-lack of communication -don't know each other better -lack of trust -jealousy -dishonesty Many reasons and after all very rarely are couples who are both right,in the majority of cases one is good and the other less.
-lack of communication -don't know each other better -lack of trust -jealousy -dishonesty Many reasons and after all very rarely are couples who are both right,in the majority of cases one is good and the other less.
JeanMarlowMiddle of Nowhere, California USA815 posts
Ccincy: I don't think we fall for the wrong people.I think we fall for the right person at that time or who we think them to be at that moment.
We don't fall for the wrong person,we just sometimes lack patience to wait for the right one.
It is the falling that is the problem. People don't think. They want romance and passion and think that his all they need. The term itself, "falling in love," suggests what it is. Not a positive thing, actually. Allow love to grow, don't fall into it.
srsly - course not. yanno there r times when no one is a pig. sometimes it just comes down to compatibility issues that didn't surface and it can go the other way too - sometimes people dont give it enuff time cuz divorce is so easy
but when you see someone, like yu said, mayy the wrong person over & over. Well, there's a message there...
I didn't say that I refered in general and at reasons although I must recognize I saw some men who comported like animals in marriages-and I refer here at violence,especially when they are drunk.
jvaski: Usually the man is a PIG right ?
But what is sad and hurts is in majority of cases at these violences must participate children and they have no quilty for this.
Maybe they were the right person at the wrong time.
Sometimes things in life just don't work out. You move on. Try not to dwell in a bad place or then you find yourself sadly not fit for a relationship with anybody or anything. Not even capable of having a dog for a friend. Sometimes it is not figuring out why it did not work that is the answer. It is accepting that it did not work and owning up to your part and then move on. Happy holidays.
so if you live togeather for a while will that decrease the chance of this mistake? they say the whole lust thing only last about 9 mounths if it only that
Because most people are in love with the idea of marrying somebody, some people just don’t want to be alone so they settle for whatever comes their way which is a bad mixture for a huge costly divorce down the road. I’ve been engaged three times in my life and called all three of them off because I decided to live with the person to get to know what I’m getting myself into. The whole time I discover that the person whom I thought I was in love with was just putting on an act the entire time we were dating during the years.
Ladies the pickings are slim for us out there because there’s a lot of quantity but not much quality these days. That’s my take on things or how I see it.
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-lack of communication
-don't know each other better
-lack of trust
-jealousy
-dishonesty
Many reasons and after all very rarely are couples who are both right,in the majority of cases one is good and the other less.