now there is nothing for him in Queensland....its ironic they say if you love them let them go if they come back its meant to be...hmmmm who knows....however I have changed a lot since he left but know when we meet up again (next Sunday) if he gets out of Queensland I will damn well crumble...
Once again Lord I ask for strength, pride and dignity..
Your mind is made up, it is a road you have to go down and live with or regret. Good Luck.
sxc666: Personally you are seeking advice that no-one can give you.Your mind is made up, it is a road you have to go down and live with or regret. Good Luck.
blondeozichick: no offence mumsy.. but you are kidding yourself when you say you are just friends.. I know cos I have done it myself in the past ...you have feelings for this man... friend or no friend ... bottomline and something you REALLY need to start believing.... if he was yours he would be with you
my advice.. as I said.. I have been there and it worked for me.. is to stay away for awhile..give yourself at least 3 months.. none or minimal contact and if you do talk, dont talk about things that make you believe there is something more than there is
so have a break from him... give yoruself time to start doing things with friends and for yourself .. in time you will realise you can and will live without him and be happy doing so
The advice was given.my advice.. as I said.. I have been there and it worked for me.. is to stay away for awhile..give yourself at least 3 months.. none or minimal contact and if you do talk, dont talk about things that make you believe there is something more than there is
so have a break from him... give yoruself time to start doing things with friends and for yourself .. in time you will realise you can and will live without him and be happy doing so
never ending saga continues. nothing new ,but the same answer, MOVE ON..How do you stop loving someone you cant have... stop communicating with them, remove any traces of their existence from your space...
Did he tell you why he couldn't commit? Maybe he's afraid of something, maybe if you could figure out the reasons for his non-commitment, that would help you to better figure out what you should really do with this relationship. He's asked you to keep your options open, is he doing the same thing? Good luck to you and remember if it is meant to be, it will be!
m0msie46: Do tell how do you stop loving someone you cant have? Met a wonderful guy on here 10 months ago - instant connection.....we have a beautiful strong bond and keep in contact daily .... we have only met up twice and have enjoyed being with each other but I want more .... he has always been upfront and honest with me and told me he cant commit to me but I sit and wait and hope...sounds so silly doesnt it...but he also knows how I feel and has told me time and time again to keep my options open and not focus on him but I cant I have tried dating, chatting but its not the same....someone tell me please ..... yes everyone has told me to forget about him and move on....but our bond is so strong we love each other as the best of friends and know we cant let a day go by without talking is this weird or wat??? No he is divorced and very single...
I was a fool once for 10 years, then I stopped all communication, it was the hardest thing I have ever done, but am much happier now than I have ever been. Yes he still holds a place in my heart, but no longer consumes my life.
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Freddy had a totally different life style to mine. Don't believe every mo you read.