opening up /being disappointed (56)
kidatheart: I know what you mean, feel that way a lot lately.
Not much point in writing people that don't write back, or ever write you. It's a waste of time, and energy, so why bother.
Might be time to hit the "delete" button, although where do you stop?
Just give them a good scolding! Not much point in writing people that don't write back, or ever write you. It's a waste of time, and energy, so why bother.
Might be time to hit the "delete" button, although where do you stop?
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gemeh22: do you ever wonder if its worth it to open up to someone when the chances are is that they will not turn out to be the friend/person you thought they were and you will be disappointed/hurt in the end?
If people can't handle who you are, then they don't deserve you.
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Hi Gem..
Well, to be perfectly honest,i am not someone who opens up to anyone,about anything personal.I have never seen what it achieves.My personal life,feelings and emotions are mine,i own them,and i deal with them.
It doesnt mean to say if i am with someone i love i wouldnt tell them my love for them,but if you are both in love,talking about your feelings with eachother would come naturally.
Well, to be perfectly honest,i am not someone who opens up to anyone,about anything personal.I have never seen what it achieves.My personal life,feelings and emotions are mine,i own them,and i deal with them.
It doesnt mean to say if i am with someone i love i wouldnt tell them my love for them,but if you are both in love,talking about your feelings with eachother would come naturally.
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gemeh22: do you ever wonder if its worth it to open up to someone when the chances are is that they will not turn out to be the friend/person you thought they were and you will be disappointed/hurt in the end?
Think of it as a scale, Gem, with totally-shut-down-and-guarded at one end, and wide-open-free-and-easy at the other. It's probably not good to go all-out to either extreme. But I think it would be okay to move more in one direction sometimes, and other times move back toward the other. Meaning, it's okay if you feel guarded just now, you might feel less so tomorrow.
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gemeh22: do you ever wonder if its worth it to open up to someone when the chances are is that they will not turn out to be the friend/person you thought they were and you will be disappointed/hurt in the end?
It's not worth it.
People are bad.
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gemeh22: do you ever wonder if its worth it to open up to someone when the chances are is that they will not turn out to be the friend/person you thought they were and you will be disappointed/hurt in the end?
i hope you mean RL ..hi Gem!
i do take my time getting to know people,before deciding how will the friendship continue for me.not afraid to share my dark secrets though..
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chococherrie: once bitten twice shy..im just so tired of it all
once bitten, now vampire...
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LuvinHavinFun: once bitten, now vampire...
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gemeh22: do you ever wonder if its worth it to open up to someone when the chances are is that they will not turn out to be the friend/person you thought they were and you will be disappointed/hurt in the end?
Quite a few thread have been created with a similar subject ,in the past few days ... is it something in the air or the water...
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Boban1: Quite a few thread have been created with a similar subject ,in the past few days ... is it something in the air or the water...
Must be in space. There's been a solar flare causing geomagnetic thingies. Could be that.
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midnightbluebird: Must be in space. There's been a solar flare causing geomagnetic thingies. Could be that.
Thingies?
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Dagosto: Thingies?
thingy: noun; Used to describe an object on the spur of the moment when you have a sudden brain fritz and forget exactly what you were gonna say was.
Ex: Uhh.....get the report!.....program..thingy.
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LuvinHavinFun: once bitten, now vampire...
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gemeh22: do you ever wonder if its worth it to open up to someone when the chances are is that they will not turn out to be the friend/person you thought they were and you will be disappointed/hurt in the end?
Hi, my friend.
Well, for what its worth, Id say in general its better to leave the door open for contact and further communication.
I understand you are wary, and your right to be of anyone, but in time you will get to know them better and decide if they are right for you or not. Either as a potential partner, or just a pal.
You have to keep in mind HE might be feeling the same way, so as they say..."Slowly, Slowly, Catchy Monkey"..
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No and dont you ever either Gem
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Every relationship starts with friendship or should at least .... right?
I know what you mean, feel that way a lot lately.
Not much point in writing people that don't write back, or ever write you. It's a waste of time, and energy, so why bother.
Might be time to hit the "delete" button, although where do you stop?