Until love falls apart... ( Archived) (87)

Feb 3, 2011 3:27 PM CST Until love falls apart...
sasyecats: and I keep forgetting to buy a ticket
I don´t buy them either, it is good to save money. laugh
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Feb 3, 2011 3:39 PM CST Until love falls apart...
langleygirl: Care to explain what you mean by "evil action of love" ..... as well, I think "its heavy requirements" would be more relative to how an individual views their world ie. must do this to prove love (does it really require that) or are people just making things up?
Love creates its own mechanisms that destroys itself as any other thing: one example is constant contact, another one is the necessity to find the ways to be together (which creates more a financial partnership than a love partnership) and on and on. In the end, some people can survive these HEAVY REQUIREMENTS and continue their life together, but many succumb just because it is too much asked for just being with someone else for whom all capacity to be excited and fascinated has been depleted.
Certainly, when one chooses friendship or any other sort of human relationship, nothing like this can happen.
I hope I explain myself better this time. wine
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Feb 3, 2011 3:46 PM CST Until love falls apart...
Speaking of alcohol (early in the post) some of us attract those who like to drink a wee bit too much lol. Big sign on my forehead if you are an alcoholic online hey Dawn will date you lol.
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Feb 3, 2011 3:46 PM CST Until love falls apart...
Speaking of alcohol (early in the post) some of us attract those who like to drink a wee bit too much lol. Big sign on my forehead if you are an alcoholic online hey Dawn will date you lol.
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Feb 3, 2011 3:46 PM CST Until love falls apart...
Dawn7z: Speaking of alcohol (early in the post) some of us attract those who like to drink a wee bit too much lol. Big sign on my forehead if you are an alcoholic online hey Dawn will date you lol.


Oops sorry double posted
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Feb 3, 2011 4:14 PM CST Until love falls apart...
Dawn7z: Oops sorry double posted


Hello Dawn, Long time friend,wave
I enjoy drinking some, tho life has slowed the consumption...laugh

so If and when I drink, I try to be more responsible, as it can take some south roads, Lolhug

Nice to see youwink
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Feb 3, 2011 4:17 PM CST Until love falls apart...
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
Antjo39: Last night while driving back home I just stopped to buy some wine and my eyes met some Argentinian wine on the shelves I had never seen in Peru. I used to drink this one with my ex when we spent some time in the Aconcagua area, so some flashes of intense remembrances invaded my mind.
I realised that besides all the things that made us dislike each other, there were many moments when we had the potential to be good friends, and probbaly we could have been friends today. I mean a friendship based on brotherhood and affinity. However, we had a better idea, we decided to follow a relationship, as others based on hopes, previous wounds and disabilities, so we fell apart inevitably by the evil action of love and its heavy requirements.

Is it love- I mean that kind of love between a male and a female - one of the biggest sources of pain on this earth?


Real love knows no boundries, there is NOTHING that gets in the way of it, its the strongest emotion that two people experience maybe once in a lifetime.... Sadly there will always be one person in that relationship that will feel it so much more,....but,..if you get a combination of two people that REALLY feel it then that bond is without a doubt... Unbreakable. We all search for that in life, and Blessed are our old folk who make it to the end with each other. In the words of a fav Clint Eastwood film,.. Bridges of Madison County...".. Quote" "I'll say this once, never said it before,..this kind of certainty only comes once"..unquote"yay
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Feb 3, 2011 4:27 PM CST Until love falls apart...
HotrodLarrys: Hello Dawn, Long time friend,
I enjoy drinking some, tho life has slowed the consumption...

so If and when I drink, I try to be more responsible, as it can take some south roads, Lol

Nice to see you


Nice to see you as well.wave
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Feb 4, 2011 1:50 AM CST Until love falls apart...
hahaahaha....how much prejudiced people can be! the wine only gave the setting for the relfection. A literary thing...laugh
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Feb 4, 2011 2:51 AM CST Until love falls apart...
dave471963
dave471963dave471963terre haute, Indiana USA20 Posts
A quote that I've heard before..."there is quite a difference between knowing the path and walking it...those who walk it are few in number, but have the strength of a mountain...love is more than feelings, it is a path itself and requires determined choice, I have no love for any particular person, but an enormous amount for humanity; it is not an easy decision in a world full of hatred; but do something original: choose life.
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Feb 4, 2011 4:29 AM CST Until love falls apart...
daisy333
daisy333daisy333Sydney, New South Wales Australia28 Threads 7 Polls 514 Posts
Antjo39: Stupid love songs profit on people´s pain for sure.


