Why do people marry the wrong man or woman? ( Archived) (91)

Dec 19, 2010 7:22 AM CST Why do people marry the wrong man or woman?
epicure
epicureepicureAlanya/Antalya, Mediterranean Turkey401 Threads 10 Polls 5,224 Posts
Because they don't know they're the wrong woman or man till they practise themlaugh
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Dec 19, 2010 7:23 AM CST Why do people marry the wrong man or woman?
cosmopolito
cosmopolitocosmopolitomalaga, Andalusia Spain5 Threads 8 Posts
Honesty pure and simple, we put on a mask when we meet someone, being P.C is so so so diplomatic and I have never meet a mind reader yet. Being able to accept a tablespoon now and a again could keep us all on the straight and narrow.
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Dec 19, 2010 7:30 AM CST Why do people marry the wrong man or woman?
cosmopolito: Honesty pure and simple, we put on a mask when we meet someone, being P.C is so so so diplomatic and I have never meet a mind reader yet. Being able to accept a tablespoon now and a again could keep us all on the straight and narrow.
Well, better don´t meet a mind-reading woman...those will blow you away...
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Dec 19, 2010 7:31 AM CST Why do people marry the wrong man or woman?
epicure
epicureepicureAlanya/Antalya, Mediterranean Turkey401 Threads 10 Polls 5,224 Posts
epicure: Because they don't know they're the wrong woman or man till they practise them


I still insist on this. This is the simplest reason.
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Dec 19, 2010 7:35 AM CST Why do people marry the wrong man or woman?
epicure: I still insist on this. This is the simplest reason.
Are there NOT WRONG people for every one of us?
I doubt if I follow Einstein principle of the longest distance...wave
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Dec 19, 2010 7:39 AM CST Why do people marry the wrong man or woman?
epicure
epicureepicureAlanya/Antalya, Mediterranean Turkey401 Threads 10 Polls 5,224 Posts
Antjo39: Are there NOT WRONG people for every one of us?
I doubt if I follow Einstein principle of the longest distance...
u're a good thread follower handshake wave
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Dec 19, 2010 7:45 AM CST Why do people marry the wrong man or woman?
Liebe2
Liebe2Liebe2Salmiya, Hawalli Kuwait12 Threads 3,449 Posts
You learn from your mistakes. dancing
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Dec 19, 2010 7:50 AM CST Why do people marry the wrong man or woman?
Desertguy49
Desertguy49Desertguy49South Western Desert, Arizona USA7 Threads 2,259 Posts
Raging hormones...dunno
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Dec 19, 2010 9:57 AM CST Why do people marry the wrong man or woman?
lavina
lavinalavinaParadise, Indonesia12 Threads 4,755 Posts
amahlala: Because at the time, they were NOT the wrong man/woman. People change and evolve and if both partners can't do it equally and accept it, then the relationship ends.


agree thumbs up
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Dec 19, 2010 10:09 AM CST Why do people marry the wrong man or woman?
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
Ever listen to a song called the Hungry Years! The marriage is fine whilst both are pulling in the same direction and trying to build a working life and family together.

When these things arrive and both partners have what they want, one or both get discontented and start to look elsewhere.

Besides, marriage was invented at a time when we died at about 35 years of age. It was never meant to last this long!conversing

Failing that, when ye women stop performing the way you should, we should be allowed to trade in for a younger model like our cars!hole
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Dec 19, 2010 10:28 AM CST Why do people marry the wrong man or woman?
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
Why do people marry the wrong man or woman?


Because the right man or woman married somebody else.
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Dec 19, 2010 11:01 AM CST Why do people marry the wrong man or woman?
fishitfun
fishitfunfishitfunMiddle East, Al Asimah Kuwait31 Threads 646 Posts
missingLondon: Reasons?
It is their destiny.
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Dec 19, 2010 11:21 AM CST Why do people marry the wrong man or woman?
craig63: hi goddess, very true but i would rather be on my own than unhappy.

merry xmas
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yes and I also agree with marriage is work theory - at least not work in the negative sense

it should be joy - if it's not ....well.....wave
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Dec 19, 2010 11:24 AM CST Why do people marry the wrong man or woman?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
<---looking for my future ex .....uh oh
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Dec 19, 2010 11:26 AM CST Why do people marry the wrong man or woman?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I don't think we fall for the wrong people.I think we fall for the right person at that time or who we think them to be at that moment.

We don't fall for the wrong person,we just sometimes lack patience to wait for the right one.
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Dec 19, 2010 11:27 AM CST Why do people marry the wrong man or woman?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
amahlala: Because at the time, they were NOT the wrong man/woman. People change and evolve and if both partners can't do it equally and accept it, then the relationship ends.


I disagree, they were always the wrong man/woman because we picked-em outta a suncinscious effort to satisfy some deep rooted issue we either had with our mom , dad , or previous girl/boyfriend..............dunno
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Dec 19, 2010 11:28 AM CST Why do people marry the wrong man or woman?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
Liebe2: You learn from your mistakes.


Well then you'de be the first ....laugh
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Dec 19, 2010 11:29 AM CST Why do people marry the wrong man or woman?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
jvaski: I disagree, they were always the wrong man/woman because we picked-em outta a suncinscious effort to satisfy some deep rooted issue we either had with our mom , dad , or previous girl/boyfriend..............



Are you talking about out of spite.
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Dec 19, 2010 11:30 AM CST Why do people marry the wrong man or woman?
felixis99: yes and I also agree with marriage is work theory - at least not work in the negative sense

it should be joy - if it's not ....well.....


that was supposed to say I don't agree with the marriage is work theory- at least not work in the negative sense. No one should be suffering or feel stifledprofessor
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Dec 19, 2010 11:36 AM CST Why do people marry the wrong man or woman?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
Ccincy: Are you talking about out of spite.


Not just me, but I've seen plenty of my friends repeatedly marry the wrong person - over and over .......as if to suggest they are after something unattainable laugh
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