A guys opinion on single mothers? ( Archived) (357)

Feb 6, 2011 12:44 PM CST A guys opinion on single mothers?
maryrachelle
maryrachellemaryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada27 Threads 1,370 Posts
allmcc: Whenever i tell a guy i have children i watch them run.

For every single mother out there a single father also exist.Being as I don't date women I can say that having gone down the road of dating single dads many times I would never ever do that again.With men it's almost like the moment there is a woman around they will just sit there and drool on the couch while you tend to every need of THEIR child.All of the sudden they think they have scored a free babysitter patsy.thumbs down
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Feb 6, 2011 12:46 PM CST A guys opinion on single mothers?
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
allmcc: Whenever i tell a guy i have children i watch them run.
not mewave
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Feb 10, 2011 11:05 AM CST A guys opinion on single mothers?
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
I guess it is all a matter of chemistry between fathers, mothers and children.
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Feb 16, 2011 5:26 AM CST A guys opinion on single mothers?
coolricky
coolrickycoolrickybelfast, Antrim Ireland9 Threads 1 Polls 36 Posts
In response to: Whenever i tell a guy i have children i watch them run.
well the only thing i can say is tell them to run faster as they ant worth it i have spoke about this before being a single parent myself if they cant except you for who you are and your family they ant worth knowing are they i meet the same problem on a farthers side and it is not nice so i say to people is give single parents a chance in life as most of them deserve it and can be very loveable .
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Feb 16, 2011 9:39 PM CST A guys opinion on single mothers?
forestshaks
forestshaksforestshaksgalway/dublin, Galway Ireland435 Posts
allmcc: Whenever i tell a guy i have children i watch them run.


I love single mothers they are the best....heart wings lips
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Feb 17, 2011 2:12 AM CST A guys opinion on single mothers?
Suntory_Times
Suntory_TimesSuntory_TimesMornington, Victoria Australia1 Threads 31 Posts
allmcc: Whenever i tell a guy i have children i watch them run.


They only run. I sprint.
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Feb 17, 2011 2:12 PM CST A guys opinion on single mothers?
witboy
witboywitboyGifhorn, Lower Saxony Germany92 Posts
Suntory_Times: They only run. I sprint.

I just try to stay very, very quiet and hope the mommy T-Rex won't notice me banana
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Feb 26, 2011 8:21 PM CST A guys opinion on single mothers?
puppypower
puppypowerpuppypowerRockhampton, Queensland Australia9 Threads 2 Polls 757 Posts
personally I would have thought if someone runs because your a single mum it would be a simple matter of saying to yourself
" ok he wasnt right for me " and move on .

Face it having a relationship with someone that has kids is a daunting task and isnt taken lightly .
Would you rather they stuck around and made things unbearable because they didnt want to be there ?

Fact is single mothers are a package deal and not everyone wants an instant family .
sure there is other factors involved ie kids age, opportunities for alone time etc etc .


You asked for guys opinions and mine would be " I have 2 children I dont need / want any more " shallow and fickle maybe but like it or not its my decision as to having a relationship and if Im not comfortable its not going to happen .

well of course if your looking for a no strings attached regular roll in the hay sign me up


wink


pp
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Feb 27, 2011 10:50 PM CST A guys opinion on single mothers?
Run John run
Run run run

Run John run
Don't confuse the moon with the sun!

allmcc: Whenever i tell a guy i have children i watch them run.
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Feb 27, 2011 10:52 PM CST A guys opinion on single mothers?
lilalia11
lilalia11lilalia11Bishkek, Kyrgyzstan14 Threads 2 Polls 202 Posts
goodguyyy64: if someone cares for you enough he should care for your children just as much.
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Feb 27, 2011 11:27 PM CST A guys opinion on single mothers?
nattyj
nattyjnattyjPort Macquarie, NSW, New South Wales Australia1 Posts
Is that physically run or .... I am new to being single mother so i'm yet to experience this side
allmcc: Whenever i tell a guy i have children i watch them run.
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Feb 27, 2011 11:43 PM CST A guys opinion on single mothers?
darren9030
darren9030darren9030Peterborough, Cambridgeshire, England UK56 Threads 1 Polls 9,665 Posts
nattyj: Is that physically run or .... I am new to being single mother so i'm yet to experience this side


I don't think she meant physically. Nothing wrong with single mothers at all wave
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Feb 28, 2011 1:23 AM CST A guys opinion on single mothers?
DeusExMachina
DeusExMachinaDeusExMachinahaaltert, Oost Vlaanderen Belgium55 Threads 1 Polls 2,705 Posts
do single fathers faces the same problem?I think they do
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Feb 28, 2011 1:29 AM CST A guys opinion on single mothers?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
allmcc: Whenever i tell a guy i have children i watch them run.


You're so darn cute - that it wouldn't matter if you had three teenage girls ......heart beating grin laugh
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Feb 28, 2011 2:16 AM CST A guys opinion on single mothers?
lavina
lavinalavinaParadise, Indonesia12 Threads 4,755 Posts
allmcc: Whenever i tell a guy i have children i watch them run.


If there is a guy love you mean he has to take you 1 package (with your kids too) that mean he can accept you like who you are.

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Feb 28, 2011 2:19 AM CST A guys opinion on single mothers?
BorderGirl_Mx
BorderGirl_MxBorderGirl_MxMxli, Baja California Mexico1 Threads 38 Posts
thumbsup: thumbs up wave
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Feb 28, 2011 4:33 AM CST A guys opinion on single mothers?
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
BorderGirl_Mx: thumbsup:
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Mar 5, 2011 8:18 PM CST A guys opinion on single mothers?
lana123456
lana123456lana123456Rochester, Michigan USA8 Posts
This is an interesting topic. In my experience some guys will pretend to like your children just to get to you if you know what I mean but they're really not planning to stick around for long. Some guys will just not want to get involved at all and then there are those rare few who are just good , sincere accepting people. You have to be really cautious, a bit street smart and I tend to go with the guys who are devoted fathers, this way I KNOW for a fact that they can relate to me.
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Mar 5, 2011 8:21 PM CST A guys opinion on single mothers?
Dr_Hfuhruhurr
Dr_HfuhruhurrDr_HfuhruhurrCork, Ireland15 Threads 1 Polls 987 Posts
i think men have a problem with the fact there will always be that other man in your life (that is not always the case for whatever reason)
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Mar 6, 2011 2:56 AM CST A guys opinion on single mothers?
valinteno
valintenovalintenoPerth, Western Australia Australia2 Posts
It is a scary situation
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