Honesty pure and simple, we put on a mask when we meet someone, being P.C is so so so diplomatic and I have never meet a mind reader yet. Being able to accept a tablespoon now and a again could keep us all on the straight and narrow.
cosmopolito: Honesty pure and simple, we put on a mask when we meet someone, being P.C is so so so diplomatic and I have never meet a mind reader yet. Being able to accept a tablespoon now and a again could keep us all on the straight and narrow.
Well, better don´t meet a mind-reading woman...those will blow you away...
amahlala: Because at the time, they were NOT the wrong man/woman. People change and evolve and if both partners can't do it equally and accept it, then the relationship ends.
Ever listen to a song called the Hungry Years! The marriage is fine whilst both are pulling in the same direction and trying to build a working life and family together.
When these things arrive and both partners have what they want, one or both get discontented and start to look elsewhere.
Besides, marriage was invented at a time when we died at about 35 years of age. It was never meant to last this long!
Failing that, when ye women stop performing the way you should, we should be allowed to trade in for a younger model like our cars!
amahlala: Because at the time, they were NOT the wrong man/woman. People change and evolve and if both partners can't do it equally and accept it, then the relationship ends.
I disagree, they were always the wrong man/woman because we picked-em outta a suncinscious effort to satisfy some deep rooted issue we either had with our mom , dad , or previous girl/boyfriend..............
jvaski: I disagree, they were always the wrong man/woman because we picked-em outta a suncinscious effort to satisfy some deep rooted issue we either had with our mom , dad , or previous girl/boyfriend..............
felixis99: yes and I also agree with marriage is work theory - at least not work in the negative sense
it should be joy - if it's not ....well.....
that was supposed to say I don't agree with the marriage is work theory- at least not work in the negative sense. No one should be suffering or feel stifled
Not just me, but I've seen plenty of my friends repeatedly marry the wrong person - over and over .......as if to suggest they are after something unattainable
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