Yep. Country and western is the worst.
Everyone in the songs are always blue and lonesome. It does my head in.
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Feb 4, 2011 5:47 AM CST Until love falls apart...
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
Antjo39: hahaahaha....how much prejudiced people can be! the wine only gave the setting for the relfection. A literary thing...


A literary thing?.....Clever, clever boy!!!!!!!cool
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Feb 4, 2011 5:54 AM CST Until love falls apart...
woolfwithaview
woolfwithaviewwoolfwithaviewSt John's, Newfoundland Canada31 Posts
Hi English, i love that film and the book is even better. But remember in the film though he said this, the woman let him go. Real love does come with certainity, with a blast, but that doesn't mean it sustains the storms of living.

In regards to the thread I've always liked the quote " A true measure of true love is that one can insult the other"
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Feb 4, 2011 6:00 AM CST Until love falls apart...
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
Antjo39: Last night while driving back home I just stopped to buy some wine and my eyes met some Argentinian wine on the shelves I had never seen in Peru. I used to drink this one with my ex when we spent some time in the Aconcagua area, so some flashes of intense remembrances invaded my mind.
I realised that besides all the things that made us dislike each other, there were many moments when we had the potential to be good friends, and probbaly we could have been friends today. I mean a friendship based on brotherhood and affinity. However, we had a better idea, we decided to follow a relationship, as others based on hopes, previous wounds and disabilities, so we fell apart inevitably by the evil action of love and its heavy requirements.

Is it love- I mean that kind of love between a male and a female - one of the biggest sources of pain on this earth?




Wine will do that to you. wine
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Feb 4, 2011 6:02 AM CST Until love falls apart...
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
woolfwithaview: Hi English, i love that film and the book is even better. But remember in the film though he said this, the woman let him go. Real love does come with certainity, with a blast, but that doesn't mean it sustains the storms of living.

In regards to the thread I've always liked the quote " A true measure of true love is that one can insult the other"


thumbs up So true!!!!wine
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Feb 4, 2011 9:17 AM CST Until love falls apart...
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
jodestir: is love one of the biggest sources of pain on this earth?

Absolutely .. without a doubt.


in my view it's not love that is painful but the loss of love or rejection that is the pain source... love heals the pain that is often caused by fear if we care to use love correctly and quit blaming love for our misgivings mumbling thumbs down

if something bad happens it is the use of fear that either created it or it is fear that will exacerbate it or love that will heal it... and it is always a choice as to what we use(love or fear) to handle things...
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Feb 4, 2011 9:18 AM CST Until love falls apart...
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Love also brings us our highest highs...It seems that peeps forget that wine
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Feb 4, 2011 9:22 AM CST Until love falls apart...
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
I read this and i think it fits here

Everyone says that love hurts,but that's not true
Loneliness hurts,rejection hurts,losing someone hurts

Everyone confuses these things with love but in reality
LOVE is the only thing in this world that covers up all the pain and makes us feel wonderful againheart wings wave
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Feb 4, 2011 9:24 AM CST Until love falls apart...
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
demonfairy: I read this and i think it fits here

Everyone says that love hurts,but that's not true
Loneliness hurts,rejection hurts,losing someone hurts

Everyone confuses these things with love but in reality
LOVE is the only thing in this world that covers up all the pain and makes us feel wonderful again



hug teddybear wine
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Feb 4, 2011 9:26 AM CST Until love falls apart...
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus225 Posts
Antjo39: Last night while driving back home I just stopped to buy some wine and my eyes met some Argentinian wine on the shelves I had never seen in Peru. I used to drink this one with my ex when we spent some time in the Aconcagua area, so some flashes of intense remembrances invaded my mind.
I realised that besides all the things that made us dislike each other, there were many moments when we had the potential to be good friends, and probbaly we could have been friends today. I mean a friendship based on brotherhood and affinity. However, we had a better idea, we decided to follow a relationship, as others based on hopes, previous wounds and disabilities, so we fell apart inevitably by the evil action of love and its heavy requirements.

Is it love- I mean that kind of love between a male and a female - one of the biggest sources of pain on this earth?


For me..
Love was the biggest giver of happiness,self acceptance,and joy.
The loss of that love(through death)was the biggest devastation,and grief.would I go back and wipe the both,not a chance,would I go back and do both all again,without hesitation!
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