QUESTION FOR THE WOMEN.... ( Archived) (33)

Sep 16, 2006 7:14 PM CST QUESTION FOR THE WOMEN....
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Why is it when we have trouble with "men"...we choose to go to other women with our tales of woe and ask for advice...confused

And do you think it makes sense to go to the source??...that being the "men" themselves (maybe not the man you're with, but a member of the male gender...)
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Sep 16, 2006 7:16 PM CST QUESTION FOR THE WOMEN....
TexasTornado
TexasTornadoTexasTornadofairfield, USA22 Threads 2,701 Posts
now if i need comfort i usually go to a woman... if i want answers.. i tend to go to the source i ask a man i trust
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Sep 16, 2006 7:19 PM CST QUESTION FOR THE WOMEN....
schmorbraten
schmorbratenschmorbratenCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany33 Threads 1,462 Posts
Funny that you pulled up this now.

So you ment a woman whisperer?confused cool
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Sep 16, 2006 7:21 PM CST QUESTION FOR THE WOMEN....
Serenity1971
Serenity1971Serenity1971Serenity's Island, New York USA81 Threads 2 Polls 3,815 Posts
Actually I do ask both so that I can get both perspectives on it. This way I can see if maybe I'm doing something wrong or interpreting something wrong or vice versa. Sometimes having the perspective of both helps me to look at the situation from an outside standpoint rather than inside.

conversing conversing conversing
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Sep 16, 2006 7:22 PM CST QUESTION FOR THE WOMEN....
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
LOL...no Lutz...reading again...as usual...grin thumbs up
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Sep 16, 2006 7:30 PM CST QUESTION FOR THE WOMEN....
kenigsberg
kenigsbergkenigsbergkentville, Nova Scotia Canada13 Threads 1,127 Posts
Isn't this a logical way to go with your confusion and thirst for answers and explanations ....to a friend, representative of the "male gender"
Who will know better than HIM ... a man

And as for a problems with girlfriends it is opposite ...
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Sep 16, 2006 7:30 PM CST QUESTION FOR THE WOMEN....
WhiteAsh
WhiteAshWhiteAshTurtle Lake, Wisconsin USA7 Threads 688 Posts
I have had the same girlfriends for many years, yes we talk about everything. I do not have any men friends.
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Sep 16, 2006 7:34 PM CST QUESTION FOR THE WOMEN....
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
So would you say it is a fair statement that they would give you advice based on their own experiences with men?

And if so...if they are not men...how can they tell you how a man should react..or what his reaction meant???
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Sep 16, 2006 7:38 PM CST QUESTION FOR THE WOMEN....
nothingcliche
nothingclichenothingclicheEmerald Isle, North Carolina USA1 Posts
I totally think living with a man in which you have no romantic tendencies towards helps learn about men, and how they view the world...bottom line they just dont worry as much as we do...(mostly all them anyway)!cheers
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Sep 16, 2006 7:40 PM CST QUESTION FOR THE WOMEN....
catwm
catwmcatwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA48 Threads 6,683 Posts
Because most of the time the trouble we have with men is that they can not talk about things................sigh
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Sep 16, 2006 7:43 PM CST QUESTION FOR THE WOMEN....
WhiteAsh
WhiteAshWhiteAshTurtle Lake, Wisconsin USA7 Threads 688 Posts
Yes, there advise is based on their own experiences. I do not have male friends, so it is impossible to ask them for advise.Only ex husbands.
Maybe you can find me some? Males who want to be my friend.
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Sep 16, 2006 7:45 PM CST QUESTION FOR THE WOMEN....
Assets52
Assets52Assets52Littleton, New Hampshire USA125 Threads 2,174 Posts
Personally, I don't go to a woman. Most of my friends are men, my best friend is a man. They give logical advice. No emotions - no hormones - just their straight opinion.
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Sep 16, 2006 7:46 PM CST QUESTION FOR THE WOMEN....
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
hug I am sure there are many men on here that would love to be your friend and would be glad to answer any questions you may have...

I wouldn't say i have a lot of male FRIENDS in my daily life...but i do know i have alot on here...and it is where i come for answers...cheers
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Sep 16, 2006 7:47 PM CST QUESTION FOR THE WOMEN....
spidermiss2426
spidermiss2426spidermiss2426Maxton, NC, USA16 Threads 348 Posts
I don't ask women. I ask men. Actually, my friends are men. I don't get along with most women.
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Sep 16, 2006 7:47 PM CST QUESTION FOR THE WOMEN....
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
I will agree Assets...for the most part when you ask a man a question pertaining to ANOTHER MAN...(lol) they do give you an answer in a logical, no "drama" way!!
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Sep 16, 2006 7:56 PM CST QUESTION FOR THE WOMEN....
WhiteAsh
WhiteAshWhiteAshTurtle Lake, Wisconsin USA7 Threads 688 Posts
In the nursing home where I work there are only girls on my shift, we have worked together for years.
Maybe, I will think of a question some day ,for the men here. Right now I have to go to work. Night all.
Thanks wikked.
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Sep 16, 2006 7:58 PM CST QUESTION FOR THE WOMEN....
I'll answer any womans question regardless what it is ... just don't ask me if you don't want a truthful answer

I'm a big meanie laugh
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Sep 16, 2006 7:59 PM CST QUESTION FOR THE WOMEN....
native_grl38
native_grl38native_grl38Belleville, Canada10 Threads 4,332 Posts
I agree assets...we can be pretty dramatic!!!!!!!!

I have good g/f's that I confide in and they have pretty good heads on their shoulders so I value their opinions...But yes I think the best place to go also is to another man for a male opinion!!!!!!

conversing conversing
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Sep 16, 2006 8:05 PM CST QUESTION FOR THE WOMEN....
I don't go to either for advice. I'm very confident with my own decision-making capabilities, especially when it comes to men or relationships. I have a harder time deciding what outfit I want to wear on a particular day.
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Sep 16, 2006 8:05 PM CST QUESTION FOR THE WOMEN....
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
But sometimes you miss out on having your best friend jump on the band wagon with you as you rant and rave and call him names...before you actually reach the point of rationally discussing it...well kind of rational anyways...grin

crying very mad conversing
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