langleygirl: Care to explain what you mean by "evil action of love" ..... as well, I think "its heavy requirements" would be more relative to how an individual views their world ie. must do this to prove love (does it really require that) or are people just making things up?
Love creates its own mechanisms that destroys itself as any other thing: one example is constant contact, another one is the necessity to find the ways to be together (which creates more a financial partnership than a love partnership) and on and on. In the end, some people can survive these HEAVY REQUIREMENTS and continue their life together, but many succumb just because it is too much asked for just being with someone else for whom all capacity to be excited and fascinated has been depleted. Certainly, when one chooses friendship or any other sort of human relationship, nothing like this can happen. I hope I explain myself better this time.
Speaking of alcohol (early in the post) some of us attract those who like to drink a wee bit too much lol. Big sign on my forehead if you are an alcoholic online hey Dawn will date you lol.
Speaking of alcohol (early in the post) some of us attract those who like to drink a wee bit too much lol. Big sign on my forehead if you are an alcoholic online hey Dawn will date you lol.
Dawn7z: Speaking of alcohol (early in the post) some of us attract those who like to drink a wee bit too much lol. Big sign on my forehead if you are an alcoholic online hey Dawn will date you lol.
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Antjo39: Last night while driving back home I just stopped to buy some wine and my eyes met some Argentinian wine on the shelves I had never seen in Peru. I used to drink this one with my ex when we spent some time in the Aconcagua area, so some flashes of intense remembrances invaded my mind. I realised that besides all the things that made us dislike each other, there were many moments when we had the potential to be good friends, and probbaly we could have been friends today. I mean a friendship based on brotherhood and affinity. However, we had a better idea, we decided to follow a relationship, as others based on hopes, previous wounds and disabilities, so we fell apart inevitably by the evil action of love and its heavy requirements.
Is it love- I mean that kind of love between a male and a female - one of the biggest sources of pain on this earth?
Real love knows no boundries, there is NOTHING that gets in the way of it, its the strongest emotion that two people experience maybe once in a lifetime.... Sadly there will always be one person in that relationship that will feel it so much more,....but,..if you get a combination of two people that REALLY feel it then that bond is without a doubt... Unbreakable. We all search for that in life, and Blessed are our old folk who make it to the end with each other. In the words of a fav Clint Eastwood film,.. Bridges of Madison County...".. Quote" "I'll say this once, never said it before,..this kind of certainty only comes once"..unquote"
A quote that I've heard before..."there is quite a difference between knowing the path and walking it...those who walk it are few in number, but have the strength of a mountain...love is more than feelings, it is a path itself and requires determined choice, I have no love for any particular person, but an enormous amount for humanity; it is not an easy decision in a world full of hatred; but do something original: choose life.
Hi English, i love that film and the book is even better. But remember in the film though he said this, the woman let him go. Real love does come with certainity, with a blast, but that doesn't mean it sustains the storms of living.
In regards to the thread I've always liked the quote " A true measure of true love is that one can insult the other"
Antjo39: Last night while driving back home I just stopped to buy some wine and my eyes met some Argentinian wine on the shelves I had never seen in Peru. I used to drink this one with my ex when we spent some time in the Aconcagua area, so some flashes of intense remembrances invaded my mind. I realised that besides all the things that made us dislike each other, there were many moments when we had the potential to be good friends, and probbaly we could have been friends today. I mean a friendship based on brotherhood and affinity. However, we had a better idea, we decided to follow a relationship, as others based on hopes, previous wounds and disabilities, so we fell apart inevitably by the evil action of love and its heavy requirements.
Is it love- I mean that kind of love between a male and a female - one of the biggest sources of pain on this earth?
woolfwithaview: Hi English, i love that film and the book is even better. But remember in the film though he said this, the woman let him go. Real love does come with certainity, with a blast, but that doesn't mean it sustains the storms of living.
In regards to the thread I've always liked the quote " A true measure of true love is that one can insult the other"
jodestir: is love one of the biggest sources of pain on this earth?
Absolutely .. without a doubt.
in my view it's not love that is painful but the loss of love or rejection that is the pain source... love heals the pain that is often caused by fear if we care to use love correctly and quit blaming love for our misgivings
if something bad happens it is the use of fear that either created it or it is fear that will exacerbate it or love that will heal it... and it is always a choice as to what we use(love or fear) to handle things...
Everyone says that love hurts,but that's not true Loneliness hurts,rejection hurts,losing someone hurts
Everyone confuses these things with love but in reality LOVE is the only thing in this world that covers up all the pain and makes us feel wonderful again
Everyone says that love hurts,but that's not true Loneliness hurts,rejection hurts,losing someone hurts
Everyone confuses these things with love but in reality LOVE is the only thing in this world that covers up all the pain and makes us feel wonderful again
Antjo39: Last night while driving back home I just stopped to buy some wine and my eyes met some Argentinian wine on the shelves I had never seen in Peru. I used to drink this one with my ex when we spent some time in the Aconcagua area, so some flashes of intense remembrances invaded my mind. I realised that besides all the things that made us dislike each other, there were many moments when we had the potential to be good friends, and probbaly we could have been friends today. I mean a friendship based on brotherhood and affinity. However, we had a better idea, we decided to follow a relationship, as others based on hopes, previous wounds and disabilities, so we fell apart inevitably by the evil action of love and its heavy requirements.
Is it love- I mean that kind of love between a male and a female - one of the biggest sources of pain on this earth?
For me.. Love was the biggest giver of happiness,self acceptance,and joy. The loss of that love(through death)was the biggest devastation,and grief.would I go back and wipe the both,not a chance,would I go back and do both all again,without hesitation!
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