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this is the situation
had a baby, broke up just after giving birth..
he hooked up with this girl, when we were together, and now she is pregnant.
fine by me.
but my girl is seeing him every two weeks and it's not about her anymore....it's all about the new baby.
so obviously my girl is sad. She doesn't really want to talk about it, but from the bits and peaces I hear, she is sad and upset. He doesn't talk about it too. We are not on speaking terms anymore. I have my thoughts about it as well, but can't say anything about it.
from the day I got single again, I took care of her. she is my life.
I support her and me by a full time job which is very demanding.
it cause problems sometimes, but I can't let this job go...because of the money...it pays well.
now....it had been four years now and I really want to move on with my life. I have needs too....
but something is holding me back. I need to be there for my girl when she feels upset. she now starts asking questions why mummy and daddy don't live together.
she is already confronted with the new woman in daddy's life and she doesn't like it.
I have to tell her everytime that's just the way it is.
but I don't want to hurt her more by confronting her with mummy's new friend. it's difficult now, considering my job and the time I spend there...I don't want her to feel to be left alone.
so, I was wondering.....all you peeps here, who have been in the same situation...how did you handle this?
dammit, this situation is just too difficult to explain...