Next move with a man (42)
If you like him then why to ask?
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He already made the invitation... you are merely responding. Text him, of course!
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I should text "They say the coffee at X coffee house is good..."
Like that, if he doesn't reply you won't be embarrassed next time you go to the dentist - and if you go and it becomes clear that TALKING is all he wants, you're still cool...
Like that, if he doesn't reply you won't be embarrassed next time you go to the dentist - and if you go and it becomes clear that TALKING is all he wants, you're still cool...
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eurolady: If you like him then why to ask?
Because I don't know if he really meant that we should go for a coffee or it was a casual remark. I really don't want to make a fool of myself. I mean it's bad enough I spoke about my private life with my dentist!
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i would callgo for it what have you got to loose,all he can say is no...
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missingLondon: I've just been to the dentist's, the one I've been going to for years. As we were chatting, we ended up chatting for a good 25 mins. about my recent break up and although the guy did not spell it out it seems he's divorced as he said he got over his experience by reading books and not going to therapy and suggested where I should start hanging out to meet divorced men. At one point he had to stop the chat as he had other clients and told me we could chat over a coffee. All I could say was good idea!
The man is attractive and intelligent and I certainly wouldn't mind having a coffee with him. I have his mobile number. Should I just forget his coffee invite as a casual remark or send a text and act upon it.
Would I basically be making a fool of myself if I did? Any advice welcome as I'm really hopeless at this sort of stuff. Please help.
The man is attractive and intelligent and I certainly wouldn't mind having a coffee with him. I have his mobile number. Should I just forget his coffee invite as a casual remark or send a text and act upon it.
Would I basically be making a fool of myself if I did? Any advice welcome as I'm really hopeless at this sort of stuff. Please help.
Hi C
It can do no harm to send him a text & say something like ' can we still meet for that coffee ' You will not be making a fool of yourself at all. Good luck
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If you're interested in him, go for it... take the chance, you won't look foolish. Even if he's not interested, he'll probably be flattered anyhow, and it will be just a coffee
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Seriously now... I disagree with the text strategy and suggestions... it feels like she is scared. On the other hand, a confident woman is a huge turn-on. JMO 
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and: added to that: live up to your own quote on your profile: "Would much rather regret doing something than not doing it."
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missingLondon: Because I don't know if he really meant that we should go for a coffee or it was a casual remark. I really don't want to make a fool of myself. I mean it's bad enough I spoke about my private life with my dentist!
all he can say is no thanks but start with the coffe 1st. 
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Go for it.
But if I were you.. I would choose a different approach.
Take some time.. may be another couple of days and see if he contacts you... if not, make up a stupid enough reason to go back there saying your "tooth still aches" or something
And casually.. but firmly make a slight remark.. like "hey...great we didn't have that coffee, it would have been much worse"
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you know.. something funny and a bit stupid all to-gether.. and still if he doesn't pick up on the clue.. move on... either he's not interested or absolute dumb (which you would be better off in the first place)
Hope that helps..
But if I were you.. I would choose a different approach.
Take some time.. may be another couple of days and see if he contacts you... if not, make up a stupid enough reason to go back there saying your "tooth still aches" or something
And casually.. but firmly make a slight remark.. like "hey...great we didn't have that coffee, it would have been much worse"
..you know.. something funny and a bit stupid all to-gether.. and still if he doesn't pick up on the clue.. move on... either he's not interested or absolute dumb (which you would be better off in the first place)
Hope that helps..
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Oooooooooooooooh NEVER SLEEP WITH YOUR DENTIST!!
Or maybe you should.......free dental!!!
Or maybe you should.......free dental!!!
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911gypsy: Oooooooooooooooh NEVER SLEEP WITH YOUR DENTIST!!
Or maybe you should.......free dental!!!
Or maybe you should.......free dental!!!
And you get your cavities filled.
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ChasingCars: And you get your cavities filled.
You dirty birdy
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missingLondon: I've just been to the dentist's, the one I've been going to for years. As we were chatting, we ended up chatting for a good 25 mins. about my recent break up and although the guy did not spell it out it seems he's divorced as he said he got over his experience by reading books and not going to therapy and suggested where I should start hanging out to meet divorced men. At one point he had to stop the chat as he had other clients and told me we could chat over a coffee. All I could say was good idea!
The man is attractive and intelligent and I certainly wouldn't mind having a coffee with him. I have his mobile number. Should I just forget his coffee invite as a casual remark or send a text and act upon it.
Would I basically be making a fool of myself if I did? Any advice welcome as I'm really hopeless at this sort of stuff. Please help.
The man is attractive and intelligent and I certainly wouldn't mind having a coffee with him. I have his mobile number. Should I just forget his coffee invite as a casual remark or send a text and act upon it.
Would I basically be making a fool of myself if I did? Any advice welcome as I'm really hopeless at this sort of stuff. Please help.
I hate dentists ... okay I hate everyone ...
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The man is attractive and intelligent and I certainly wouldn't mind having a coffee with him. I have his mobile number. Should I just forget his coffee invite as a casual remark or send a text and act upon it.
Would I basically be making a fool of myself if I did? Any advice welcome as I'm really hopeless at this sort of stuff. Please help.